Family & Relationships - 21 November 2007

My wife and I have been married for 6 years. I wish she would wear sexy outfits when we go out but she's very shy. One day she told me that she would wear anything I wanted at home and that I was free to photograph her as long as I promised to keep the pictures between us. I agreed. She has a great body why is she afraid to wear sexy clothes out?

2007-11-21 05:01:31 · 15 answers · asked by stevel226 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My first love is a very good guy, lots of qualities, so good looking, so smart, but oh, so cold to me. He said that he's cold because he doesn't want me to get bored of him. Yes, he was happy to be with me, but his coldness hurt. And so, i later found another guy, that was very caring, understanding, very loving, and so wise and kind to me. He wants to marry and have alot of kids. The perfect family guy, and very loyal. Now when i decided that i would like to marry him, my first love comes and says that he loves me very much, and wants to marry me too. He's not cold to me anymore either. What to do, i like them both, they complete eachother in a way. What would be the wisest choice? I would like to have a guy to love and to feel always loved. The indifference hurts me a lot.

2007-11-21 05:01:30 · 17 answers · asked by Thora S 2 in Weddings

i am 5'7 190lbs. i am over weight but not really. Nost of my weight is in mu upperbody. I used to be a swimmer so all my shoulder and back muscles turned to .... fat. My waist is a 14 But my upper body says 18... i know very un proportuned. ANYWAY i am looking to purchase a wedding dress but getting discouraged beacause nothing looks right on. I look like a lineman for a football team.
So what type of a dress should i get?
i look and feel so uncomfartable in all styles so i am open for opinions.

2007-11-21 05:01:24 · 19 answers · asked by Tea 2 in Weddings

Okay the other night I hung out with two of my co-workers both guys and I'm a girl and we got drunk. I ended up going outside for a smoke with one of them and then we ended up making out for like half-an-hour and then we went back inside and drank some more and then the other guy left and then I ended up making out with the other guy. I feel so bad for doing it because they're best friends and plus I feel really bad becuz I like both of them a lot and I don't know what I should do? Help?!

2007-11-21 05:00:43 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My cousin's husband's brother says that he want to go out with me. We've known each other for 3 years. I thinks he is really cool and cute but before I found out he liked me, I found out that he said to his brother that he think my sister is hot! Is that ok. Does he really like me. Is it because he feels he has no change with my sister so he'll move on to the next one. I don't know.

2007-11-21 04:59:52 · 19 answers · asked by Curious 2 in Singles & Dating

Why does it seem to take longer to poop when you become a teenager, especially guys? Why does it seem like you poop more times a day? Say you only went once a day -- then, when become a teen guy, it's more like three to four times a day. Why? What is it that makes my son do this?

2007-11-21 04:59:01 · 13 answers · asked by jenniferjohnson4697 1 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my boyfriend have been together for a little over a year. when we first got together it was perfect and now things have changed. we spend more time together now, but we also argue more. we still go out, laugh, have fun, and enjoy each other's company. but for some reason it still doesn't feel quite the same. how do i get it back to the way it used to be when we first met?

2007-11-21 04:58:39 · 3 answers · asked by shoppingfreak05 1 in Singles & Dating

Now she broke up with me and I don't know why? I was sound asleep when she got into a fight she's mad at me for not having her back. how can I have someones back when I was sleeping. I already told her about starting drama and talking trash to people. she is just not the person I thought she was. It has been a couple of day. but I still feel the pain of her not being here.

2007-11-21 04:58:35 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend snores bad!!!!!! his ex wife even got him a snoring ernie. Last night, i finally could not take it anymore and started to get the spare bed out of the garage where i just stored it last week so i could get some sleep instead of sleeping on the uncomfortable sofa. He got so mad and said (**** this) I am leaving and he stayed out all night...he slept on a customer's boat..he came back this morning to take a shower, he came and kissed me and left..what is up with that? and was i in the worng? I have 2 kids to take care of..a 9 yr old and a 21 month old and i need my sleep and 4 out of the 7 days i lsoe sleep with his snoring.

2007-11-21 04:56:57 · 13 answers · asked by ♥Sexy Mama of 2 cuties♥ 7 in Marriage & Divorce

would you dump your girlfriend/wife for the girl of your dreams? or ent looks everything?

2007-11-21 04:55:48 · 8 answers · asked by lemmyleah 1 in Singles & Dating

he cant help but lie & lie & lie & lie some more.
i love him but his lying needs to stop.
he lies about the dumbest things.
i cant be with him if he continues to lie.
what can i do?
& especially what can he do to stop this?

2007-11-21 04:54:59 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I’ve been having an affair for the past 2 plus years. Just the other day my lover said she wanted to try having sex with me and 3 of my friends. She said she always fantasized about multiple men at once and she wants to try it before she dies. I want to grant her wish but I am afraid I will lose her or our close relationship will not be the same. If any of you have experience in this please tell me what happens with the relationship after?

2007-11-21 04:54:33 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

step up and say that you did it, meaning you would go to jail instead?

2007-11-21 04:54:19 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

its so annoying im 17 n my mom dosent allow me to go out past 11 1130 n wen i try to tell her tht i need to atleast stay up till 12 1230 she dosent ever listen to me!!!! she always tells me to share stuff n wen i do she never understands!!!! its not tht she dosent care and all but even i need freedom !!! im 17 n its not like i go out everyday its just once a while!!!! why dosent she get tht n how do i tell her!!!!!

2007-11-21 04:53:58 · 5 answers · asked by dialovesu 2 in Family

2007-11-21 04:53:29 · 81 answers · asked by Chelle! x 2 in Friends

I have been with my boyfriend for nearly two years (Dec. 4th) and we are very close. I know he loves me a lot, and yes, I know he isn't seeing anyone else. He has hung out with my friends many times, but in two years he has only had me hang out with one of his friends once. When we have been out, we have run into one or two of his friends, but he just talks to them for a moment and doesn't even take the time to introduce me to them.

I have told him several times that it's important to me that I meet his friends because I want to know the people who are important to him. But it always seems like he ends up annoyed with my requests. For about the past 6 months he keeps telling me we can do things with his friends the next time I see him, but then we never do.

It's to the point that I even know his sister's friends really well, without meeting most of his even once.

Why won't he let me meet his friends, even though I have expressed how much it would mean to me? How can I change this?

2007-11-21 04:52:32 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-21 04:52:01 · 12 answers · asked by inuyasha_grl2007 2 in Singles & Dating

im only 13 almost 14 and im always so depressed or upset and i really dont know why every single day im like this and i dont know how to stop feeling this way

2007-11-21 04:51:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

now i'm starting to get the same feelings i got before i broke up with my other ex's and i really love this guy but i cant decide if i'm thinking of breaking up with him for a good reason or because of stupid excuses i'm making up.

reasons i want to break up:
-hes SO clingy! ALL my boyfriends turn out to be so clingy i'm so sick of it.
-he worries about me WAY too much. (i got a msg on my cell of him saying "i'm really worried, maybe you got lost on the way to your bff's house i dotn know pleas call me i'm so worried) becuase i turned off my cell phone for an hour!
-he tells me i'm his everything 1000 times a day, i know its sweet but not when its every other word.
-he doesnt understand that i have depression adn sometimes i'm going to be sad for no reason, its not his fault and he just has to give me space.
-HE NEVER GIVES ME SPACE. i hardley see my friends now!
-HE WHINES ABOUT EVEYTHING. litterly, when i dotn want to see him for a day, maybe to hang with friends, he whines so much

2007-11-21 04:51:24 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How big are your cans? Shout out the cup size loud and proud be happy with what you got

2007-11-21 04:49:16 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-21 04:49:06 · 27 answers · asked by kittie 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

like im always on his a s s. we were im-ing and i noticed the time, 12:30pm, he goes to work at one. so i said have a good day, i love you. and he went off then. so i called him and i said why he didnt respond and he said he was gunna call me. and i said well u never really call me to say like, ok im going to work, bye. and he said, cuz im always riding him. i dont mean to. we've been dating for 2yrs now and we are both 19. we see each other almost everyday, i stay over his house most of the time. i wont be seeing him tonite, which im fine with, but i dont wanna keep texting him all nite, or im-ing. he texts me when hes at work too. how can i kinda resist alittle bit towards him, make him see hes not my whole world..? thanks for the advice guys and happy thanksgiving! :)

2007-11-21 04:48:58 · 18 answers · asked by million$? 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-21 04:46:46 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am 14 years old I am a responsible caring individual i do very well in school. i play on a travel softball team and still have time to balance a 4.0 GPA. I help out around the house babysit my sister and everything. yet my mom is an OCD freak!! she tells me when to get into the shower when to clean my room when to go to bed. If i defy she goes off on me.not your avrage mom and daughter fight. she SCREAMS AT ME. i try sooo hard to get her to listen to me when i say " just dont worry abot if/ when I get in the shower weather my room is clean or not." she takes it the wrong way she stops cooking me dinner and ignores me. she thinks that i dont NEED her any more. HOW DO I CHANGE THIS!! i need some freedom. i know what is right and what is wrong im responsible. i just dont want her nagging me to do things. HELP!!

2007-11-21 04:45:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

He says that since it was meant for me only, I should not have shared it with my co-worker. He told me that by doing so, I was very disrespectful to him and considered it a "slap across the face". He will never buy me another one. Is he being unfair, or was my sharing really as rude as he says?

2007-11-21 04:44:22 · 40 answers · asked by Kathy H 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My life is extremely boarign and I need to spice it up a little anyone out there that can give me some advise on it

2007-11-21 04:43:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We have been close, but he isn't ready for a relationship, says he just loves me as a friend. He knows I love him. He is in touch with me every single day (we are long distance) and shows me care everyday, which sometimes throws me off too, thinking, he must surely love me, but just doesn't say it that he loves me.

So I don't know what to focus on:

1. Be a platonic friend to him (maybe this will reduce pressure on him, and withdraw all those loving words & actions which are usually said and done between couples)

2. Be myself and be more than a friend to him even if he doesn't reciprocate likewise.

I definitely want to win his heart.

2007-11-21 04:42:01 · 14 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-21 04:38:05 · 12 answers · asked by lil_baby_b 1 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend started on the Orthro-Lo about 3 months ago after a missed period scare. Now that she has been taking it, she says that she is lot more moody and gets heated up easily. She had also gained a few pounds, but she still looks great.

She wants to stop taking the pill because its making her fat, and gets her moody. We have spoken about this, and I had told her that she needs to let the doctor know so we can find other BC options, but she just wants to get off of it.

We are in a committed relationship and dont want to be selfish, but I like riding bare

Are there any other options? Am I being selfish for wanting her not to get pregnanct?

2007-11-21 04:37:08 · 41 answers · asked by Tung 2 in Marriage & Divorce

He seems to have no problem with the idea of "sharing" me to "make me happy". I would honestly only be okay with doing it with him since i love him, but he doesnt seem to care about makin me "happy" wen im with him. I've even cried several times since i was so unhappy with how selfish he was seeming to be.

2007-11-21 04:37:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating