How do you fall in love again after a failed relationship,is it possible to start a new romance,how can i do that,will some one tell me please.i need to be loved again.
2007-11-21 22:04:30 · 11 answers · asked by Susan 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont rush my sweet heart,love will find you,dont be caught on the rebound,enjoy your self awhile,believe me it will work out in the end ,it allways does,take care..
2007-11-21 22:20:08 · answer #1 · answered by miss behaving. 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hello from England. This is indeed a poignant question, and I consider it was brave of you to post it on here.
Of course it is possible to start a new romance again! Of course it is! I think (and I am no expert, believe me) the secret is not to look for love, but to let it find you. I realise, at the moment, that you will consider this most unlikely - but trust me when I say that it will happen!
Be yourself, display your wonderful and endearing qualities, be confident - and you will win through.
Good luck - I wish you well.
2007-11-21 22:11:40 · answer #2 · answered by colonel25743 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
This is a sad song I have heard so many times and each time I am reminded of a real song; the final lines says it all and I have changed the gender for you:
At seventeen she falls in love quite madly with eyes of tender blue.
At twenty-four she gets it rather badly with eyes of a different hue.
At thirty-five, you'll find her flirting sadly with two or three or more.
When she fancies she is passed love
It is then she meets her last love
And she loves him as she's never loved before.
Stop searching. It will come.
2007-11-21 22:20:18 · answer #3 · answered by Gaspode the wonder dog 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
well,it aint an easy job you know...you've got tor ecover..you cant just love that instant because you need to do so...i think its more of getting ready...being prepared...there's nothing i can suggest but just to move on...forget the things that could hurt you...look at it as just a nightmare...you really have to recover emotionaly...and maybe on your own...
yes it is possiblet o start but it would take some time depending on how much you've recovered fter the lost....
yeah,you do need to be loved again but i am pretty sure that there are still those people who love you like youre friends and youre family...at least with tehm,you can have they're loyalty till death....
you have to recognize what's holding you back and let go of it...and if you're ready(that is--you're sure you can handle another lost)..be prepared of another lost because you'll never know what would happen next....
2007-11-21 22:14:39 · answer #4 · answered by mysticbluz 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You should be patient.. It's possible to start a romance but not right away.. There was a saying that "Love is like a cat, it goes near you, but if you take a step closer, it would run away."
2007-11-21 22:09:12 · answer #5 · answered by Emily 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
You should first and above all love yourself...Don't go into anything unreasonable, try to organize your social life so you can meet as much people as possible...pay attention to those individuals that look promising...You should date a guy which likes things you like...
2007-11-21 22:14:17 · answer #6 · answered by javornik1270 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You will find romance again someday, it just takes time to heal from being crushed. Until then, just focus on being yourself and don't worry about dating for a while.
2007-11-21 22:08:15 · answer #7 · answered by yarr! 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I asked a painfully long question on here about the very same subject.One of the answerers and I have since fallen in love. Try making your question longer!
http://uk.answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=ApAO56TdFR72hxFPSWfQgTwhBgx.;_ylv=3?qid=20070901211946AA7lTNM
I was very lucky!
2007-11-21 22:12:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
u don t look for love, love ll ulook for u .just be patient and be observant.
2007-11-21 22:47:43 · answer #9 · answered by morrison o 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
....you look for it and you will never find it. your asking the wrong question. Love will find you and that is that. anything you force will not be anything close to love, rest assured.
2007-11-21 22:08:05 · answer #10 · answered by Louis K 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋