2007-11-21 14:56:14 · 13 answers · asked by Yayooxy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We have been together for a year and a half now my son loves him , but i think im looking for more than he can give me. He tries so hard tho i cant just leave he loves me for me and i do love him. He just dosent have any experience on how to treat a woman . please help This is quite a dilemma for me.
2007-11-21 16:14:13 · update #1
If you really care about him, then that is all that matters. As long as he treats you and your children with the respect that you deserve, then it really shouldn't be an issue. You have to listen with your heart and your head, and not just whats in your family think. My wife is 7 years younger then myself, and Asian (I'm white). I get strange looks all the time, but we love each other, and even though she was banded from her family because of me being not only older, but of being white, and not making six figures, are love stayed and still stays strong. And needless to say, her mom likes me now (after 5 years).
2007-11-21 15:04:03 · answer #1 · answered by Roger 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good luck. When I was 19, I got involved with a woman that was 32. We ended up getting married. By the time she was 40, the age gap just made a huge difference. I ended up leaving her when I was 28. It was just too hard to maintain the relationship. She was old, and I wasn't. Sorry.
2007-11-21 23:06:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry hun, personally I think it is easier for a woman dating an older guy than the other way around, guys that age are too immature and their head's are full of things you dont't even want to know about, they are easily distracted, and are not mentally/ emotionaly stable enough to commit. UNLESS you arent looking for a long term relationship with him then by all means go all out, and have fun.
2007-11-21 23:08:11 · answer #3 · answered by laura v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are 29 and a mom you should be looking for someone mature.. if he is a mature 19 then it might work but they are rare... it does happen though.. my college roommates little brother started a blue-collar job right out of high school and was a home owner and engaged to his older single mom gf by the time he was 20..
2007-11-21 23:00:53 · answer #4 · answered by hitchnj 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say if you're happy and actually have a good relationship. (not just sexually) why couldn't it work.
He's legal i believe.
The rest i guess depends on how you really feel.
Does he satisfy you on a mental level?
Is he good around your children?
I'm guessing i could think of more questions, but why?
I wouldn't do it, but I'm certainly not gonna say you shouldn't.
You know if you're truly happy or not, why you asking us.
You know what's best for you and your children.
If it's just a harmless fling, maybe not involve him in your kids life too much.
You just need to weigh out the pros and cons, and of coarse what's best for your kids.
Good luck
2007-11-21 23:06:21 · answer #5 · answered by Rik S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really. Sorry for the dismal response, but your boyfriend hasn't even really had time to experience life! Back off that one and try to find someone a little closer to your own age.
2007-11-21 23:00:00 · answer #6 · answered by Alicia Ann 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have the same kind of hope and chance that a snow ball would have in hell. You're practically 30 and your BF's still a kid. You're at different stages in your life.
2007-11-21 22:59:42 · answer #7 · answered by AnarchyONtheSHORTbus 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a big age gap. Well my dad is 12 years older then my mom.
2007-11-22 12:47:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, age is not the biggest factor in a relationship
2007-11-21 22:59:25 · answer #9 · answered by BleedScarlet&Gray 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably not. He is way too in mature for you, but on the plus side, he is at his sexual peek, so enjoy it while you can and don't let it get too serious. Good Luck.
2007-11-21 22:59:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋