A normal guy.
Extremely shy as in, can't goof off much, doesn't make a lot of eye contact, but will talk when spoken too. Doesn't laugh much or smile much. Is boring.
2007-11-21 15:51:55 · 16 answers · asked by Coolkitty 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There isn't a very good chance, although appearances don't mean much. I know that part from experience because I'm 25 and about 220 lbs., but my attitude is why I can't get guys to like me because I'm a pessimist and "emo" (although I deny that for the most part, my friends love to say I am).
I would say that you could probably get a boyfriend if you were more outgoing and also if you do your make up nicely and dress yourself well and have good hygiene. I mean if you take care of yourself well that's already something. You should probably start talking to more people. I know it's hard, but people, for the most part, are really nice once you start talking to them.
When someone tells a joke or something laugh. Smile at your friends and at anyone who smiles at you. Smiling and laughing makes you look friendly, and who doesn't like a friendly person? It makes you a lot more approachable.
Also, what do you like to do?? Whatever you like to do, remember something interesting someone says or that you see so that you have something to talk about. Read a book that looks interesting and that seems like it has an unconventional twist so that you have that to talk about and recommend to someone. Watch a show that is popular with people around you so that you can jump into conversations if people are talking about it.
Overall, you just need to put yourself out there more and make sure you look like you take care of yourself. Make yourself look friendly and approachable. Talk to more people (people really are nice in general).
Hope I helped and good luck!!
2007-11-21 16:09:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
aw i bet you're not boring
you just have to have more confidence in yourself and speak your mind. even if you feel insecure just remembre everyone else your age feels the same way its just they're better at hiding it and dealing with it.
it also depends how tall you are. if you're like 5 ft tall and 200 lbs you'll look different than if you are 6ft tall and 200 lbs. but exercising would be good for you. people judge a lot on appearances.
honestly itd probably be harder for you to get a guy (but what do you consider 'normal'?) but its not like its impossible.
2007-11-21 15:58:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she has a sweet personality and some interests that she is passionate about to forget that she is shy when she does them, the chances are pretty good. When she gets him, she will know that he will be patient with her (because he broke through the shyness) and loves her just as she is.
2007-11-21 15:56:28 · answer #3 · answered by Truth 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-29 23:51:05 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to stay on the positive side and lighten up your personality. Smile often! There's a guy out there for everyone, and they should seem normal to you. If he's a complete jerk and doesnt accept him, he's not normal, and not worth it!
And weight is just a number. It shouldnt control you.
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2007-11-21 16:00:23 · answer #5 · answered by a 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe work on getting guy (and girl) friends rather than just looking for a partner. you act less awkward when ur friends than if ur trying to be more. and then maybe that can lead to something, or maybe you will just end up with a good friend.
2007-11-21 15:57:32 · answer #6 · answered by vee_leef 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Curious. I bet you have alot more to offer someone special than what you're telling us. Give yourself some credit.Love yourself for who you are.The right guy will come along.
2007-11-21 16:00:41 · answer #7 · answered by mrs O 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
depends what you consider 'normal' to be
there are probably several guys you've seen that are just like you... but waiting for someone to talk to them.
someone has to make an effort (as with everything in life)... so, it might as well be you
2007-11-21 15:58:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You could have a good chance with someone me.
2007-11-21 15:58:48 · answer #9 · answered by edrcormier 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk-laugh- u want normal but ur not! open up n ul b open to
2007-11-21 15:58:25 · answer #10 · answered by J.D. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋