I’ve been having an affair for the past 2 plus years. Just the other day my lover said she wanted to try having sex with me and 3 of my friends. She said she always fantasized about multiple men at once and she wants to try it before she dies. I want to grant her wish but I am afraid I will lose her or our close relationship will not be the same. If any of you have experience in this please tell me what happens with the relationship after?
2007-11-21 04:54:33 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
grant her her dying wish.
and then ask for your dying wish of her and all her freins on you.
Its only fair.
2007-11-21 04:57:28 · answer #1 · answered by male.confused 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing anyone can tell you that will give you the future. What has happened to similar guys on here may not happen to you. If you are open to this and want to allow her it then that is fine. All you can do is talk to her and make sure that she knows how you feel about it, and that you need reassurance that you won't lose her.
2007-11-21 13:24:32 · answer #2 · answered by No one 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are in love with this woman and it does not bother you to have other men have sex with her, and she is willing then go ahead. Although I find this strange but who am I to judge. It is obvious your and her moral issues run in the same path so go for it. I believe you are scared to lose the available sex you have with her and feel she might desire another man over you. This is not a good trusting relationship and you both are in it for self gratification reasons only.
2007-11-21 13:05:27 · answer #3 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get yourself some guys who are not your close friends, you'd hate to ruin all your relationships. I'd tell her to take a weekend for and gang bang and meet up with you on Monday. Since you are cheating on your wife, I'm sure you aren't the possesive type.
2007-11-21 12:59:47 · answer #4 · answered by Hick Chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So let's see..you're cheating on your wife, but you're afraid your lover will cheat on you?
Ah, sweet poetic justice.
I say go ahead. Do it. After all, YOU do believe that people should be able to do whatever they want sexually, even if it hurts someone else.
So...if you say no, you're a hypocrite.
2007-11-21 12:58:34 · answer #5 · answered by lady_phoenix39 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I say go for it. If my wife asks for it, I would give it to her. But then, I'm not afraid of her becoming emotionally involved with someone else.
2007-11-21 14:32:14 · answer #6 · answered by RM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who knows what will happen afterwards, but that sure sounds like A LOT of sausage.
2007-11-21 13:01:30 · answer #7 · answered by blujello 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advise to you is to end the affair. Or you will be losing more than just her.
2007-11-21 12:59:18 · answer #8 · answered by Jessica C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your pathetic first of all dump this whore and work on your marriage. Do you really want a bunch of guys banging your whore tell her it is over and that you have chosen to grow-up.
2007-11-21 13:06:35 · answer #9 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it because she might like having sex with one of them. She could kick you to the curb and screw your friend(s) more.
2007-11-21 17:56:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋