my mom and me got into a fight and now she wont forgive me. ive tried everything ive tried apoligizing to her but she wont forgive me. she hates me and im so sad. im crying realy badly right now. please help
2007-11-21 16:01:26 · 14 answers · asked by mayo_girl_2006 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
WHY? WELL JUST GIVE IT SOME TIME SHE WON'T BE MAD FOREVER
2007-11-21 16:04:30 · answer #1 · answered by JUST ME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, your mother doesn't hate you. But if you two just had the argument it stands to reason that feelings are still raw and she's not fully receptive to forgiving you right now. So, calm down and be prepared to give it some time. It takes you awhile to cycle down when you're angry sometimes, and the same is true for her. Hopefully, it'll all look better tomorrow and you two can try talking again...and listening, too. After all, tomorrow's Thanksgiving, a good day for everyone to remember why that is.
2007-11-22 00:10:02 · answer #2 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She still loves you, but give her some time and space. She'll forgive you, she has to. Take a walk in the park or something else relaxing. Buy her something nice. There's not guarantee that she will appreciate it at all, but she will in her heart. Just let the time go by and keep your focus on your life. When she's ready, her affection will come back.
2007-11-22 00:07:34 · answer #3 · answered by chocolate tea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like you've done all you can; the rest is up to her. I suggest the two of you sit down and talk it out before the situation gets worse. You two will always be mother and daughter, so don't let anything destroy that. It's not worth it. Good luck
2007-11-22 00:14:22 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Scorpio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i dont know why you got in a fight with your mom, but what i can say is that you have to calm down, and leave your mom alone for a while. let her think about it, im pretty sure she didnt mean those things. after all mothers will be mothers. good luck
2007-11-22 00:05:12 · answer #5 · answered by dreamer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you tell her, if she was a true mom, she would love you no matter what.. no matter what mistakes you make, no matter what opinions you have.. hell i went on strike against my school my mom wasnt happy about it but she still loves me for sticking up for myself and being me... Look, tell her she doesnt have to forgive you.. but you will always love her because she is your mom.... shes known you since you were born and you will do all you can to get her to know the you are sorry ....
2007-11-22 00:06:12 · answer #6 · answered by Kit_Morbid_Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mothers do not hate their children. They sometimes hate the things that they do.
You know yourself what has upset her. Be patient and make sure you do not do it again. She will come around Remember She Loves you.
2007-11-22 00:17:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Parents wont hate their children. She is just upsad with u. Give her sometime to cool down.
2007-11-22 00:08:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
mother daughter relationships are difficult to say the least she loves you shes just mad right now and can't see past her anger, she loves you and she'll remember that just give her time.
2007-11-22 00:07:22 · answer #9 · answered by Moondreamer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
although it's hard to give advice when the situation is so vague, I think you have apologized and you need to give her some space and she will get over it.
2007-11-22 00:05:56 · answer #10 · answered by Charles M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your mom ask her why she won't forgive you and then say I'm sorry for... whatever
2007-11-22 00:06:12 · answer #11 · answered by cece61695 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋