i just answered someones question and i wondered if my answer was reasonable or not i mean its the truth but does it make me crazy to think this way. the question was about if you train your guy.... I said that to me life is about choices and consequences i gave an example that if im guy went out with his friends and didnt come home till i was already asleep then the consequence of his choice would be no home made dinner and no sex.......do other girls think this way or im I being crazy? should i wake up to make food and listen to his story about his night and um... pleasure him as i would have had he been home when i went to bed?
my ex thought I was irrational but honestly him and his buddies were attached at the hip and he was always out with them so our sex life was pretty depleted by the end of the realtionship. just wondering if we would still be together if id done what i am ask about?
sorry........ reposting but im really kind curious about it now
2007-11-21 05:55:31 · 7 answers · asked by ... 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
five words.. sex don't buy long relationships
2007-11-21 06:01:50 · answer #1 · answered by Lila86 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he doesnt have enough respect for you to come home at a resonable hour then NO. When my BF and I first got together we were a little looser with the goign out thing but after we moved in together he tried it ONCE. I let him know that if he chose to go out I had a time I expected him to be home by and that if he wasn't home when dinner is on the table (we eat on a regular schedule) then he would have to feed himself. And on the pleasuring him thing, if he respected the standards we set up, Time etc...then yes I had no problem with that. But only if he respected our rules. I was happy to know he came home wanting it from me rather then being concerned he was out looking for it elsewhere after a night of fun with the guys. It gives him a incentive to play by the rules.....:)
2007-11-21 14:04:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would probably make sure I 'serviced' him BEFORE he went out. Never let him out on a full tank...
Of course that is supplemental to the 'wake up call'
2007-11-21 13:59:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No way. He should have got the pleasure from his buddies. Thats only fair.
2007-11-21 14:00:46 · answer #4 · answered by Neil 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one HAS to do anything.who would wake up to cook and make love to someone? things happen at their own time,and if he wants sex,he'll stick around for it,not go out with his guys,but go out with youinstead.
2007-11-21 13:59:55 · answer #5 · answered by bittersweet84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
should be one of ten rules! Buddies night- no dinner and no SEX!! We are not their slaves!
2007-11-21 14:01:03 · answer #6 · answered by the girl next door 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no.....don't know what he's been doing
2007-11-21 13:59:59 · answer #7 · answered by BABY K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋