i had a girl from my class message me and tell me she liked me. Me and her had then been getting to know each other and everything seemed to be going good. Then all of a sudden out of no where she just all of a sudden seemed to be not interested anymore. I dont know if i should ask her why this is, and i dont know if it is true that she doesnt like me anymore. It just seems like she doesnt want tot talk much to me anymore, and i know for a fact that i didnt say anything you upset her. Does anyone have any clue what could be the problem?
2007-11-21 11:37:15 · 17 answers · asked by Joe W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she was just playing you until another boy came along she liked more (i hate those kinda girls)
2007-11-21 11:40:12 · answer #1 · answered by wyattwillis19 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Most likely the mystique of a new interest wore off as you became a "real" person (yes, it can change on a dime), or as you got to know each other, you didn't have the things in common she thought you might have, or the personality types are too different, or she spooked at getting more involved...or....or....it could be any number of things. Very likely nothing you did (or didn't do) directly. I gained and lost interest in people a hundred times in school for no reason. One day it was there, next it wasn't. I learned to become very cautious in telling people I liked them too soon, because I didn't like causing exactly what you're going through. However, this might not be the case here, just one possibility. Sorry you're having to go through it.
2007-11-21 11:58:00 · answer #2 · answered by Dose of Reality 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People change their minds. Sometimes they take the wrong interpretation of something. It could be anything, or nothing.
Did you reply to the message? Without pestering, send another message and see what happens. Maybe you're right and she doesn't like you, maybe you're wrong but only you can take the steps to find out.
Don't get stressed over this. It's part of growing up.
2007-11-21 11:44:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be anything. Maybe a former boyfriend came back into the picture and she's focused on him. Maybe she's thinking an online thing isn't as fun as it was before. Maybe she's got more going on in her life and isn't interested in flirting or socializing via computer. Maybe you said something that had her back off or she just plain lost interest.
It could be one of a thousand things--including you putting too much pressure on her as your online buddy. People can and do loose interest for any one of a number of reasons. It's often nobody's fault, it just happens.
2007-11-21 11:42:05 · answer #4 · answered by Elaine M 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Theres no problem at all. Just because she acts uninterested in you doesnt meen she doesnt like you. She probly just figured that you didnt like her. If you ask her out she'll definately say yes. If a girl likes you once she won't stop liking you, even if she acts like she has.
2007-11-21 11:43:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think of relies upon on the girl. in specific circumstances whilst a woman is acquainted with a guy is drawn to her she gets somewhat excited and starts off to image herself with him. And being nervous and shy might properly be extremely lovable lol as far because of the fact the telephone subject is going im no longer precisely specific. If shes nervous too she might desire to anticipate you to call a 2d time. If no longer she might call you returned. If shes no longer fascinated? she in all probability will overlook approximately you lol desire i helped :)
2016-11-12 08:58:07 · answer #6 · answered by purifory 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A woman doesn't turn cold that fast unless her perception has led her to believe you did something wrong. You better ask and be prepared to answer the tough questions.
2007-11-21 11:43:24 · answer #7 · answered by Coop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is shy and embarrassed that she told you she liked you. How long after she told you that did she stop talking to you? I would ask her what's going on?? Just ask her if she's interested and if not it's cool. Hope this helps.
2007-11-21 11:41:30 · answer #8 · answered by adorableangel339 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple...she's not interested anymore...dont mind her...she's not for u...there's lots of reason behind but let her free...she's not the only woman...dont find love let love will find u...for sure there's really a woman for u that u really deserve, cheer up...goodluck and take care...
2007-11-21 11:48:00 · answer #9 · answered by angel love-love is blue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe she is falling for you and is afraid that you won't catch her fall... give her some space to think fist, then ask her why all of a sudden she doesn't talk to you anymore... just give her some time... :)
2007-11-21 11:45:15 · answer #10 · answered by mystique 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These things happen, especially with teens. Just be your usual self. She might change her mind next week or never.
2007-11-21 11:40:42 · answer #11 · answered by beez 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋