I have friend who is 39yrs n 15yrs older to me n single We know abt each other from last 1yr.Even though she is much older to me i have some feelings for her but i have maintain my dignity .Now she asking me to have sexual relationship with her which be protected as she is virgin wanna have it once n will never get married bcoz of her age .After My marriage to stop this relation and its will also be ok if sleep only 1ce with her??? what should i do....
2007-11-21 15:27:28 · 10 answers · asked by Tech v 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
why don't you marry some one or may be marry her.
2007-11-21 16:19:43 · answer #1 · answered by sagarukin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do no what type of people will be their in this world having sex with some one getting marry to some one
do not do this stupid things and all be a good guy to parents
this and all fault you think what will happen who will come to no one day you will day that time for each and everything you should give a answer
If you like some one like them truly and get marry to her but in your case she she elder to her be a good friend to her how chief she is she can ask directly like this than i can thin how his her character you are staying in India not in any America country so be like a Indian
2007-11-22 02:33:17 · answer #2 · answered by sonia 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think avoid her, U never know in future she can emotionally black mail u , since she has already told u she won't marry , then she will ofcourse need a part for a physical realtion, & once if u get indulge in such activity , she will force u 2 do it again & again.
So stay away from her.
2007-11-23 08:00:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It solely depends on you two coz stopping illicit relationship ( as u think u will ) is not that easy, if you both have an urge u may decide to go for it, but see that it doesnt complicate ur life and hers too. and I feel that if she is initiating it than she must be desparate for it, which is nothing but infatuation. So decide for yourself. But personally i am dead against any such relations, not because my thinking is old fashioned but because I think in Indian context such relationships are damaging for both of you.
2007-11-22 00:34:45 · answer #4 · answered by ezeexs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
luk no one can tell u wat to do or not to do.u r mature enough to take the decisions and that too after considering all the pros and cons.but do not have sex with her just for the sake of having it, if u have feelings for her ,analyze them ,then take a decision,she too is a human.u r deciding to get married to some one even after u r thinking of having an affair,then it means, may b u really donot care for this friend of urs.if u want her to remain ur friend in the long run....think and then decide.
2007-11-22 01:30:31 · answer #5 · answered by chocolat2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont mind but i think shes taking u for granted......just for fun.....so better u dont do it.....better find someone loving and caring....and marry to her......okk......adios !!!!!
2007-11-23 10:01:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont do that
2007-11-22 06:56:21 · answer #7 · answered by adrulear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not advisable
2007-11-21 23:49:43 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it!
2007-11-22 11:40:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IDK
2007-11-22 08:59:34 · answer #10 · answered by jennieria 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋