Family & Relationships - 21 November 2007

2007-11-21 15:37:48 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Yeah those of you who know me know that I'm a guy and I listen to Delilah.

Well, I was listening to her the other night, and "It's Raining Men" came on. I was in the car by myself, and I cranked it up and sang along and did the head bop to the song -- I guess because I think it's the Jam.

DOES THIS MEAN I'M GAY?

2007-11-21 15:36:35 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

OK, so here goes. This, as unbelieveable as it may seem, is real.

I like this girl, same age, a lot. We're both 19. Shes in college, and I'm starting at the same one this Spring. Problem is, i know her brother well, and we're friends (as with me and the girl), so I figure that could be a big problem. Also, her mom is extremely overprotective (older sister was really rebelious), so i cant call/ email her. One opening...she works as a lifeguard within walking distance.. Great right? Too bad her bro weorks there with her...is it just me, or is every avenue blocked? Help appreciated. =P

I figure maybe let her know i'm interested, drop hints, and then talk to her once i start at the school....opinions?

2007-11-21 15:35:40 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my husband have been separated for 4 and a half months and he is not supporting his kids. He is a sorry piece of sh*t. Childsupport recovery closed down the case talking about he's receiving ssi. He is not handicapped. He works and partys like the government does. He was put on it as a child because he is add but alot of others was put on it for the same reason but got cut off when they was 18 years old. His mom works for the government and she is going in the system doing something illegal. he is going to get what's coming to him though. When i get some money i am going to get a divorce.

2007-11-21 15:35:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

a good friend of mine (yes he is the opposite gender) has liked me for about a year and when i finaly think i like him back i cant even find out if i like him by hanging out with him or anything what should i do i mean i can tell him that i like him on the internet or something but if i find out that i dont then i will break his heart HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-11-21 15:34:57 · 6 answers · asked by nocila w 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend's mother and sister are really starting to get on my nerves. They dont talk to him any day other than Friday when he gets paid. They always ask for money and if he ever says no, they tell him that he is the man of the house and he should pay for whatever they need then they hang up (until next payday). He moved out of the house 10 years ago, he's not responsible for them. I told him to quit giving them money and he hasn't given them money in a couple weeks so now they've resorted to asking him to buy them things instead of asking for cash. He often talks about getting married but he says he wont do it until he is in a better financial position. I don't think he'll ever be in a better position if he keeps giving them money. We've only been dating for about 5 months, how much can I say?

2007-11-21 15:34:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My sister and i got into a huge fight today that ended up with us hitting each other. our mom pulled us apart and sent us each to a "cool down" spot, which was one of us at each end of the kitchen table, while mom was cooking for 2morrow. this is not anything new, mom makes us do this if we get into a fight. but 2day my sister looked at me, even tho mom was right there and told me it was my fault, then we started arguing again, mom told us to be quiet, then before i realized what was happening i told my sister to go f*C% it. My mom came UNGLUED! she sent my sister to her room then turned on me. She started lecturing me about the CORRECT way to handle a situation. Then she stuck a bar of SOAP in my mouth! i am NOT FIVE! My sister ended up hardly getting into trouble at ALL!! I got also got grounded for the rest of the break and mom said that she might not let me go shopping on friday that she would have to think about it. Is this fair? we both did the same thing but only i really

2007-11-21 15:31:14 · 4 answers · asked by Aireyaunna A 1 in Family

Whenever I do something wrong, even the tiniest thing, like spilling a little bit of juice, my eleven year old sister would always threaten to tell our mom. Sometimes she even lies about the things I did, like I hit her or something (even though I didn't) just to get me in trouble. Also, when she thinks I swore, (which I never do, but a lot of words, like duck sound like swear words) she runs to mom, and I get in trouble, no matter how many times I say I didn't do it. When I do something really bad and I get caught, it's okay with me, but the tattle-taling on the tiny things drives me nuts. What should I do?

2007-11-21 15:29:18 · 32 answers · asked by Lily 5 in Family

I mean its thanksgiving....and yet here i am sad....even though we're going down to spend time with the family

and ill visit with my cousins/brothers.....having a great time but....

Im sad, why?

2007-11-21 15:27:54 · 9 answers · asked by The Keeper Of Secrets™ 2 in Family

I have friend who is 39yrs n 15yrs older to me n single We know abt each other from last 1yr.Even though she is much older to me i have some feelings for her but i have maintain my dignity .Now she asking me to have sexual relationship with her which be protected as she is virgin wanna have it once n will never get married bcoz of her age .After My marriage to stop this relation and its will also be ok if sleep only 1ce with her??? what should i do....

2007-11-21 15:27:28 · 10 answers · asked by Tech v 1 in Friends

guys would you her in getting help or would you just be negative and say stuff oh the state is going to commit you or your never going to have a sex life oh your never getting married. or would you just be supportive of her and stand by her if she was your wife, fiance, or girlfriend. what would you do.

2007-11-21 15:26:31 · 9 answers · asked by jerseygirlprincess 3 in Weddings

My daughter is 13, she stole my moms car the other night.
My son is 26 and he stole $100.00 from me so I took his truck and sold it to a friend to repay the money he owed.
My mother is 76 years old, and has custody of my younger two kids, one which is my 13 yr. old daughter. who I have now been given full discipinary authority over finally.
My one son is a great kid, and needs to find a job.
I am out of work, birthdays are around the corner, along with one on christmas.
My boyfriend is mad at me for having to go and take care of things for thanksgiving instead of staying with him the night. and he doesn't celebrate thanksgiving.
My 26 yr old's ex girlfriend just got out of jail and my mother is letting her stay here now and I don't like her. She lost my grand daughters to the state here just recently and seems to think that she will get them back. after she had already lost her first 3 kids to the state years prior.
I am so stressed out, I just want to run a way.

2007-11-21 15:20:57 · 7 answers · asked by ? 5 in Family

Well Im going to go with my boyfriend to his grandparents house tomorrow to celeberate Thanksgiving..And I was wondering if this shirt was appropriate to wear...His grandparents are really religious and strict so i dont want to make a bad impression..
tell me is this shirt too revealing?? I think its cute but it shows a little clevelage..not a lot but well you tell me what you think...




here is a picture of the shirt..

http://s100.photobucket.com/albums/m3/xty06/?action=view¤t=rsz_untitled.jpg

2007-11-21 15:19:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Children
Communication
Money and Possesions
Sex



Thanks for answering!

2007-11-21 15:17:15 · 38 answers · asked by CaffeineLover 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Some young guy strikes up a conversation with me one day. Never talked to him before in my life. Never even noticed him much before. I am not hot. I'm fat but o.k. looking. I weigh 200 pounds. I am shy and don't really talk much. He starts complimenting me. Sometimes winks when he goes by. Is all friendly all of a sudden ever since that one day. Doesn't even know me but asks why I am so nice. Says I am the best worker in my section at my work. Has said it more than once. Once I was working and he came over and just stood in font of me and leaned on the counter and I looked up and kinda smile when he smiled.
I don't think he likes me ''like that'' how could he you know? He's young and wouldn't like me like that since I'm not hot. But is he trying to be nice cuz he thinks I'm shy? Or does he admire me or just think I am a nice person and would like to get to know me better? When I have made mistakes learning my job he has been very helpful and encouraged me. Maybe he's just a nice guy?

2007-11-21 15:16:48 · 14 answers · asked by Coolkitty 3 in Friends

It looks like with a litte time off, holidays upon us we would want to do somthing besides what we could do any time. Are we wierd? Crazy? Messed up? Sometimes I wonder Do u ever wonder?

2007-11-21 15:16:41 · 17 answers · asked by reddog 3 in Singles & Dating

It's the biggest night of the year to go out... and your sitting at home and on Yahoo Answers... Why are you not out looking for a date?

2007-11-21 15:15:34 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been seeing a wonderful man for the past five months. In that time Ive seen him twice. We were high school "locker buddies". He went off to the Marines and then Air force. I got married then divorced, as did he. Anyway, we have been "dating" and recently he was deployed. I love him with all my heart. However, I went out with some friends and before the night was through, I flashed the bar, got a drink, and had laughs...and went home ALONE. I feel horrible. I didnt tell my guy because he has enough to worry about. Should I tell him? Should I not? Is this a silly worry not worth bringing up? - Confused...

2007-11-21 15:14:18 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am in a bad marriage basically. He is in denial. He is a controlling, manipulative abusive person. He actually is making me go to his friends for the holiday tomorrow and told me"you better dress nice and dress our son nice and you will do what I say and be nice to people and be happy". All I want to do is sleep all day and cry. How can I pretend in front of all these people I hardly know (his friends) I am a happy wife and I want to secretly leave? **crying*** Any ideas on how to keep conposure? Should I fake it or just openly be unhappy???

2007-11-21 15:12:09 · 23 answers · asked by Samantha 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My dad wants to run my grandma's truck back over to her house so it will be there because he bought pipes to put underground for maintenance work at her house!!! He wants me to go with him but i'm in my Pajamas its 11:07 on the East Coast right now!! I don't want to go anywhere. If I tell him he'll be mad and say why not nothing better to do than play on that laptop!! And he's been sober for a month after dealing with his son's 12th year death anniversary and my maternal grandpa's death. Please help!! Thanks!!

2007-11-21 15:09:21 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

http://www.jessicamcclintock.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/ProductDisplay?catalogId=10002&storeId=10001&productId=101988&categoryId=10332&subcatname=Bridesmaids&spage=1&langId=-1&parent_category_rn=10318 This is the dress, in green. It looks ugh in picture, but it is soo pretty on and the green is perfect. It is dressy, maybe night time fabric, but the ceremony is at 11am. i'm just wondering what type of shoes. i know strappy would look too evening. it's in may, too. are there shoes that would make it maybe no too cocktail looking...it is a bridesmaid dress, though, so maybe im worrying about shoes for nothing. :)

2007-11-21 15:07:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

A while back I was talking about about this exercise man on the FIT channel. His name is Gilad. My sister and I make sarcastic jokes about him. We mimmick the accent....well my husband overheard and said"There's a girl at work , she's fine and I'd like to f*ck her!!!" I couldn't believe my ears. I was totally disgusted by his comment, but I ignored him because I was not going to let him get to me.
Well...tonight we went out to dinner.....We were waiting for our food. There was a guy in front of us with crazy black and red hair. I said"Look honey you should get your hair like that." I was being sarcastic. He looked at me and said Well I wish you would get tight pants like that chick over there. " I feel he is not a very nice person. I really do not want to even speak to him. I am upset...should I be? I am not making any sexual jokes they are just sarcastic remarks and he comes back with sexual references.
NoTE: This is my husband's yahoo acct

2007-11-21 15:06:20 · 17 answers · asked by chilly 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Im 13 years old and Im in LOVE with this guy , he is s0o0o0 sweet to me and i know there would be a great realationship beetween us. He is very flirty, like in gym class he always picks me 1st or he trys to hit me with the ball jus so i will look his way but he wont ask me out and i cant wait any longer i have waited for almost 2 years. His best friend and i are really close he said that the guy i like said he likes another girl in our class. HE DONT FLIRT WITH HER!!! what am i going to do, i cant keep waiting , my heart is breaking, if you want a better example listen to "invisible" by Taylor Swift It describes my situation perfectly. And can a older teenage girl answer this one, i want someone who knows what im going through to answer it. Dont spare any details, i need alll the help i can get!!

2007-11-21 15:05:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A while back I was talking about about this exercise man on the FIT channel. His name is Gilad. My sister and I make sarcastic jokes about him. We mimmick the accent....well my husband overheard and said"There's a girl at work , she's fine and I'd like to f*ck her!!!" I couldn't believe my ears. I was totally disgusted by his comment, but I ignored him because I was not going to let him get to me.
Well...tonight we went out to dinner.....We were waiting for our food. There was a guy in front of us with crazy black and red hair. I said"Look honey you should get your hair like that." I was being sarcastic. He looked at me and said ,"Well I wish you would get tight pants like that chick over there. " I feel he is not a very nice person. I really do not want to even speak to him. I am upset...should I be? I am not making any sexual jokes they are just sarcastic remarks and he comes back with sexual references.

2007-11-21 15:04:52 · 9 answers · asked by chilly 2 in Marriage & Divorce

does your spouse or parents ever cook the same thing repeatedly, i mean like every week. it seems like we have spaghetti w/ garlic bread once a week and baked steak w/ mashed potates and green beans. i try to mix it up but she usually goes for something easy.

2007-11-21 15:04:07 · 7 answers · asked by adamc44 3 in Family

I am 34 and constantly have younger women who are in their early or mid 20's flirting with me. I have a good career, college degree and do very well in my job.
But when I was in my 20's women never looked at me.
Fortunately when I met my wife , she looked at me and we have been married for 8 years.
However, in the last year or so, I get hit on a lot and I get flirted with a lot by younger women. I also have lost 50 # in the last year and have hit the GYm more and I look good.
I feel like a new man.
But what is this fascination by women in their 20's with them obsessing over men in their 30's.

2007-11-21 15:03:51 · 38 answers · asked by polar bear 1 in Singles & Dating

i need help with this girl who is being difficult-- today is my 18th birthday and this girl has made me feel very sad can someone please post their screen name if you want to try and help me out?

2007-11-21 15:03:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What DO you like in a girl (anything from clothes to makeup;idk)
What DON'T you like?

2007-11-21 15:03:25 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm not sure I'm still in love with him. We married when I was 17 and I had my first kid 3 days after my 19th b-day. Now I've gined a few pounds and he treats me like ****. He thinks that i'm a housemaid, he won't even let me go to school to get an education... It really pisses me off!!!!

2007-11-21 15:03:24 · 11 answers · asked by c_mize85 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I broke up with her telling her it wasnt fair for her because I knew she got upset I didnt have a lot of time to spend with her and that I wasnt sure I felt the same anymore but I wanted to remain friends if she could and maybe things would work out later. Initially she was fine, she was crying but not angry. The next 2 or 3 weeks she continued to get angry because couldnt understand how I loved her one day and not the next, how I seemed not to be affected by it all and kept lashing out/insulted a few times. I finally cut contact and said you do the same thing over and over, im not trying.She begged me not to break contact. I regret how I did it because I blamed her. I was her first love and first guy she slept with. She was also devastated when she found out 3 weeks post break up I hooked up with some other girl. I want to contact her and apologize. What do I do? I feel so bad. Was I a jerk?

2007-11-21 15:03:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating