Family & Relationships - 21 November 2007

I just read a question here from somewhere else. Something about an Open Marriage, in that the couples can have sex out of their marriage with whom ever they please to have it with. DOES THIS MEAN that these guys have an extremely super high sex drive and are always horny for sex all the time, that they cannot get satisfied with the husband or wife, so they both look for sexaul satsifaction from someone else????????? I am just merely curious about this!!! Thanks guys for your honest answers.

2007-11-21 11:38:47 · 19 answers · asked by pain_of_unhappiness 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i had a girl from my class message me and tell me she liked me. Me and her had then been getting to know each other and everything seemed to be going good. Then all of a sudden out of no where she just all of a sudden seemed to be not interested anymore. I dont know if i should ask her why this is, and i dont know if it is true that she doesnt like me anymore. It just seems like she doesnt want tot talk much to me anymore, and i know for a fact that i didnt say anything you upset her. Does anyone have any clue what could be the problem?

2007-11-21 11:37:15 · 17 answers · asked by Joe W 1 in Singles & Dating

How can my 10 year old cousin have bigger feet than I do?
I wear a 6.5 UK (7 US) and I'm 5'10, and my shoes fit tight on her!!
Either I got tiny feet or she is going to be a giant...

2007-11-21 11:34:12 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

honestly
what do you look for in a girl

i dont care if its offensive but just tell me.

2007-11-21 11:31:27 · 7 answers · asked by someebeooddyyy 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Just kidding most of our families our nuts any good stories share about your trukey day? I need some laughs, got some?

2007-11-21 11:28:28 · 4 answers · asked by defenseonly 3 in Family

i have been thinking about suicide recientally, actually tried but just got really sick, i feel there is no way out.

I have been married for 10+ years to a wonderful and beautiful woman and have 3 children. here is where the fun begins... I am on the road to a medical diagnosis for a heriditary condition similar to ADD (only gets worse with time) but I have the added curse of not having 'theory of mind'. that means that I am in my own emotional world, I cannot feel empathetic, or know what other people are thinking or feeling. I completely DO NOT get facial cues either.

This has led to MANY years of my wife being angry and frustrated with me for 'not getting it'. My children have NO respect for me (2 of them have the same condition), and dont listen or anything. I have terrible planning skills, ie no retirement or savings. recientally my wife has detached from me and has said several times that she wishes i was dead, she would be better off.

I try to change but i cant.

2007-11-21 11:25:28 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

earlier i posted a few posts about how i suspect my dh is cheating on me. Well like I suspected- when he came home tonight from work he asked if he could go out for a couple of beers with one of the guys from work. When I asked what time he said, "oh around 8ish" and he told me the bar they are going to... well last night when mystery woman called and he walked into the other room i overheard him saying, "8" and then he gave her our address and directions to our house. He knew I was going to be gone at my moms with our daughters this evening helping her get turkey ready for tomorrow. So supposidly "she" will be there to pick him up from our house in 40 minutes. I'm planning on following him to see if he's really being honest with me- but how do I go about it? We live down a private drive on a cul-de-sac in the suburbs- so sitting on the street would be obvious- and there arent any streets to park on. I'm afraid he isnt really going to the bar where he says so I dont want to

2007-11-21 11:22:41 · 20 answers · asked by Amy Clark 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I get them often when my girl sits on my lap and stuff i can tell she can "feel" it by her moving around.

im sorry if this is offensive this is just making me worry.

2007-11-21 11:18:04 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

For example he forces her to nap and she's almost 6.
She cried for 1 hr wanting mommy.
He hangs up on me on the phone when I tell him things like
do not force Alexa to go potty before bed etc.
I think they need a parenting coach.
What can I do? I want to help my lil girl she has finally stopped bed-wetting. I have a psychologist.

2007-11-21 11:11:55 · 6 answers · asked by relaxrx 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My mom recieved a phone call last night that her brother had passed away! "Heart Attack" They say! My Aunt came home and found him lying on the floor 52 yrs. old never smoke never drank! I never really knew him he wasn't much for social but it's my mom's brother how can I make her feel better?

2007-11-21 11:11:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My hubby was having fun outside .After months of fight & aruguments i have decided to give him another chance but I get very angry whenever i see him the thought of what he did makes me boil .i try my best to irritate him even when he does his best to make me happy .but it does not help .how am i to get over this

2007-11-21 11:10:11 · 16 answers · asked by Sabrina T 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I see this a lot in this forum when a woman has had an affair with a married man.
Look at this link
http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20071121/ap_on_re_mi_ea/saudi_rape
This is what happens in societies where women are controlled and villified to the nth degree.
Stoning, lashes, public executions is the far end of the spectrum of this kind of name calling. Do you see that?
This is how women are vilified (made the bad guy) in society.

2007-11-21 11:09:51 · 10 answers · asked by Sunshine Girl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

is this true that all the hot guys are dumb and all the smart guys are nerdy?

2007-11-21 11:09:42 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am getting married in June 2008 and am thinking of having a wildflower theme for my wedding. How would it look if each bridesmaid carried a different hand-tied bouquet made primarily of just one type of wildflower (possibly with a little touch of the same filler flower to tie them all together)? For my bridal bouquet, I would have a mix of all the different types of wildflowers used in the bridesmaid bouquets. Has anyone ever done this or seen this done?

What wildflowers do you recommend using? My bridesmaid dresses are medium-light blue.

2007-11-21 11:08:43 · 5 answers · asked by Emmy Jo (13 weeks with #2) 7 in Weddings

Would you be turned off or even leave a woman if you discovered she had long, protruding labia?

2007-11-21 11:08:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Im 16 and for as long as i can remember, my parents have been off n on off n on and then back off again! growing up, i felt my home life was unstable and extremely unpredictable. Finally, my parents have been able to keep there seperation. Its been 2 years now, off. However, i have found them kissing, also foundout my mum had slept with my dad even tho he had been seein other women, plus it was only a couple of months ago, and they text constantly etc; etc; it seems to me that if it wasnt for me n my brother, they would be bak together. we all know its truthfully, the wrong thing to do. Hes hurt my mum too much, she knows that too. Shes signed the divorce papers yet hasnt submitted them. Lately, mum and i have been fighting alot. not over her n dad, just in general. I feel that i am just completely numb to her now and i know its bad, but i dont feel any sympathy or anything nemore. I am beginning to speak nasty to her, i know that, but it feels like i cant help it. iv lost all respect

2007-11-21 11:06:04 · 3 answers · asked by *Rissoles* 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my friend and her husband have 2 kids. He works 2 jobs and she stays home with the kids. She told me that by the time there done paying bills they have 20 dollars to there name. They also have a car that needs to be fixed. She said shes not gonna have any money to give her kids christmas presents. I feel really bad for her. She asked me for advice on this issue and she said she would feel like a bad parent. She asked me for advice on what she should do or how should she feel..so i wanted opinions to see if my advice was on the right track cuz i dont wanna upset her. I offered her 1,000 dollars to get them gifts and she didnt want it. Do you think me offering her that money made her feel even worse?

2007-11-21 11:04:24 · 11 answers · asked by chickalips11 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Since I am not going home on thanksgiving this year, my roommate's family invite me to their house to have dinner with them. Should I bring anything? They will pick me up tomorrow morning so I have no where to go to buy any gifts. The easiest thing I can make I think are some cookies now... should I bring some or just go with nothing? Or maybe I can send a thankyou card after thanksgiving?

Thanks for your suggestions!

2007-11-21 10:59:00 · 22 answers · asked by ryan 1 in Friends

oh my god....they are gonna go to prom together and i have to watch them....

2007-11-21 10:56:35 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

but have a lot of questions about it. How much does it cost? Can you find Therapists that will accept a payment plan? Does anyone know of a good one in or around Dallas Georgia? Any suggestions?

2007-11-21 10:54:42 · 3 answers · asked by janbp 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What is a "break" ...In relationship wise ? I mean me and my boyfriend need one ! LIke what am i suppose to do ...am i not able to see him and for how long? Please give me as much advice as possible ...we are always fighting and i live with him so i think we need a break and i need help on doing it ??????

2007-11-21 10:48:48 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Every time there is a holiday or important day, this one person in particular says or does something that makes me want to walk away, cry, or wonder what is wrong with him? I try to ignore it but I cannot delete him from my life since we are family and I want to spend time with my children, having a pleasant time. What can I do or say to get him to stop?

2007-11-21 10:48:46 · 24 answers · asked by olivemai 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

people have always said i was nice, girls would say im a chill guy and my mom would say your a good boy im 19 now and when i was younger my mom would say you gotta be more of an asshole with people, but its hard but now im starting to realize that i hate that stamp of being the nice guy and now im trying to change not neccesarily the nice part but other sides of it like being a people pleaser and dropping whatever im doing to go see a girl at the drop of a dime,how can i be a stronger person and do what i want to do and please myself instead of always pleasing everyone else, and ive noticed that i always try to avoid conflict by not standing up for myself when theres something i dont like and i have a hard time looking people in the eye i feel wierd and something compels me to look away, what can i do?

2007-11-21 10:48:00 · 3 answers · asked by cap d 2 in Singles & Dating

if i have sex between the 10 day time slot after my period using a condom what is the chance of getting pregnant? is the best time to have sex the day after your period?

2007-11-21 10:45:34 · 22 answers · asked by Lisa<3 1 in Singles & Dating

Kay' 1st grls what are some good ways to flirt?
now 2nd guys what do guys like?

my sitch is that i like guy1 he is in 8th grade im in 7th and i need to get social with him and i think he likes two of my BFFs but then guy2 in my class likes me but my friend likes guy2 and i dont!!!!!!!11i need major help!!!!

2007-11-21 10:45:10 · 2 answers · asked by Pretty grl! 1 in Singles & Dating

my dad is an electrician for DTE (also starting up his own business) and mom works for Fashon Bug. What is a good silver anneversary present??? I need specifics especially with my dad. please HELP!!!

2007-11-21 10:43:33 · 7 answers · asked by k 2 in Weddings

I am just wondering if I am missing something here with my hubby- as he seems to beleive that paying the house bills, buying groceries and letting me use his car is showing me he loves me. BUT I dont equate love with material things but with emotional things, like romatic gestures, sending me cards, buying me flowers, writing me email poems and affection like hugs and kisses, backrubs and sharing our thoughts each day. I am way off base thinking I should have these things to feel loved?

2007-11-21 10:39:58 · 13 answers · asked by flyingdove 4 in Marriage & Divorce

iiM BoRED AND WANT To TALK To SoMEoNE CUTE

2007-11-21 10:39:07 · 13 answers · asked by NaNaPiiELuVzYoU 1 in Singles & Dating

This is for a novel that I am writing.

This little girl is 7yrs old.. Her name is Lily. She was raised by a man named paul, who exploits her abilities for his own selfish gain.

Lily is taught to obey commands from someone she considers as poweful. She obeys Paul's every command, like a dog. She has been used to kill innocent people, even her own mother.

When Paul was arrested for kidnapping and contributing to the delinquency of a minor. Lily was asleep at the time. She was taken to a childrens home. When she wakes up, she realizes that her master isnt here. She threatens to kill the other children if noone takes her to him. The staff injected some drug that calms her down. Lily doesnt want to play with the other children. She's always alone.

The other children are afraid of her, so if she see people run away from her, she gets apprehensive.

She's 7 yr old, and she can barely speak. I think the only word she can say is "Master" nothing else.

How would you describe this girl?

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Despite being called "his pet". she actually takes that as a sign of love. She really shows affection for him. Paul is the only one she knows.

She doesnt know what a mommy or daddy is. She can't talk at all.

Do you guys think she has a mental disorder? If so what Is it and how can it be treated?

How would you describe this little girl in one word?

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please note that this is fiction. It's for a novel.

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You dont have to describe her in one word, as many words as possible.

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How should Therapist treat her?

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What do you think she will be like when she becomes a teenager?

2007-11-21 10:36:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am in US but not independent bcoz of my visa status.. so cant work.my marriage was an arrange one,I was happy for an year..but now when i have two kids.. i feel this relationship is not working so fine, my husband is so demanding... he wants what he says. in terms of sexual needs or others.. all in all he is dominating.
My realtionship with his mother and sister is also not good, they dont seem to treat me nicely, i feel everybody, even my husband does not share all things with me ..the things that his mother or sister knows.. i am never aware of...
i think of divorcing but , i fear i ahve no money to fight the case and will loose kids, so cant think of it .
I tried to talk to him, that why doesnt he share everything with me , he says its nothing like that, nothing wrong, but i know i am not happy, i didnt got what i dreamt of !
He is a nice father but not a nice husband .I talked to my parents and they say i have to adjust whatever it is. I am alone in US ,please help me .

2007-11-21 10:33:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce