I thought my mom had just met this guy in September. Turns out they met in Frebuary and my mom got pregnat in March! I knew she was pregnat but she only told me she was two months along last month! I had noticed she was gaining weight over the past 7 months before she told me, but didn't make a big thing out of it. Today she called me and said that she was going into labor! I rushed to the hospital and luckily it was just a faulse alarm. The real due date of the baby is December 7th. How can I ever trust my mom again?
2007-11-21 14:51:13 · 21 answers · asked by Justine 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I'm not saying I don't want her to have a life, it's just she has never lied to me before! It's just been us for the past 15 years. Dad left when I was 2 months old.
2007-11-21 14:55:54 · update #1
If I had known earlier on, I would have supported her.
2007-11-21 14:57:26 · update #2
I am sure that this was not an intentional deception, however you know your mother. It is very possible that she was feeling many emotions and was having trouble dealing. One thing i can tell you for sure right now is that she needs you and that you being angry will just make it more difficult for her to deal with the situation. Hang in there and perhaps the thing to do here is to forgive and forget if its possible but only you know the answer to that. Good Luck !!!
2007-11-21 15:00:26 · answer #1 · answered by "Enforcer" 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She was probably just worried about what you might think towards her if she did tell you. She also might not have wanted to give you a bad example. Try having a talk with your mom about the situation and if you keep the conversation inviting and not too argumentative things may get better.
2007-11-21 14:55:58 · answer #2 · answered by rocklobzter31 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you thought that your mom told you this in order to protect you? Well, this may sound like what other parents would say if they severly messed up. But seriously think about this. What would happen if you knew about this earlier?
2007-11-21 14:55:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wanted to keep her sex life a secret from you because it's private. However, she shouldn't have lied about the due date. Realize that she's human and made a mistake relating to her privacy. Just try to remember that.
2007-11-21 14:54:17 · answer #4 · answered by Jody 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-10 03:14:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mom probably had her reasons for keeping it from you. Even though you don't think its right, she probably thought that was whats best at the time. You should just talk to her and tell her how you feel about the situation.
2007-11-21 15:10:54 · answer #6 · answered by Brianna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant trust her. Usually its the kids trying to fool the parents, not the other way around. She was probably really ashamed, but its no reason to lie to your own kid. But seriously, it sounds like your mom needs to grow up.
2007-11-21 14:57:38 · answer #7 · answered by daremedy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey... she's your mom. You just trust her. She probably said that because she didn't want you to look at her differently. Give her a break. Everyone makes mistakes.
2007-11-21 14:54:40 · answer #8 · answered by cresentrosetat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she was ashamed and didn't want anyone to know what she did. Try to forgive her. She needs you now more than ever. So does your new brother or sister!
2007-11-21 15:05:07 · answer #9 · answered by Cheryl B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she was ashamed to tell you, i would be. just remember that she is the parent and you can still be a child. my step brother was born when i was 17 so they had a built in babysitter. i hated it. can you go to your dads
2007-11-21 14:56:42 · answer #10 · answered by sheilasays 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋