so were teens..and i came over her place in hte afternoon and we started fooling around and suddenly her dad comes in a catches us...shes not allowed to date and nor am i...so iv never met her dad or ne thing..and he just went nuts yelling at me and her and yeah i barly got outa there...now her dads not even talkin to her..and i feel guilty coz she got slaped by her dad coz of me...should i just end it?..its not worth me and her dating if it ruins a father and dauthers relationship..and our relationship is supposed to make us happy not give us more tention..i dono what to do...she doesn't want to break up...but i think it the best isn't it..i mean its EVENTUALLy gana end up happing agian..i really really like her...and like were just click so easliy...but...its not worth it if her dad gets hurt by it
2007-11-21 16:00:21 · 29 answers · asked by unsung 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yea mayne u should break up wit her cuz u messed up pretty bad gettin caught by her dad if i were him u would be dead by now...ur lucky u got out 1 peace..as much as u might like her its difficult now cuz u got her parents againist u...it complicated thing gettin parents againist u cuz they probably tellin her how bad of a guy u are which u are bad guy for gettin caught u should been more aware also its not fair for her to be takin punishment for something thats ur fault also..
2007-11-21 16:14:25 · answer #1 · answered by u make me wanna say O.M.G lol 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seeing as u feel guilty, and realize how important a relationship is between a father and a daughter, i guess i would start by going over to talk to her dad when she is not home and beg for forgiveness and say all the things u just said on this question, and guess what it does not have to happen again if u really mean u are sorry for what u did and i think he would respect u a whole lot more than he does right now, or write him a letter saying all these things and then go over there for a face to face, and maybe just maybe u could start over again with supervision, until u gain his trust again
2007-11-22 00:09:10 · answer #2 · answered by Dale T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should talk 2 her about it & tell her to go see a consular so she can tell the consular that her dad hit her. Also dont end it if u both got feelins 4 each other jus try 2 get 2 know her family and first of all yall shouldnt of bein out in the open so they can see yall stupid and next time u ask a question use spell check sweety thats what its there 4 okay okay pumpkin; next find a different place!!!!!!!
2007-11-22 00:11:17 · answer #3 · answered by Shannon J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you like her but you need to stop seeing her so there is peace at home. The reason her Dad is mad is because he is worried that she is going to have sex and then announce she is pregnant. It is always a parent's fear. You should be happy he ended it. You could have been faced with being a Daddy....and paying child support for the next 20 years. No fun.
2007-11-22 00:04:40 · answer #4 · answered by Julie H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well this would take a lot of balls:
Go to her house and ask to speak with her father and say this:
"Sir I would like to apologize for what happened the other day.
Since then I have had nothing else on my mind and am troubled by it.
I want you to realize that I respect you and your daughter very much and have strong feelings for her. If you would give me your permission to continue to see her, I promise to be a gentleman around her"
And then nothing but a light kiss and a cold shower.
2007-11-22 00:11:03 · answer #5 · answered by Marge Simpson 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes break up with her! Tell her you want to stay friends and you want to just wait until the 2 of you are older to date. You might even gain some respect from her dad. Personally you are lucky to get out of there alive if you were messing around.
2007-11-22 00:09:23 · answer #6 · answered by Jim V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm that's a slippery slope. She might blame her dad for you breaking up with her thus destroying their relationship anyway. Do what your gut tells you. If you feel really strongly that breaking it off is the right thing to do then do it, but don't feel guilty if it makes things worse, that's something that she and her dad have to work out if it comes up.
2007-11-22 00:07:58 · answer #7 · answered by Ruthie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, dude RELATIONSHIP IS DONE. First of all her door should of been locked, and if she didn't have a lock then you should of had your ears opened, when I was younger and me and my girl were "fooling around" we would aways have our eyes and ears wide open just in case her mom came home... You should of been paying attenetion and if you were having sex with her or feeling her up, then yeah basically you need to break up with this girl. Cause her mom and dad obviously think your a pig... Just break-up stay cool for awhile and then go find someone else... If my girls mom and dad hated me I couldn't date that girl...
2007-11-22 00:06:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're definitely one ******* of a boy. you dont love her why do you bother?
I like muslim law sometimes. Why should you be allowed to have her and leave her in such a situation. Too many boys are like yourself.
Dont see her in the first place if you're not content on meeting her parents. Without doubt she will be better off without you even if it does slice her.
You ought to grow up.
2007-11-22 00:05:26 · answer #9 · answered by essence_05 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For one thing, I don't blame her father. You know you two did wrong and you got caught. but that's no reason to end it.
Besides, you're only in your teens and doing adult stuff. Do you want to become a dad and go through the same thing her father is?
2007-11-22 00:09:06 · answer #10 · answered by oldschoolelf 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋