Family & Relationships - 21 November 2007

Aaaarrrrgggghhhh!!!!!! My ex can push my buttons so much that I want to start punching his face in and never stop!!! Messy separation and other people involved on both sides, kids staying with me but huge financial issues to sort out etc etc.... But I used to worship the ground he walked on and now 5 minutes in his company and even him flicking a pen and the way he talks winds me up to the point where I could be done for serious GBH!!!

Calm me down please...............

2007-11-21 08:39:33 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was supposed to call the guy I like for homework help last week but I didn't. We set up another specific time for me to call Monday. I wasn't able to call him then either because I was both nervous and very sick, so I sent him a text message 20 min. after I was supposed to call asking if I could call the next day and what time was best.

He didn't text me back.

So, yesterday I left him this voicemail:

"Hey, I'm sorry I didn't call you yesterday I was sick most of the day and didn't get to do the reading I was planning to do before I called you. So, I know you're planning to go out of town the next three days but hopefully you'll be back at work over the weekend and I can catch up with you then. By then I should have finished most of the reading for the course and I'll have lots of questions for you. Talk to ya soon."

Do I Have a right to be mad because he hasn't texted or called back??

Or does he have a right to be pissed at me??

2007-11-21 08:39:03 · 1 answers · asked by Jane T 2 in Singles & Dating

if you like a guy and he dosent like you back what should you do?

2007-11-21 08:37:16 · 16 answers · asked by Ambie 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay i grinded against my guy friend as a joke but it started to feel REALLY good for the both of us but i continued for a while but also I had another guy in my mind who i really like almost love when I was doing it so I was thinking I was doing it to my crush then I snapped back to reality! Then I felt horrible and my friend wouldn't comfort me. It felt like I basically dropped all of my morals. And I was saving my self for the other guy. I felt so unclean and a s*ut. i almost cried. I couldn't believe what I have done! It haunts me now! I don't know what to do but I regret it sooooo much! Now I feel like i can't say 'I stand for innocent' When Im not innocent no more! And i feel like i betrayed my crush. And my friend and I had damaged the our own friendship! I just don't want to be here anymore because Im so disgusted with my self! Please help me! Some advice would be nice or a way to surpress this.

2007-11-21 08:36:50 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love my husband very much. But he is gone alot and I have needs as well. I am very lonely I talk to him on the phone alot but it's not the same as having someone there to kiss, hold and feel. I have lots of toys but once again I want the real thing. I have thought about walking up to a stranger on the street and kissing them and walking away. I miss having passionate kisses the most, even when he is home he doesn't kiss me in a passionate way. We have an alright sex life when he is home. We have been married for 5yrs and I'm bored. I have tried to tell him these things many times and nothing ever changes. Help!

2007-11-21 08:34:36 · 36 answers · asked by annie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Share your personal experiences about your worst date.

Mine was with a guy who got drunk off his @ss, stumbled all over the place, tried to pick fights with everyone else, plus I couldn't understand a word he was saying cause he was talking really loud and slurred.

As if that wasn't bad enough, by the end of the day he was slouched over a chair, pigging out on white castle that his friend bought him, he was so drunk he couldn't even hold on to the hamburgers, so there was food falling down on his clothes and onto the floor...to make it worse he just picked the food off the floor and kept eating it.

2007-11-21 08:33:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well. I've been going out with my Bf for about 6-7 days. And I haven't kissed him yet. But I really wanted to before its too late. But I'm not only nervous but I don't know how to do it right. Any ideas.

2007-11-21 08:31:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 24 and she is 29. She is my first girlfriend, and I've known her for about 4 years. About 6 months ago, she started to talk about marriage and then it just kinda advanced from there...Last night, she asked me very seriously when I was going to marry her.
I'm not ready right now, I mean I even need another year and half untill I finish college, because I'm living with my parents and have no money. But she doesn't really seem to care about that. She just wants to marry me, just so that we are married. She said that I can keep living with my parents and everything would be normal as if we were not married until I finish school and ready to really start a new life with her.
My parents don't know about this, but I've always known that my parents don't approve of me marrying her, even though they say she is nice. Her parents love me, and I think are also pushing her to marry me. I don't want to lose her, but how do I tell her I'm not ready?

2007-11-21 08:31:26 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i see a lot of both but there has to be one more than the other. i need womens answers please. **i know there are a lot of other factors, but just talking about HEIGHT mostly.

2007-11-21 08:30:30 · 11 answers · asked by Tahitoa 2 in Singles & Dating

How much do you love your boyfriend/girlfriend?
I love my boyfriend more than all the water particles in the oceans. (that's what i tell him sometimes) How would you describe your love for your significant other (boyfriend, girlfriend, husband, or wife)?
God Bless,
Britany

2007-11-21 08:29:35 · 24 answers · asked by someonestolemyscreenname 3 in Singles & Dating

Always spend it with my mom my dads in my life now wasnt much when i was growing up so yeah i dont know!!!

2007-11-21 08:29:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

As some of you know, I am a 92 year old Goth rocker who lives in a residential care center. Well, every time I go down the hallway with my walker, one of the nurses, who I shall call, Nurse Ratchit, pats me on my butt. I really can't understand this. I am not as cute as I was in my 80's. Do you think she likes me, or do you think she is just checking to see if I am wet?

2007-11-21 08:28:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am getting married in June. I have almost picked out my dress and have started to look around for bridesmaid dresses. (Thanks to all you here at Y!A with your help on that, by the way.)

I have found a bridesmaid dress from Alfred Angelo that I really like:
http://www.alfredangelo.com/index.cfm/fuseAction/COLLECTIONS.productDetail/fromAdvancedSearch/0/productID/d67f5cd6-3962-4f1e-a236-1760682c7d88/categoryID/772F03C9-DE43-4942-BFA0-DA77E21EBD65
What has been your experience with Alfred Angelo bridesmaid dresses? Would you recommend them? (I read one bad review on here, but most of you seem only to dislike David's Bridal.)

2007-11-21 08:27:38 · 9 answers · asked by Emmy Jo (13 weeks with #2) 7 in Weddings

ok now my and my gurl friend are in 7th grade (and if any one sais we dont know wht love is at our age i do cuz i havent stoped thinkin bout hur no lie so clearly i do) and she asked me out yestorday 11♥20♥07 and she broke up with me to day since me and some of hur friends "dont get along" very whell. now i have made things work today and now hur friends are cool with me now. i asked hur out and she said i have to think about it (and just to let u know i dont have skool till monday and skool is the only time i see hur). now wht can i do to help win hur back. i really miss hur

also every one thinks she is ugly and desperit but i still love hur so how do i make the ppl who said tht to **** off??

please help me!!!

2007-11-21 08:27:27 · 18 answers · asked by nickkkk 2 in Singles & Dating

I am going to tell this guy, I have known for quite some time, that I love him. I think he knows, we have gone out many times, but he lives very far away. He has come back after 3 years and is going to leave again next week.

"I am going to miss you, the way you talk, the way you are. I have loved you, everyday for the last five years and I think I will love you forever.I am not saying that we HAVE to be together, I am just saying I want you to be happy always, wherever you are and I will always be there for you."

What do you think?
these are true feelings. Damn I am going to miss him so much!

2007-11-21 08:26:23 · 13 answers · asked by deby 1 in Singles & Dating

hes either 15 or 16 yrs old.lives somewhere in chicago..graduated from our lady of tepeyac grade school.i need to reach him very important

2007-11-21 08:24:35 · 1 answers · asked by chrissy 1 in Singles & Dating

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2007-11-21 08:21:33 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i want this guy to notice me and let him know that i think he is cute but i dont want to be like hey i like you and i am kind of shy how do i do that

2007-11-21 08:18:53 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am with a man that has so much hate in his heart however he can be so sweet at the same time.I just found out i am pregnant and yes i have other children and his two kids as well that i have taken under my wing . I love them as they are my own i have been feeling under the weather lately and almost passed out today him and i got into an argument about his x wich is a drug addict and we are going through a custody battle that i have paid good money for.anyway i told him i needed to go to the hospital and he told me to f u c k myself. so i ended up driving myself there. he always tells me they are his kids when we are fighting and talkes very ignorant to me in front of them i think he is bi polar but im not a dr. he said he wolud get a dr. the last big fight which in front of the kids called me some pretty choice words. this is ongoing with him .he just lost his job after 10 years and i am being very supportive.at what point should i walk away.if you dont have a heart dont answer ?

2007-11-21 08:18:41 · 7 answers · asked by dragonfly 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've never had a myspace, but my ex does. We're both 25. I know most of his friends. We broke up like a month ago because he basically wanted to date but not be committed (but still be intimate, act like a couple in public, etc.) I said no so we went our separate ways. Otherwise, he is a great guy. I have not talked to him in 3 wks until yesterday, when he called me out of the blue and told me he's been thinking a lot about me, he misses me, he wants to start seeing me again. He asked me if I was dating anyone, and I'm not, and I asked him if he was and he said no. Well, my friend is his myspace friend and she showed me his page. One of his top friends or whatever is a girl, and a mutual friend of his and the girl's said on his page, "I'm working at this restaurant now, bring her in on a date ;-)" He told me he isn't dating anyone, but according to his page, it kind of looks like it.

We have never had trust issues of any kind... no cheating, anything.

2007-11-21 08:18:19 · 14 answers · asked by Leah 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm 14 and I have never kissed anyone because it never felt right. But now there is this guy and he makes me feel safe and happy and I want to kiss him and he wants to kiss me but I just don't know what to do or how to do it!! Help me!!

2007-11-21 08:18:15 · 6 answers · asked by gtownprincess155 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and my ex brokeup like 10 months ago r atleast i broke up cos of the way she treated me.Then after 3 months she tried getting in touch with me a couple of time online and i asked her to stop trying.I was badly hurt then and really wanted to move on.But now i feel much better and with a clear head i can say that i miss her a lot and in a way still love her.So i got in touch with her a amonth ago and made clear that i was not mad at her and would prefer that we atleast remain in talkin terms.She was ok with it but she wouldnt call me..so i texted her and she says that she misses me a lot too and she's single and her eyes are open.Now im like should i ask her if we ever stand a chance of being together again or just wait till she opens up?Cos i dont want to go thru all the breakup crap again by gettin close to her and the she pulls the plug.Id rather ask her if she's intrested and if she is,i wouldnt mind going all the way to win her back.Plz help!!!
We were together for 2 yrs

2007-11-21 08:18:04 · 4 answers · asked by anonymous 1 in Singles & Dating

I have given my all to my husband, he knows this but he lacks the imagination (í'm guessing) to surprise me. I'm talking about we've been together for 10 yrs and just once I'd love the element of surprise. He used to do that pre-marriage and kids. I don't receive Valentines gifts/Anniversary gifts etc and his excuse is money but I make sure his needs are met in other ways. I'm a very simple woman, communicate my needs effectively and yet, I've never been taken out for dinner or a getaway or anything even a simple surprise-- a So how do I continue a lackluster marriage.

2007-11-21 08:16:26 · 34 answers · asked by Yummy♥Mummy 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-21 08:15:43 · 5 answers · asked by Jim Morrison's L.A. Woman... 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Im 18 and he is 33, I have 2 children aged 2 and 3 and Im 18 weeks pregnant with another baby.

I met him in a club, he is nice and good in bed, he buys me and my babies gifts. hes getting divorced from his wife and wants to move into my council house, i dont want to loose my benefits though, so if I dont tell the government can they find out if no-one grasses?

I dont wanna rip hard earning folk off but i cannot afford to give benefirs up and expect him to payfor my rent and food etc.

we are going to florida keys in 3 weeks time, for a nice break as ive been working hard, i think he loves me and were taking my kids so he must love them too right?

2007-11-21 08:13:07 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-21 08:13:06 · 3 answers · asked by XunknownX 1 in Singles & Dating

okay. i really like this guy. and yes, hes emo. hes a junior, and before, he used to tease me, and hugg me, and...well,you know. flirt.
but now, nothing =(
then this other guy, whos a jock, fell head over heals for me. hes a junior.
and i kissed him.
but now i am majorly confused.
i think that i would rather go for mr. emo, its just that he doesnt talk to me.
and im just a freshman....


im asking this question because i really dont know the answer to this one. i really need your guys' help!
<3

2007-11-21 08:12:54 · 13 answers · asked by buttercup 2 in Singles & Dating

I love this girl, but i have never been able to tell her because she has a boyfriend. I love her so much that i feel if she truly loves the other guy I would rather let them marry and have her be happy. is that the right thing to do?

2007-11-21 08:12:29 · 36 answers · asked by Andy 2 in Singles & Dating

I got the full package, but I'm not sure how to use it.

2007-11-21 08:12:09 · 7 answers · asked by kittie 3 in Singles & Dating

What do you guys think?

2007-11-21 08:07:49 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating