Family & Relationships - 21 November 2007

I want to find another way of having women catch me naked. I have left the door unlocked in coed dressing rooms before just as a dare to myself. I need another way

2007-11-21 15:02:58 · 7 answers · asked by cuttlefishkarl 1 in Singles & Dating

This guy I like was supposed to come to my house to hang out with me and mutual friends from work for a drink. He was all for it when we left work but he didn't show up. I told my friend that was my sign that he wasn't interested or he would have come.
The next work day he apologized for not coming & said he got home from work late (which I know is truthful) and said he made the mistake of going home and then crashed and had to work in the morning. He said he owed me twice now and said how about going out the next night instead (with the gang I assume- though he didn't specifically say that). I wasn't able to go the next night and nobody went out. Since then though he has mentioned a couple of times how he's sorry he missed it and has even teased me about a couple of things from the evening that he heard about.
Am I right to assume that his not coming is the "bigger" sign that he isn't interested or is his teasing me about it a good sign and I shouldn't give up? Whats my next move?

2007-11-21 15:02:15 · 7 answers · asked by jenny s 2 in Marriage & Divorce

does anyone know any corporations that donate money to causes??

2007-11-21 15:01:44 · 9 answers · asked by Hannah 3 in Singles & Dating

This guy I like was supposed to come to my house to hang out with me and mutual friends from work for a drink. He was all for it when we left work but he didn't show up. I told my friend that was my sign that he wasn't interested or he would have come.
The next work day he apologized for not coming & said he got home from work late (which I know is truthful) and said he made the mistake of going home and then crashed and had to work in the morning. He said he owed me twice now and said how about going out the next night instead (with the gang I assume- though he didn't specifically say that). I wasn't able to go the next night and nobody went out. Since then though he has mentioned a couple of times how he's sorry he missed it and has even teased me about a couple of things from the evening that he heard about.
Am I right to assume that his not coming is the "bigger" sign that he isn't interested or is his teasing me about it a good sign and I shouldn't give up? Whats my next move?

2007-11-21 15:00:52 · 3 answers · asked by jenny s 2 in Singles & Dating

N for how long was the friendship goin on? but ofcourse if there was no kissing or smtng.

--Pleease, Just be open n share your story, your experience,..cuz id love to know. :) Its so interesting for me.
-Dont you think, that when you first start as friends,.not even having the thought of you too being together forver,..and then when it happens, it gets even stronger.n special?

2007-11-21 14:58:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Is it possible? Been together 9 years and have a little one...not so easy to just leave. It happened 5 years ago but I found out about it 2 years ago...still having extreme trust issues. Any advice besides move on and get over it?

2007-11-21 14:58:11 · 18 answers · asked by pinkdaisy 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-21 14:58:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-21 14:56:23 · 4 answers · asked by galpal 2 in Family

2007-11-21 14:56:14 · 13 answers · asked by Yayooxy 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been married for over 5 years and my husband and I have had many problems in the relationship but I always toughed it out. I recently started feeling like I dont love him any longer. I met this wonderful man online from another country. He is the most romantic real person I have ever met. I have only known him for 2 weeks but we talk for hours on chat , text messaging and on the phone. we are both in love already. It happened so fast I do not know what to do. My husband thinks nothing is wrong in the marriage. I feel like I am a bad person... What do you think I should do..... My husband has no idea this is going on. I want to be with this man.. Please give me your advice.....

2007-11-21 14:55:25 · 19 answers · asked by lost girl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I said he doesnt need to know the exact # just that I KNOW I have no diseases. He argued that he does need to know because I could have slept with 50 guys and have stds.. I then told him that I could have slept with only 2 and caught 5 things. As long as i always used protection and have been tested and have nothing he doesnt need to know... right? Or wrong?

2007-11-21 14:55:02 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My guy is late thirties. We have been together for six months. I have tried to get him to tell me his history with past woman. He claims to have not been with anyone, with the exception of three woman this past year. He claims they are the only ones. I don't know if he only told me about them, because a freind told me about me about him having dated them or what.
How do you get a guy to tell you his history of past woman? He claims he was never gay. However, why does he say that he has never had a serious relationship before (outside of the other three, this past year, that two of which he claims, to only have kissed and nothing more).
He says that he never dated before that time.
How do I convince him to tell me his history? How do I know if he is being truthful?

2007-11-21 14:54:38 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what makes you guys melt?

what feels the best to you?

2007-11-21 14:54:08 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just turned eighteen in October and I have been dating a guy since September. We have been through our trails; fought and still can't help but rekinder our differences in 5 minutes or less.

My family members have no idea how serious we are in our relationship. I'm not ever really around any of my family members anymore since I'm busy I go to college and work all the time, but I still keep my residency at home. I haven't yet bought my guy to see my parents or even meet him. Is that something you have to do? I just don't want my parents judging since he's not "real" city more country then anything and he is a full-time student at a university here. He doesn't have very much money, yet I could give a fly.. my parents are ceo's and a supertintent of my local school system in my area.
I'm bringing him to Thanksgiving and driving 45 minutes to see my cousin. I'm driving my boyfriend since he doesn't have very much money and his car won't last. Should I tell my parents I am serious?

2007-11-21 14:53:58 · 3 answers · asked by Helen 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-21 14:52:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

heard some guys say that that's not a lot. i personally thought it was a decent number..

2007-11-21 14:52:12 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-21 14:51:20 · 1 answers · asked by ames 3 in Singles & Dating

I thought my mom had just met this guy in September. Turns out they met in Frebuary and my mom got pregnat in March! I knew she was pregnat but she only told me she was two months along last month! I had noticed she was gaining weight over the past 7 months before she told me, but didn't make a big thing out of it. Today she called me and said that she was going into labor! I rushed to the hospital and luckily it was just a faulse alarm. The real due date of the baby is December 7th. How can I ever trust my mom again?

2007-11-21 14:51:13 · 21 answers · asked by Justine 2 in Family

my dad wont let me have a myspace because he thinks ill give my info out?

2007-11-21 14:50:55 · 6 answers · asked by jasmine s 1 in Family

2007-11-21 14:49:35 · 5 answers · asked by boo 1 in Friends

do not hate my mother. I have worked through my feelings of anger and it took me a loooong time. A decade !!!! 1/3 of my life. I just want her to LEAVE me in peace for the rest of my life !!!
She was spoiled growing up and that coupled with an accident that made her nuts crushed spine from riding accident on lower spine screwed up her brain.
A complete spoiled rotten golden girl.
private schools, debutante, ivy league, summers in cannes at the Ritz, triumph sports cars, horses.
Everything in the world revolved around her.
Her parents were in denial and looked away while she raised me.
I'd tell them she hit me and they would say she was having a bad day.
She home schooled me and it was basically like being an indentured servent.
I am fortunate that the parts of her that were educated and brilliant rubbed off on me.
Finally after years being basically a prisoner in her basement she tried to kill me.
I fled home with the help of an online BF. (this was at the birth of online networking -1995)
I felt like I was a lot younger and started my life OVER.
I created a new me.
Younger age (yeah i lie about it and NEVER feel bad because i was robbed of many years of freedom) and changed my name because my mother tried to track me. She somehow firgured that out too
(crazy and genius = evil mix)
Looking back I really should have put her in jail and also sued her estate.
Instead I just moved on and worked my butt off to be on my own.
She still tries to track me down and it gets exhausting.
She just inherited money and uses it to find me.
She left 18 messages on my cell phone yesterday.
My private cell phone.
sigh.....
Long rambling messages that Im defective and judas and I ruined her life and she hopes I DONT enjoy thanksgiving.

2007-11-21 14:49:15 · 8 answers · asked by Leea 1 in Family

My wife has lied to state police to have me arreststed, lied to dyfs about her crack use - she was found out when she failed piss test, lied to every one that i beat her when it was self defense( i called the cops to get her off me). i feel as if i have to prove my innocence. she even has some dirtball living in my house. my current attorney is not aggressive. can anyone please help me with a lead on a "dirty snake" type attorney that will knock this liar down to human level. at my witts end. she even is now brainwashing kids. me and my kids are begging for any help with a good attorney.

2007-11-21 14:48:57 · 3 answers · asked by ken f 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am seen to my wife as just a provider sometimes(she works also, but i am the breadwinner)
The only person that ever told me she was happy for me was an ex-co worker who had a crush on me over a year ago before I left my former employer to go to my current company where I have had all this success.
She called me last year when i got the offer and she told me how happy she was for me and that i deserved it and that she was rooting for my sucess. This disturbed me that my own wife was not happy for me but another woman who i found attractive as well was happy for me. She also is in the same profession I am(Automotive Fiance Business for OEM japanese Manufactruers.). And professionally I may have more in common than my wife.
Anyways, why can't my own wife be more happy for me?(We have been married for 8 years and she rode the tought imes though before the recent success)
And I found out this female(single) former co-worker was trying to contact me recently.What do I make of this?

2007-11-21 14:48:15 · 13 answers · asked by polar bear 1 in Marriage & Divorce

As soon as me and my ex-bf quit seeing each other he started seeing another woman. It was not long that he moved her in and now I hear they are engaged. They have only been together for 4 mos. now. He told me before that he was tired of living by hisself. Do you think he loves her or do you think he just wants to have somebody to live with him? He also told somebody that he was tired of washing dishes and washing clothes.

2007-11-21 14:47:46 · 10 answers · asked by reeselover2004 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Alexis and Micah?
or
Alexis and Morgan?
Just wonderin!!?!?!?!?!?
im soooooooo bored!!

2007-11-21 14:47:16 · 10 answers · asked by Alexis W 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My best friend, Kendall is like one of the greatest people I know. But sometimes she can be a REAL pain in the butt. She always is cool at school, but I mean when we get home she doesn't want to do what I wanna do and I don't wanna do what she wants to do and we get in a big fight. How do I tell her that she can be annoying sometimes? I really don't want to hurt her feelings, because if I do she will go all sobbish and not want me to be her friend!! HELP!

2007-11-21 14:46:06 · 12 answers · asked by Meghan L 1 in Friends

My boyfriend and I attend the same university, and I'm currently in my second year, while he's in his third. This year, I live in a great apartment with a good friend of mine from school, but the rent is just too much! My boyfriend lives at home currently, but plans to move out next year. We've talked about it, and decided it would be a smart financially, and for our relationship, to get an apartment together. We've been together for a month shy of a year now, and by the time we actually move out, it will be almost 2 years (next September) I'm worried about bringing this up with my parents. His older brother moved out at 21 with his girlfriend, so his will not be an issue. Being the oldest, I'm not sure how to broach the subject with my parents without freaking them out too much! I know it's a smart decision, and my boyfriend and I essentially live together on weekends already, but I'm not sure how they will see it. Is 20 too young to live with a boyfriend? How do I talk to my parents?

2007-11-21 14:43:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-11-21 14:42:16 · 16 answers · asked by gina10055 1 in Family

I have been married for almost three years. Back in March we separated for about a month but ended up getting back together thinking we could make it work. Now, 8 months later, we're back at square one. Nothing has changed and neither of us seem to want to change what needs to be changed. We have decided to separate again, and are pretty sure it will end in a divorce.

My main question is: should we try to make things work again, knowing that it didn't work last time, or should we just call it quits so we can move on and begin healing?

2007-11-21 14:41:45 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Thanks for answering!

2007-11-21 14:39:47 · 7 answers · asked by CaffeineLover 3 in Family