I have been with my boyfriend for nearly two years (Dec. 4th) and we are very close. I know he loves me a lot, and yes, I know he isn't seeing anyone else. He has hung out with my friends many times, but in two years he has only had me hang out with one of his friends once. When we have been out, we have run into one or two of his friends, but he just talks to them for a moment and doesn't even take the time to introduce me to them.
I have told him several times that it's important to me that I meet his friends because I want to know the people who are important to him. But it always seems like he ends up annoyed with my requests. For about the past 6 months he keeps telling me we can do things with his friends the next time I see him, but then we never do.
It's to the point that I even know his sister's friends really well, without meeting most of his even once.
Why won't he let me meet his friends, even though I have expressed how much it would mean to me? How can I change this?
2007-11-21 04:52:32 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
For one thing, if you're out with your boyfriend and run into one of his friends, don't wait for him to introduce you. Do it yourself. And be very clear about it. "Hi! I'm ______'s girlfriend, _______." There's something about the situation that's not right. Unless you take the initiative about meeting his friends, you never will. He doesn't want you to meet them for some reason...
2007-11-21 05:00:31 · answer #1 · answered by Erin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in case you're actually not BF/GF than do not introduce them as such. Introduce him as your chum and don't undertaking lots approximately what human beings could think of . . . that is appropriate to the bride and groom in any case.
2017-01-05 22:46:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, two years is a long time that you two are together. Is there a particular reason why he won't introduce you to his friends? Sounds like he has a motive for hiding/storing you away from his friends.
Try and find out what motivated him not to introduce you to his friends.
2007-11-21 04:58:32 · answer #3 · answered by BrownSugar 2 Da Maxx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guess what I'm gonna tell you something that no guy tells females. If you haven't met his friends you ain't his gf.
2007-11-21 04:57:21 · answer #4 · answered by Perfection 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might think that his friends are better then him...hes scared. he reallly likes you but if you want to meet his friends really tell her
2007-11-21 05:24:57 · answer #5 · answered by pat k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he tinks that you wont like his friends
2007-11-21 04:58:10 · answer #6 · answered by babyoutrigger99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋