I have a friend (a girl) but she's not my lover. Anyway whenever she talks to other boys or joke with them i feel terribly jealous. I dont know why. May be im too possessive and compare myself with other guys. She tells me that a certain guy friend of her's is extremely nice to be with as he jokes a lot and he has good wits and all that. I was upset and jealous when she told that and i felt really insecure. She sometimes tells me that im so boring unlike other guys who're energetic an funloving. I too am funloving but I like to be myself and I dont know how to make her laugh and stuff like that. Please help me to come out of this jealousy syndrome..tks..bye...
2007-11-21 22:12:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
mayb u feel more lyk a brother 2 her mayb dats y u feel jealous iono so yea
2007-11-21 22:15:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first, why are you friends with someone who tells you you're boring and not as good as other people? With friends like this, who needs enemies. I think the reason you feel jealous might be because she has you comparing yourself to other men. You want to stop the jealousy? The next time she puts you down, challenge her on it. Ask her why she hangs around if you're such bad company. Hang out with other people, get a girlfriend, leave this destructive person behind.
2007-11-21 22:17:07 · answer #2 · answered by Sharon M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i also feel the same way now....i thought i was the only one wiht this feeling...i really understand how you feel and know what,i won't tell you what i did because i know that it's wrong...
logically, you'v e got to be judt yourself..if your friend still spends her time with you then there's no need to be jealous because at least you've got her...ayt?at least you didn't loose her or anything..
im so hapyp that she is still sticking with you and that your sticking wiht her too....you really don't have to be anybody you're not....
i know it sounds silly--me advicing this because honestly,,,i didn't do this
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2007-11-21 22:19:50 · answer #3 · answered by mysticbluz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to stop being around this girl. she's just messing with your head man. some girls are like that. i used to be like that. it was kind of amusing for me.
you're going down the right track by being yourself. this girl is messed up. she's just keepign you roudn to boost her ego. go find new friends that appreciate a geniune guy
2007-11-21 22:16:35 · answer #4 · answered by maraesa1000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
drop her plain, simple, and sweet.
telling you that you are boring and comparing you to other guys she knows who are not is a put down to you.
let her go after one of them. don,t be jealous, instead
find a girl who will appreciate you. good luck.
2007-11-21 22:17:15 · answer #5 · answered by Jerry S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys need some space from one another to work out what you are
2007-11-21 22:23:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A spot of counselling would help you a lot!
2007-11-21 22:15:34 · answer #7 · answered by wheeliebin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she knows you by who you are , if you try to be like the other guys then you wont be you , you wont be happy but truthfully , your living to a persons expectations - be who you are
2007-11-21 22:16:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want more from her. Tell her, but be prepared that she may not return your feelings.
2007-11-21 22:15:57 · answer #9 · answered by My Dose Makes Angels 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no prob..impress her by all methods..if u hav bike,,freak her out..be special..be honset t her..be smart enough ....u shd be a joker..bluffmaster like others do..get moreinto contact with her,,take her notes..as if u require..go t home..impress her parents (t give notes) GIVE GIFTS EVERYDAY LIKE CHOCLATES..ETC..LET YOUR POCKET OR WALLET TEAR ITSELF...:)-
2007-11-21 22:19:09 · answer #10 · answered by the falcon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋