OK, so here goes. This, as unbelieveable as it may seem, is real.
I like this girl, same age, a lot. We're both 19. Shes in college, and I'm starting at the same one this Spring. Problem is, i know her brother well, and we're friends (as with me and the girl), so I figure that could be a big problem. Also, her mom is extremely overprotective (older sister was really rebelious), so i cant call/ email her. One opening...she works as a lifeguard within walking distance.. Great right? Too bad her bro weorks there with her...is it just me, or is every avenue blocked? Help appreciated. =P
I figure maybe let her know i'm interested, drop hints, and then talk to her once i start at the school....opinions?
2007-11-21 15:35:40 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be friends first, and see where it goes from there. College is a big change, relationships can complicate that to no end. This girl does sound rather inaccessible, I would say just give it time. Hang around as a friend and drop hints here and there that you might like to be more than just her friend one day, but be patient. Let your self adjust to being in college first and give her a chance to see you at school etc. before going for it.
p.s. From experience I would highly advise AGAINST sneaking around behind her mom or her brother. It ended horribly for me and I wouldn't want to see the same thing happen to you. Eps. if you really like this girl. Good luck with school.
2007-11-21 15:49:52 · answer #1 · answered by Nana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say tell her brother you like her first and that you came to him first because you respect him and his family. With the rebellious thing as she gets older her mom will eventually let go of her and see that she isn't like her sister (parents are weird like that). There is always mail for a way to contact her. Also if her brother agrees, sees your side, and feels comfortable with you dating her even he may be able to help you.
2007-11-22 00:13:18 · answer #2 · answered by SL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try getting yourself in one of the same classes that she is in. Make sure her brother isn't there!
2007-11-21 23:41:29 · answer #3 · answered by computer whiz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take it slow, if it's meant to be it will be.
I Cr 13;8a
Ps 122;6
2007-11-22 00:32:08 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋