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My mom recieved a phone call last night that her brother had passed away! "Heart Attack" They say! My Aunt came home and found him lying on the floor 52 yrs. old never smoke never drank! I never really knew him he wasn't much for social but it's my mom's brother how can I make her feel better?

2007-11-21 11:11:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Family

14 answers

Just be there for her. She was his sister and losing a sibling is always traumatic. She had many good years with him growing up. My prayers are with her and the family.

2007-11-21 11:14:48 · answer #1 · answered by Sharon 1 · 0 0

If You and your mom are close then just be there for her, Loss is a funny thing you kinda never get over it you just move into life without them. You never forget you remember with a loving heart, I'm sure your uncle would not want anyone to be sad at this time. When your mom needs to talk about it, don't shrug her off be there for her as she may have been there for you. Sorry for your loss.... Your uncle is in a better place now.....

2007-11-21 11:41:20 · answer #2 · answered by mylacey1 1 · 0 0

She can visit my space, it will make her feel so much better.

Tell her, he is happy where he is, in the afterlife. He is with the Angels, he carries no pain, no negative emotions.

His Soul is watching over your mother, he is always there.

myspace.com/free_spiritual_healing

You can contact me for more advise on my msn

freespiritual.healing@hotmail.co.uk

I am sending a pure white light of strength to you and your mother.

Peace, Love and Light x

2007-11-21 12:16:58 · answer #3 · answered by Pink Angel 2 · 0 0

Be supportive of her and be there for her,and if she needs space to grieve alone then let her have that as well.As long as your there for her that is all the comfort she needs for right now,don't come on too strong or "smother" her with comfort,because the situation is overwhelming for her as it is.

2007-11-21 11:26:34 · answer #4 · answered by demonfirelife 4 · 0 0

sit with your mom be there for her. But your mom's brother never really died because if you think of it his soul never died only the body that the soul stayed in . His soul is still alive. My moms' mom died and that what i told her about how they still live on and she didn't cry anymore. she felt better because she thought of it that way.

2007-11-21 11:28:30 · answer #5 · answered by Britt 4 · 0 0

A hug, cup of tea, house picked up, and a little conversation.Let her talk about "the good ole days" so she can remember her brother and share those memories w/ you.

2007-11-21 11:16:36 · answer #6 · answered by mak 5 · 0 0

I believe that we are not our body. When we die we leave our body behind, but we, ourselves go on. I also believe that those that love us and whom we love, are always with us.

For me personally, I know that when I pass over, I will come and visit my loved ones often.

I bet you anything, that your Uncle is with your mother right now, standing near her and wanting her not to hurt so much.

Get her to read any of John Edwards books, or see him on T.V. or other authors who can see loved ones standing behind those they love on this earth, Look him up on the net and show her what he tells us.

"THIS TO SHALL PASS".

BRITT - Well said!

2007-11-21 11:30:40 · answer #7 · answered by Maureen S 7 · 0 1

i no how u feel..
my great grandmother justb died
and my mom hasn't gotten over it yet..
to be honest..
u can't really do anything
time moves on..
everyone has to die at some point
just walk up to ur mom and give her a big hug
that's wat i did and it did kinda help my mom

good luck

2007-11-21 11:16:04 · answer #8 · answered by bri_dogluver<333 3 · 0 0

all you can do is be there for her and maybe take her out to eat or to the movies or maybe do something you know she likes (Hobbie). but just be nice to her and don't give her any trouble. that's all you can do.

2007-11-21 11:17:02 · answer #9 · answered by Just DiVine 2 · 0 0

Let her know that you are there for her and that she can count on you for support in her time of need.

2007-11-21 11:13:38 · answer #10 · answered by Stompy 2 · 0 0

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