Why are younger women so into older men?

Question

I am 34 and constantly have younger women who are in their early or mid 20's flirting with me. I have a good career, college degree and do very well in my job.
But when I was in my 20's women never looked at me.
Fortunately when I met my wife , she looked at me and we have been married for 8 years.
However, in the last year or so, I get hit on a lot and I get flirted with a lot by younger women. I also have lost 50 # in the last year and have hit the GYm more and I look good.
I feel like a new man.
But what is this fascination by women in their 20's with them obsessing over men in their 30's.

Answer 1

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Answer 2

Well there are a number of reasons. I think genetically, younger women are more attractive because they're more fertile. Why the women would go w/ the older guys is a different story. Older guys just know stuff that younger guys often don't because they don't have the same life experience.

Answer 3

One part is of course $$$$$, also it's counterintuitive after age 23 or so, women and men the same age are no longer peers, really. 60-70% of women seem to skip ages 24-32 mentally and go straight to about 33. Probably their biological clocks start ticking while guys have no biological clock.

Answer 4

I dont think they are after your $$$ but some might be gold diggers. Young women are always looking a sophisticated man who also lookds good som maybe women didnt give you the time of day when you were in your 20's because you werent as good looking as you are now but just because girls are itting on you all of a sudden you shouldnt give up on your wife. If they are flirting with you tell them to back off (nicely of course) hope I helped :) PEACE!!!

Answer 5

Maybe they just like to flirt. Younger women like older men (and I mean older than a measly 34) because they're more stable, financially and emotionally. They aren't out trying to impress every woman that comes along or beat up every guy they consider competition. "We" have more confidence than the young guys and aren't out to prove anything because we don't have to.

Answer 6

The first answerer said it best. It's all about the money. Women can sense when a man is making good money. But I'm not like that. Me gusta younger guys...like 17, 18, and 19.

Answer 7

some women just like older men. they like the mature guys. the one that already have a good career and know what they want in life and know where they are going. unlike guys in 20's they're just getting started..still in school. that kind of thing. or what the first guy said. money. but its not always about that. some women are just attracted to the older men.

Answer 8

Try the next thing I am going to tell you:

Don´t bring your car to work
Don´t spend money with them
Tell them you are poor or with big financials problems
You are out of job
You do not have any school, that you just are pretending you studied and wait for the results

or maybe you are feeling older

other thing is that women are atracted to aloder men because they see the father figure in then ........But not for longer ........Bewware.....................

Bye

Answer 9

its not only about the money you have a lot going for yourself your 34 so your completely over the bullshi! stage in your life you have a good job so you have your own money and you finished college so you know more than whats 2+2 those are really really good attributes in a man (NOT A BOY) its also got a lot to do with your maturity level.

Answer 10

Many young women are seeking a more "mature relationship." They are tired of flaky, foolish young men with idle conversation and no sense of responsible behavior. There can always be found women of any age, who are seeking someone who is doing "economically well." This is fine ONLY if those very same women are also on that level. It comes and goes on a one-on-one basis, as to whom is "sincere" and who isn't. This is my opinion. I wish you well.

Answer 11

I tend to notice that a guy tends to look alot better by their 30's than they did in their 20's. Maybe going to the gym is doing it, plus the mature attitude.
Just don't be a prat and break your wife's heart.