oh my god....they are gonna go to prom together and i have to watch them....
2007-11-21 10:56:35 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I go though this alot to. I get sad when I see my crush with another girl and she is flirting with him. But, even if you like her, find someone new. You'll forget her eventually. There is someone else in the world that is perfect for you!
2007-11-21 11:04:35 · answer #1 · answered by Mimi 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have been in a similar situation. I think that you should decide whether you really LOVE her or not. Do you want her for her body? Do you want her because she is really popular and you think it would be cool to be with someone that has her kind of social status? Or, do you want to be with her because she represents everything you need in a girl? Does being around her make your problems not seem so big? If you chose one of the first 2 sentences, you should admit that she is taken, and if she is happy let her remain that way. If you chose one of the last 2 sentences, you should get to know her really well without it appearing that you are trying steal her(you wouldn't want that). After you know her really well, just let her know. Tell her how you feel. Tell her that you have had these feelings for her for a long time, and you just can't seem to hold it in any longer. Tell her you just want her to know how you feel so that she can help you deal with these feelings. If she is genuinely considerate about your request, and really seems to understand and agrees to talk it over with you about it, then you have no reason to not keep on loving her. If she is mean, or suppose she laughs a little and shrugs you off, or maybe she just ignores you from now on then she is not the girl for you. Whichever one of the cases, don't let it beat you up. Realize you have your whole life ahead of you, and that you won't let something that is happening so early in it get you down. If maybe she seems the only one in the world for you, remember love is something you can't prevent. You WILL find the one truly right for you one day, whether your trying to or not :) I really hope this helps you out. Feel free to e-mail me divine.scorn@yahoo.com
2007-11-21 19:19:48 · answer #2 · answered by SwItCh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A crush is not a relationship. And you don't have a crush; you have an unhealthy obsession. She is not your girlfriend . She has a boyfriend and there's no reason you have to watch them make out. In fact, it's impolite to do so. You can certainly look another way or walk away from them. . And the prom? You don't have to watch them then either. Get interested in someone who doesn't have a boyfriend and spend your time getting a date with her for the prom. You have unrealistic expectations by continuing this crush on someone who isn't available or interested. That's not healthy!
2007-11-21 19:04:08 · answer #3 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You mean, you're obsessed with her so you'll be staring at her the whole time. If you have a date, your eyes should be on YOUR DATE. Don't ruin someone elses prom. If you don't have a date, why go?
Seriously at some point you have to move on. Move towns when you graduate. Make sure you two don't end up at the same college. Sorry if it's harsh... but it's been three years! If it's meant to be it will be... but apparently it's not meant to be right now and no amount of "watching her" will change that or make your situation any better.
Best of luck.
2007-11-21 19:02:33 · answer #4 · answered by ☆andi☆ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i don't know u but yet and still i care 4 u so i'm telling u this as someone who cares 4 u. don't waste ur whole life away loving someone who doesn't feel the same way about u find someone else to fall in luv with or just stay surrounded by friends who can make u feel better. don't let something so small mess up the best night of ur whole life. u deserve to have fun in ur teen years not deppression.
2007-11-21 19:05:16 · answer #5 · answered by superstar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well....I'm sorry to tell you but you're gonna have to move on. You may have had your chance before they went out, to ask her our, but, now, there's not much of a chance. Now, when I say move on, it's not going to be easy, but you're going to have to focus on other things now. I've gone through it, and I know you can, too. Just try to stay friends with her (if you are already) and maybe keep a little hope up. Just because she has a boyfriend doesn't mean all hope is lost! :)
2007-11-21 19:05:14 · answer #6 · answered by Ryan to the MAX. 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Move on. Work really hard on getting another, ideally prettier girlfriend. And avoid the prom, unless you like depression.
2007-11-21 18:59:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's normal to have a crush on someone, but not if it makes you hurt so badly. You have to think of what it would be like to have her in your head only, and know that reality has her with someone else.
2007-11-21 18:59:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Never say never and win her over. Find a way to make her notice you while there is still time. It's not impossible, just believe in yourself and you'll figure something out.
2007-11-21 19:00:20 · answer #9 · answered by Shamu 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You don't love her, you lust for her.
All you can think about is her making out. You just want her to make out with you.
It's obvious she's not into you. Find a girl who is! It's much more satisfying than what you're doing now.
2007-11-21 19:00:01 · answer #10 · answered by Euphonie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋