Family & Relationships - 21 November 2007

I've been talking to this guy on the phone for about 3 months. He's an amazing guy but I can't seem to "get "him!
We used to spend hours on the phone, he'd call me 3 times a week. Now, we're both busy people, I understand, but he doesn't call me as often as he used to, now we talk every 7-10 days. AND he never calls during on weekends, AND he doesn't seem very eager about actually taking me out...
although he says he likes me alot, and how lucky he is to have met me.
He's being deployed in 3 months, could he be avoiding attachment because of that?

2007-11-21 16:03:48 · 7 answers · asked by Princess_LOLA 2 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend has been having a hard time with my family. Basically, she feels as if my family is taking me away from her. My family and my girlfriend are almost opposites. Because of a destructive past, my girlfriend is not very open with people but is very caring and loving towards those she does know. But my family is caring and open regardless (everyone is welcomed in their home.). I feel as if my girlfriend does not understand my family, because my girlfriend's family is not as close as mine. I try to tell her that she is the most important person in my life, and that i would do anything for her, and although she accepts and returns the love, she still thinks they will eventually tear us apart. I dont know how to make her understand that my family is not against her.

2007-11-21 16:03:28 · 4 answers · asked by Smokey_the_fogged 1 in Singles & Dating

my mom and me got into a fight and now she wont forgive me. ive tried everything ive tried apoligizing to her but she wont forgive me. she hates me and im so sad. im crying realy badly right now. please help

2007-11-21 16:01:26 · 14 answers · asked by mayo_girl_2006 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

a male stranger at the shop said to me "wow, are your eyes real?"
so... whats been said to you?
thanks

2007-11-21 16:01:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so were teens..and i came over her place in hte afternoon and we started fooling around and suddenly her dad comes in a catches us...shes not allowed to date and nor am i...so iv never met her dad or ne thing..and he just went nuts yelling at me and her and yeah i barly got outa there...now her dads not even talkin to her..and i feel guilty coz she got slaped by her dad coz of me...should i just end it?..its not worth me and her dating if it ruins a father and dauthers relationship..and our relationship is supposed to make us happy not give us more tention..i dono what to do...she doesn't want to break up...but i think it the best isn't it..i mean its EVENTUALLy gana end up happing agian..i really really like her...and like were just click so easliy...but...its not worth it if her dad gets hurt by it

2007-11-21 16:00:21 · 29 answers · asked by unsung 1 in Singles & Dating

you know, the black sheep of the family or just a 'failure' in their sight.

Thanks for answering!

2007-11-21 15:59:19 · 15 answers · asked by CaffeineLover 3 in Family

I used to marriage with who is former Marine until about four years a go. We were lived on station in Japan and have sent back to U.S for legal matter to divorce in December 2003 by commander. I start from zero, which is nothing with me except my lap top and two suite cases of belongings. No Family (my families are in Japan). No Friends. No Job. No Car. No Place to Live. This guy took everything away from me include the children. This guy kept my belongings since December 2003. I got some of my clothes back but it’s not that much. This guy said he does not want to keep my belongings because it taking the spaces in his house. But whatever this guy says and does, it does not match. I would like to have my belongings back. Please answer to the questions shown in below. Thank you!

Q1. Did you had mind of he/she will return to you if you keep his/her belongings?
Q2. Why did you keep his/her belongings?
Q3. How long did you keep it?
Q4. Did you returned it to him/her?
Q5. What did you do with it if you did not return it to him/her?

2007-11-21 15:58:44 · 5 answers · asked by aries44 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it to much to ask for honesty. Are all the single men taking? What's really going on.

2007-11-21 15:55:50 · 11 answers · asked by Antonia L 1 in Singles & Dating

It's been 11 mos. since the breakup. I don't have a desire to call or write or anything like that, but I do think about her everyday. Is this too much? She broke up with me. She had a lot of issues-long history of abusive relationships, possibly borderline personality disorder. Anyway, I was just wondering how long is too long?

2007-11-21 15:55:37 · 10 answers · asked by nakedtruth 3 in Singles & Dating

okay well...on saturday me and a whole bunch of friends were hanging out at this guys house...and i kinda started hitting on this guy that goes to my school...that i knew was there but i guess i didnt really notice him before and same goes for him probably...but we knew eachothers names. So we hit it off i think and by the end of the night we ended up sleeping in the same bed and makeing out. the next morning we woke up and i guess he didnt really know if he should kiss me..? (by the way we were both drunk the night before...and please i dont want to hear anyone say im too young for drinking...i live in canada lol) anyways.....so i left and he said ill see you at school tomorrow. So at school we never talked before and i guess its a little but akward or something because i pass him in the hallways and he looks at me a lot and whenever i see him anywhere he stares for a long time untill his friends get his attention...could he possibly like me? because im really into him.

2007-11-21 15:54:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my live in girlfriend will not leave my house although we are incompatible and I have told her several times to leave. she says she will not leave and will use anything of mine she wants any time she wants to. I think she is a sociopath and could be destructive or worse . what should be my first course of action??

2007-11-21 15:54:03 · 7 answers · asked by ? B 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I like a guy and he likes me but I don't want to ask him out, I want him to ask me out, but he's scared to. What do I do?

2007-11-21 15:53:16 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A normal guy.
Extremely shy as in, can't goof off much, doesn't make a lot of eye contact, but will talk when spoken too. Doesn't laugh much or smile much. Is boring.

2007-11-21 15:51:55 · 16 answers · asked by Coolkitty 3 in Singles & Dating

Someone says they love you but they're not in love with you?

2007-11-21 15:51:14 · 14 answers · asked by Life goes on 2 in Singles & Dating

So I fell in total love with this guy. He was everything I thought I wanted. Funny. Charming. And hot. But he loved to play these hot-cold games and string me along. Now I need some good songs to help me get over him. Thanks!!

2007-11-21 15:51:09 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my brother is having sexual feelings for our cousin-in-law.this is bad isn't it?were not blood related does that make it ok.

answer for real

2007-11-21 15:50:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i live with my dad and stepmom not to mention her two kids which convinced me that the devil is real. well im really tired of the situation, i cant live with this any more. its senior year and i dont need more frustration. well my mom lives like 40 minutes away. do you think i should move over there for now?

please help me :]

2007-11-21 15:50:01 · 12 answers · asked by dreamer 2 in Family

I have known this girl for over 16 years. We went to school together when we were young and hung out a little through high school. I dont really see her or talk to her very often now. She has been getting married for the past 2 years...setting dates not going through with it. Well she asked me this time to be in her wedding and I said sure. So it was supposed to be in May. After commiting to that date I commited to going to Mexico in June. Well all of a sudden she changed the date again to June...the same week I will be gone. She seems pissed about it and said I knew that it was in June for the past year! Thats a lie because she sent me an email stating it was May and my other friend who is in the wedding said it was May also. So my point to this story is...should I feel bad about it? Should I cancel my trip? What should I do?

2007-11-21 15:49:53 · 3 answers · asked by Sadbrowneyes13 4 in Friends

Six years ago I began dating a single father. His son is 13. We live in NY. His sons mother lost custody of her two children (she had each child with different fathers). I won't delve into nasty details. My boyfriend has sole legal & residential custody. The children spend two weekends a month together w/mom and a few hours during the week as well. They are both happy and thriving living with their dads. The mother is very nasty and angry. All the time. She is verbally abusive. When we have to deal with her we are filled with anxieity, and her son is frightened. There is absolutely no way to respectfully deal with her. It's her way or else. She's also the type to falsely allege. CPS or cops when mad. This leaves my boyfriend and I mentally exausted and almost ill when we know we have to see her. We're considering a move. Not to keep her from seeing her son, just an area we want to live. 3 hours away. We worry that if child is asked he may choose to live with her out of fear. Thoughts?

2007-11-21 15:49:34 · 3 answers · asked by sad_in_ny 1 in Family

I'm 25 years old single and I'm looking for a single average girl in Michigan in Sterling Hts,Shelby Township,Macomb and other areas close by.

2007-11-21 15:49:04 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 37 years old and my boyfriend is 29 years old. He told me that we wanted to marry me 6 months ago, and I kinda agree. He worked so hard to catch me and after he got my heart, he kinda different. I love him, but totally in love with him yet. He sometimes lie and ignore me nowadays, even though he told me he still love me. I am kinda confused. I was thinking just to leave him alone and move on. really felt like he is playing games. PLEASE ADVICE.

2007-11-21 15:47:33 · 16 answers · asked by farh71 1 in Marriage & Divorce

a girl to have never made out with anyone? i know a girl who's 17 and she's never made out. i don't like to talk about hooking up with people infront of her because it makes her feel like a loser because she's never done it. she's pretty and stuff but shes never made out. sometimes i think its weird that she hasnt and sometimes i realize its not a big deal and that it will happen someday. what do you think, is that weird?

2007-11-21 15:47:29 · 18 answers · asked by girl 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-21 15:46:47 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Type your hearts out..

2007-11-21 15:45:54 · 7 answers · asked by Carpe Diem =] 3 in Singles & Dating

this is probably the hardest thing I have to do in my life..

my girlfriend of a month told me last week that she was tested positive for chlamydia, but I did not had any symptoms previously. I trust her so that means I've given it to her, that leads me to come to suspect that one of my ex gave it to me about two month ago..

here's what I'm really stumping over about, right before my gf told me about this, I had sex with this other girl and now I'm scared that I've given it to her too, I know, I shouldn't have done that, and I'm feeling terribly guilty right now. I've went to my church but I just can't calm myself down, how can I tell her this? I'm feeling really really bad right now.. please help..

2007-11-21 15:45:47 · 23 answers · asked by None 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-21 15:45:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what would u do if your cousin from india called you ans said "we were looking forward to seeing you as well...would u make plans to visit india..my last trip to india was in december 2003

2007-11-21 15:40:17 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Two days ago I gave a note saying "I like you" to one of my guy friends from school. I did this because he was giving signs that he liked me (eye contact, body language, sitting close to me instead of his friends), and also I always tell guys when I like them. Plus, its what all you guys on Yahoo!Answers always suggest...

Anyways, he has been treating me differently now, even though we have not talked about the note or discussed that I like him. We have only had a few brief conversations, when we used to talk all through class. Things are just awkward now.
Should I talk to him about it directly? Does it sound like he is interested but nervous (he is a junior, I am a senior)? Or does he sound freaked out, and I should leave him alone?

Thanks!!!

2007-11-21 15:39:43 · 22 answers · asked by Eva 4 in Singles & Dating

This is long and I have a lot ot say. Last Thursday my b/f of which i was living with decided to end it ugly. It started that he picked me up at work he was drunk he told me he didnt like me no more. He has falln in love with someone else which he has been seeing behind my back and has been at my house and she knew about me and didnt care. He got violent and angry and hit me and choked me and i ended up pressing charges against him. I just dont get how he led me on so well, i am hurt and having a hard time moving on, im alway upset and crying. Just dont understand how he could have left me for her when everything was good at least i thought so. He even lets me know he misses me how screwed up. I dont have any friends but i dont think meeting them at the bar is the right way. I need support on how to get over him in a healthy way but also to meet knew people to help in the the healing process.

2007-11-21 15:39:41 · 7 answers · asked by Patriot 1 in Singles & Dating

She was laying by me earlier and we were watching tv and she was rubbing my arm and she said "thats gross you need more fat in your body" and it really hurt my feelings and she always says im too skinny

i'm 17 and I'm 5'6 and 105 pounds and when I went to the dentist to get my wisdom teeth pulled out my dentist said i was perfect and my mom sees me eat all the time whats the deal

2007-11-21 15:38:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family