It's been 11 mos. since the breakup. I don't have a desire to call or write or anything like that, but I do think about her everyday. Is this too much? She broke up with me. She had a lot of issues-long history of abusive relationships, possibly borderline personality disorder. Anyway, I was just wondering how long is too long?
2007-11-21 15:55:37 · 10 answers · asked by nakedtruth 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
theres not a time limit u cant help that..... love is love and yeah its hard to get out of.... dont pressure ur self... its ok
2007-11-21 15:59:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dated a girl for 4 years, my first true love i guess. When we broke up I missed her alot for probably another 4 years. Occasionally she will pop up in a dream. Its now been 14 years. Just keep trying to move on. It's possible she will be in you thoughts for a longer time than this. Eventually the real pain will fade.
2007-11-21 16:06:32 · answer #2 · answered by andrewTX98 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends on how long you can face the reality that she broke up with you...there is nothing you can do if she decided to broke up with you since there is something she needs to prove or to resolve for herself believing she along can do it, so whatever it is just pray for her and go on with your life because if you are meant for each other she too will do her best to get out of the issues in life..anyway, all of us has issues in life and it is for us how to handle it.
2007-11-21 16:03:00 · answer #3 · answered by fairlady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time is going fast. You might want to try and get your mind off your ex's situation. She has broken up with you. Unless both of you are willing to work out your situation, you have to move on.
2007-11-21 16:02:49 · answer #4 · answered by ChocLaddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have an ex that I haven't seen or heard from in 16 years and I think about him once in a while.
2007-11-21 15:59:39 · answer #5 · answered by helpful one 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Until you are ready to move on.
You have to make a decision that you aren't going to let her keep you from having a full life.
2007-11-21 16:00:23 · answer #6 · answered by Truth 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i guess just thinking about them shouldn't hurt you/them. But its when u keep writing to them or calling or texting months at a time is when like yah
2007-11-21 16:00:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Until the time you lost her/him....stop thinking about your ex...I believe your too late already...better late than never....ok?
Avoid something futile...devote more on something progressive and growing....grow....move...seek the world with lots of hope and aspirations....its better than being inutile.....grow intelligent...invest in your mind....take advantage of time....least you go old....wasting....instead of idling....energy wastes....time is passing....you can.'t ever catch it...back your hands....
2007-11-21 16:11:12 · answer #8 · answered by johnny N 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as soon as you find someone else..
you may never get tired of thinking about your ex until you meet someone who will tell you "forget your ex..im here"
2007-11-21 16:01:48 · answer #9 · answered by ♠ jhun ♠ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you can think as long as you are over her and are able to be happy still.. as long as it doesn't greaty affect your life....
2007-11-21 15:59:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋