me and my girlfriend are in a long distance relationship. we live 4 and a half hours away. i am 18 and she is 16. her mom is ok with us being together and has no problenm with her and me talking on the phone. but her dad on the other hand does not like us being together and does not like us talking on the phone either. i am kind of pissed at the dad because he does not even know me. he knows my name and age but thats about it. i am not sure if there is anything i can do. is there anything i can do or not?
2007-11-21 09:57:34 · 6 answers · asked by djfellowship3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
also some of my friends think i should try talking to the dad. they think it might help some. i don't know if it would. i have never ever had a problem with a girlfriends dad before. we also have been together for 5 months now.
2007-11-21 09:57:56 · update #1
If you really love your girl, it might do some good if you attempt to talk to the father... I'm in a VERY similar situation that you're in, however, I attempted to talk to the father.. the problem with mines though is that the dad is an *** hole n doesn't want to give me the time of day to introduce myself n let him know ima good guy n really love his daughter.. for your situation though, depending on how the father is, it may be good to try to talk to him though.. hopefully he's understanding and accepts you.. if not, just keep doing what you do n don't worry bout the father.. you still have the mother on your side n your girl loves you so don't let the father ruin yall love for each other.. cuz it is true dads tend to act like that, specially with the age crap.. it sucks i know.. but keep the love strong between yall n everything will be koo, cuz the relationship is between you two, not her dad.. people are going to hate or interfere, but jus keep the love strong..while still respecting her parents.. (oh but don't do anything that would would be against the law, however, cuz you're considered a man n she is underage still.. n yea dats same prob i got, sucks.. but g2 deal wit it for the one you love)
2007-11-21 10:06:26 · answer #1 · answered by KaOs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to break it to you, but there is nothing that you can do. She is a minor, and while her mom may say that she is ok with your relationship right now that could change with the blink of an eye. Try and be as respectful as you can, he is her father after all. Ask your girlfriend if maybe you can arrange for her to have permission to be on the phone at certain times of the week. That way her dad is still in control, but you get to talk to her. Once again, if you want to continue dating her be respectful of her parents wishes, no matter what they are.
2007-11-21 10:03:38 · answer #2 · answered by karijay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her dad was 18 once and he knows how 18 year old boys
think! more so these days then ever before, 18/16 is a bit
young in Daddy's view to be sure. Respect her father, if he
answers the phone when you call, start a conversation with him, it is not you, it is boys! Dad's are protective of their daughters, especially if she is his first teen. My Dad was the
same way, and so was my son about his daughter, and my husband about her. If you have a daughter one day then you will understand.
2007-11-21 10:17:19 · answer #3 · answered by jenny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess he is just a protective father who knows how predatory a lot of 18 year old boys are about having sex with girls and wants to keep his little princess a virgin as long as possible.
You could talk to him, but I doubt he'll change his mind about you while his daughter is still so young.
2007-11-21 10:04:41 · answer #4 · answered by bri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-16 15:37:27 · answer #5 · answered by miceli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By law, you're an adult and his daughter is a minor. Don't push his wrong buttons. This is one man you do not want to piss off.
2007-11-21 10:02:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋