Family & Relationships - 21 November 2007

I am a single, straight, 28 year old male that lives at home with his parents and other adult siblings. I am very successful in my career and I am highly educated as well, so it's not like I am a lazy person as some may want to believe when they hear I choose to live at home. My parents actively encourage their kids to live at home as long as they would like and rent free of course. What I don't understand is the jealousy people have of my living arrangements. If they are so jealous, most of them, I am sure, could make arrangments to move back home. I am the brunt of many nasty comments/jokes like this due to many forms of jealousy. It is worth noting that these arrangements did not come easy. I had to cultivate this great relationship with my family over a number of years. So it's not like anything was doled out to me. Plus, this is the least our parents can do considering all the years of joy we have given them in the past. They get a kick out of that when I tell them that.

2007-11-21 10:32:58 · 50 answers · asked by Jack C 1 in Singles & Dating

t month and her app. is next week. i dont have the strength any more and im not sure that i love her anymore,but i have been faithful to her the whole time... we only talk by e-mail, and she doesnt always answer me.. i guess the question is why did she wait so long to make an app. with the doc.??

2007-11-21 10:31:31 · 12 answers · asked by biglou 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-21 10:30:45 · 66 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

well let start from number one well I ment this guy named ___ ya I will keep that to my shelf lol. well any way he acts like he likes me very much. we talk for hrs and when I say hr I mean like 7 hrs a day lol. we talk all the time even when he is in work he finds time to talk to me. he talks to when he is on brake at work. he talks to me when he gets home he talks to me on my phone till 1 am. so ya don't u think the same thing that he really likes me? he told me he wants me to move in with him but I can't b/c Iam 16 and he is 18. so he said when I turn 18 to move in but he says just as friends I don't get it we are so much a like and he acts like he likes me and he is not gay for sure he is not gay well plzzz help me I need it I don't know what to do or say or think plzzzzzzzz I need ur help always katie

2007-11-21 10:29:20 · 18 answers · asked by Katie D 1 in Singles & Dating

well mi girlfriend and i aren't reallry having godd converstaions our converstions are very shorty and i think she is more comfortable talking to this guy named shawn and can tell him anything
but i am her boyfriend and we barely talk.
whats is wrong please help me?..
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i am 14 years old and i am getting really pissed.
i can say i love you to her and she doesn't even say it back but if anyone elses says that to her she says it to them.

2007-11-21 10:28:18 · 58 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi, if u are Japanese please answer, but if ur not please don't. Am trying to find friends who are Japaneses, so if u r please tell me or contact me at isacjerin@yahoo.com. Thanks you, oh am not guy or anything, I just want a Japanese friend thats all.

2007-11-21 10:25:38 · 2 answers · asked by JerBear 3 in Friends

What does that mean?

2007-11-21 10:25:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-21 10:22:26 · 3 answers · asked by l 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, I've been with my boyfriend for the past year We have talked about sex very openly & decided we are both just not ready to have sex. But I'm on birth control & we have condoms anyways. When we decide to have sex & I'm still on birth control & we use a condom Would Pulling out be pointless? Or should we do that too?

2007-11-21 10:21:11 · 2 answers · asked by Lissajo 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok this lady use to be my dads girlfriend they broke up but still talk. shes evil. she comes over alot but this time she brought her kids she has 2 sons and 1 daughter and one of her sons is nice and sweet but her other one is mental or like disabled theres nothing wrong with that but he always use to touch me and hump me and i havent seen him since (her daughters not the greatest but i can deal wit her) im locked up in my room right now cuz i dont want her mental son touching me what should i do shes gonna be here for like 4 hours i dont want to be in my room that long but i dont want her mental son touching me. what do i do P.S my dad knows shes evil but for some reson he lets her come. we didnt know she was going to bring her kids here

2007-11-21 10:16:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I found out that I was pregnant in september, his mum came to live with us a week before the wedding, but a couple of weeks after we were married he decides he NEEDS to go out with his mates, yet in the whole year we were engaged he NEVER went out once, even though I said for him to go out once in a while, he refused and said he weren't interested he would rather be with me.
But lately it feels like he ONLY wants to go out with his mates and we never go out anymore what can I do

2007-11-21 10:16:58 · 20 answers · asked by hyperactivetigger 2 in Marriage & Divorce

what ever could it be....??

do you want to gamble and find out, or go home with a bag of jelly babies??

2007-11-21 10:14:30 · 15 answers · asked by Maximus_Decimus_Meridius 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i got arrested last week and cuffed behind my back by the police officer. The cuffs were put on real tight which hurt my wrists.... i was later released without charge.

This week my boyfriend decided to cuff me in the bedroom, which i wasnt too sure about, but i guess he liked it!!

he said he wanted to arrest me.....

have you ever been handcuffed??

xx

2007-11-21 10:12:44 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-21 10:12:35 · 6 answers · asked by College girl 2 in Weddings

i wanna watch a scary movie with my boyfriend. one that is rele scary so we'll be close together....any suggestions please:] thankz

2007-11-21 10:11:54 · 10 answers · asked by linda 1 in Singles & Dating

Why, why, why!!!

2007-11-21 10:11:22 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im pretty atracted to asian girls but i dont know if it is typical for them to like tall white guys?

2007-11-21 10:07:05 · 10 answers · asked by matty123 1 in Singles & Dating

I love my boyfriend but i'm beginning to have feelings for somebody else and the other person already said he likes me to i just don't want to ruin me and my boyfriend's relationship and we have a 4 month old daughter we have been together for 2 years and 2 months but i've known him for a little over 3 years on the other hand i have known the other guy for 9-10 years just recently i started likeing him i don't know what to do?

2007-11-21 10:02:16 · 1 answers · asked by shelly 1 in Singles & Dating

today i comed home n i open door n there hubby is right were i lefted him on couch n he watch tv n drinkin miller lite n he have 2 pall malls in his mouh n i look @ tv n he watch girl gone wilds!!!!! then i look back over at him i notice he have his pants undoned!!!!!!!!!! but i not ables to see nothing cause he belly cover that area down there but iyelled @ him n tolded him to stops watchin that trash n i turn tv off n he not 2 happy!!!!!!!!!!!! then he demand macdonals n i try n says no cause he bad but he get reely mad n he start throwin stuff so i just gose get it,,,,,,,,,,shood i worry bout what he dose during day????????

2007-11-21 10:01:11 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i feel so lonely yet i'm surrounded by people that love me and i love in return. the person that i want to be here isnt here. and i miss him. we haven't talked much lately and it feels so horrible. i dont know why. i mean we did talk for a bit yesterday and he called me the day before but it seems like he's always too busy for me. i don't know if it's true or if we are just growing apart. i don't want to lose him. i just wish things were back to the way they used to be when we would talk for hours a day and it would still feel like we hadnt had enough time together but now when we talk he's always tired and he goes to bed. at least he does still tell me that he loves me but i still don't know what to do. i know i should probably talk to him about it but i don't know exactly what to say and i don't want him to think that i'm just having hormone issues. i need help ='(
do you think there's another girl? what should i do?

2007-11-21 09:59:58 · 3 answers · asked by precious 3 in Singles & Dating

If you see an avatar that acted like they want to go out with you flirt with other avatars.I noticed some girls knows and still flirt back shame on them.

2007-11-21 09:58:42 · 11 answers · asked by @NGEL B@BY 7 in Singles & Dating

me and my girlfriend are in a long distance relationship. we live 4 and a half hours away. i am 18 and she is 16. her mom is ok with us being together and has no problenm with her and me talking on the phone. but her dad on the other hand does not like us being together and does not like us talking on the phone either. i am kind of pissed at the dad because he does not even know me. he knows my name and age but thats about it. i am not sure if there is anything i can do. is there anything i can do or not?

2007-11-21 09:57:34 · 6 answers · asked by djfellowship3 1 in Family

when they tell you to stop talking.

2007-11-21 09:50:39 · 10 answers · asked by @NGEL B@BY 7 in Singles & Dating

my ex girlfriend and i have a baby together and we been together for 2 years her ex boyfriend jus got out of prsion he was in for 3 years almost...we got to arguing before he got out and didnt know he was now we broke up and and she is back messing around with this guy who treats her like crap and has physically abused her... she is attracted to him and is losing interest in me...this guy has been in her life for a long time before me and now im stuck and have a baby with her and i love her to death...what do i do?

2007-11-21 09:37:43 · 9 answers · asked by soolost! 1 in Singles & Dating

when they watch girls gone wild.I mean gone was in the past tense so they are grandmas by now.

2007-11-21 09:35:42 · 5 answers · asked by @NGEL B@BY 7 in Singles & Dating

What do I do. I really like this guy. He is a seinor and I'm a freshman. He wants to ask me out I know from my best friend Maddi. My dad dosn't want me to date a seinor but my mom says its fine as long as I am careful and I know that I know that I will get my heart broke when he leaves for the Marines in June. He is soooooooooo nice and he doesn't think like other guys that I know he respects women. He holds doors for me and walks me to class and when I am talking he listens to me like there is no one eles in the world. I don't know what to do I want to make my dad happy but I really want to give this guy a chance

2007-11-21 09:30:36 · 4 answers · asked by Jessie 2 in Singles & Dating

When guys are flirty and they flirt with every single girl the same way, they treat me good but like every other girl. I want to be that one girl that he'll fall in love with, how am i suppose to make myself stand out to get treated good without being any other girl? You know what i mean..

2007-11-21 09:30:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i found out by accident. i want to disown her now cos im against it. my bf says its her life. how would u feel if it was your mum? both men have kids.

2007-11-21 09:28:45 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-21 09:28:08 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Are some women bothered by their boyfriend/husband watching porn but do not let others know about it ? Do you think this is somewhat common that the woman will not tell others about her boyfriend/husbands habits ?

2007-11-21 09:26:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating