This girl who's a friend of mine is really close to me but she likes fun loving guys and jokes from them. She tells that one of her friends is really nice to be with as he makes her laugh and she can't feel the time passing with him. She didnt tell that im boring but i feel a little sidelined when compared with this guy whom she spoke about. Im jealous about her comments and i think im boring compared with other boys who know how to joke and make women laugh. It really takes them close to them so I fear i might lose her friendship for other guys...pls.help...
2007-11-21 22:26:01 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If she's really a close friend TALK to her and tell her how you feel. If you are not as funny and outgoing as the other guys why should you change into something you are not?
Please consider that she became your friend for a reason. Could it be you're jealous of her falling in love with someone? Question your motives, do you want her as your friend or your girlfriend? If you know the answer to that question you have to decided how you will proceed. But remember that lovers may come and go but a real friendship is something for life!
2007-11-21 22:46:10 · answer #1 · answered by Tantalizing Dutch Delilah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you act needy, you will lose her friendship. Just be yourself. You ar not in competition with her other friends. Obviously she like you, or you would not have been her friend in the first place. No one has a right to be jealous of their friends' other friends.
2007-11-21 22:31:51 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋