Then we broke up. Now the want to just date. So what sould I do. I love him so much. I still want to married him, but he want to just date, and want to be single , so he could find himself. He told me he was scared to be in a longterm. relationship. Please tell me what I should do.
2007-11-21 06:26:09 · 7 answers · asked by paige 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, it sounds like he isn't ready for the type of commitment you want, I understand you love and want to marry him. He probably loves you too, but simply is not ready for marriage...at least not to you. So if you stay with him then you may be waiting a long time for something that may never happen. If marriage is what you really want, then realize it isn't going to be with him, because that isn't what he wants right now, and maybe never.
2007-11-21 06:29:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think this kid has cold feet and still would like to be free to live a little. If he doesn't want a long term relationship and you do, I would say look elsewhere. Perhaps both of you are too young in which case give the situation a lot of thought before commitment. The divorce rate is high enough without adding to that statistic.
2007-11-21 06:33:56 · answer #2 · answered by googie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in short he does not choose intercourse, he might choose it yet he does not choose it. there is not any subject wherein one will go through area effects whilst no longer having sexual kin. probable what's happening is he's putting on a ploy, he's attempting to guilt you into doing what he needs. that's his perception which you're ignorant to the way the human physique works. enable him understand which you will locate by his charade completely great, nevertheless he will probable basically attempt greater stable. In all the ultimate concept is in all probability to interrupt up with him, do you easily choose somebody who will do plenty just to get you into mattress? If he extremely wished you none of this could be happening, he could be completely great with no longer having intercourse. So please do your self a choose and attempt to locate somebody that dosne't handle you like an fool.
2016-11-12 08:09:42 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As much as you love him, I recommend you step back. Remember, the greatest love should be for you. You are number 1. Give him his time. As uncertain as it is, its better for him to be sure because you don't want to pressure him, marry him, and then have regrets that lead to divorce. Don't put your life on hold for him, though. Work on bettering yourself, doing fun things with family and friends. Love you. In doing that, things will play out naturally. Your power is only in the things you can control........you.....no one else! You will know when enough waiting....is enough.
2007-11-21 07:08:58 · answer #4 · answered by sizzlen1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him "find himself" on his own and if marriage is what you want from a relationship then find someone who feels the same and will respect you enough to give you that.
2007-11-21 06:30:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
theres really nothing that you can do. the balls in his court in this situation. i know it sucks but you cant make him feel the way you want him to. he might realize that he wants you back but im sure you are just going to have to let go and be single also.
2007-11-21 06:31:46 · answer #6 · answered by surfcarolinagurl26 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just date him. Don't pressure him into marriage. Really, if he isn't ready for commitment then you should wait for him if you love him.
2007-11-21 06:33:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋