Why cant we have the one we want?

Answer 1

Don't feel too bad. I have fallen in love twice in my life, to the point that I would have given my own life for both of them. Neither one turned out to be faithful. They did not love me as I loved them.

Now I wonder if I will ever have that chance again. I have pretty much decided that I will probably have to settle for someone that loves me, and that I just care a great deal deal for.

I am not going to give up, however. I know what love feels like, and I really hope I get just one more chance, with the right one!!

Don't you give up either. The next time you feel like you are falling in love, just take your time to give your complete heart until you know that they deserve it.

Answer 2

It's not about having the one you want. It's about having the one you need.

Answer 3

Because we always want the one we can't have.

It's the Forbidden Fruit Syndrome.

We always want what's not good for us. Most times the one we want is already taken and/or is really bad for us.

Yet, we put all our time and energy going after a losing cause.

It's just Nature, I guess.

Answer 4

sometimes they dont knw that ur the best thing for them till its too late and they always go out with the wrong people and wonder why they cant find the right person and ,that may be u but they dont see whats right in front of them

Answer 5

Because there is a vicious cycle of unrequited love. Abraham Cowley wrote,

"A mighty pain to love it is,
And 'tis a pain that pain to miss;
But of all pains, the greatest pain
It is to love, but love in vain."

Answer 6

because the one we want does not want us. we just want them for thier looks really. their personalities arent so super. we will hurt and cry for them but they will reject us because they do not have a heart and we are better then them

Answer 7

because we do not know what we want