Some young guy strikes up a conversation with me one day. Never talked to him before in my life. Never even noticed him much before. I am not hot. I'm fat but o.k. looking. I weigh 200 pounds. I am shy and don't really talk much. He starts complimenting me. Sometimes winks when he goes by. Is all friendly all of a sudden ever since that one day. Doesn't even know me but asks why I am so nice. Says I am the best worker in my section at my work. Has said it more than once. Once I was working and he came over and just stood in font of me and leaned on the counter and I looked up and kinda smile when he smiled.
I don't think he likes me ''like that'' how could he you know? He's young and wouldn't like me like that since I'm not hot. But is he trying to be nice cuz he thinks I'm shy? Or does he admire me or just think I am a nice person and would like to get to know me better? When I have made mistakes learning my job he has been very helpful and encouraged me. Maybe he's just a nice guy?
2007-11-21 15:16:48 · 14 answers · asked by Coolkitty 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
The last time I worked he called my name like long and drawn out you know like - "Nicoooooooole!"
I just looked up and said hi. sometimes when music is on he dances and then says,"sorry if that creeped you out."
2007-11-21 15:19:04 · update #1
sounds like a great person
a real nice guy
its odesnt matter that you "not hot" as u put it
what is "hot" anyways?
everyone has their own interpritation and his may be you!!
dont jump head 1st in to any thing just become his friend!
after a few weeks of friendship you will get the vibe wether its more then friends he is after
:)
2007-11-21 15:21:11 · answer #1 · answered by boris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he likes you. I wouldnt let age and looks determine it, I had an 18 year old male friend that fell hard for a 27 year old woman that weighed around 280. They have two kids and can't keep away from eachother.
Smile back and ask him stuff. Show you're interested if you are. Knowing that you're shy, he'll eventually make the first move if he likes you.
2007-11-21 23:21:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
To me, my first instinct is the he likes you. I think that --he wants to take you out on a casual date, maybe a movie, or a stroll in the park. It seems as though he is lightly flirting with you, the over the counter smile, etc. etc. Give a little wink back once in a blue moon, it never hurts to try! :)
2007-11-21 23:21:20 · answer #3 · answered by cavals07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cannot speak for the guy who is being nice to you but I would like you to stand up and face the mirror. If you think you're beautiful then you are. Who said fat people can't be cute? You are lacking of self-esteem. There is difference between limit and limitation. Do not limit yourself to love and joy that life is showing you.
2007-11-21 23:28:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to have more confinidence in yourself and see yourself the way others see you.. which I would say is a much more postive way. I would say the guy likes you alot and more then in a friend way. Don't sell yourself short. Best of luck and I hope the two of you strike a relationship.
2007-11-21 23:22:00 · answer #5 · answered by Charlie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can I ask how old you are? If you're younger he may be trying to take advantage of you. Be on guard. If he starts doing things that make you feel uncomfortable, tell him to stop and report it to his boss and also your parents and/or law enforcement.
2007-11-21 23:21:01 · answer #6 · answered by BlackDahlia 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Either he's a jerk and he's screwing with your head or maybe he's a nice guy who happens to find you attractive. Some guys actually like women with meat on them.
2007-11-21 23:19:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
well thats either really cool or really creepy
to me i think its pretty cool but i've never seen the guy so it could actually be very well creepy it all depends on how it makes u feel
2007-11-21 23:21:42 · answer #8 · answered by Toria 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My gut instinct is that the guy is setting you up for a romp in the hay..........Of course that could be wrong but unless you're into it, I'd go very carefully.........After all he "could" be legit.
2007-11-21 23:32:14 · answer #9 · answered by Carl R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey
people like who they like
dont say stuff like "im not hot" or "im fat"
to somebody, like, for example, this guy, you may be hot.
:]
either he likes you "like that" or he wants to be your friend.
seize the opportunity, u never know...
2007-11-21 23:20:20 · answer #10 · answered by waffle house whore 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋