my ex girlfriend and i have a baby together and we been together for 2 years her ex boyfriend jus got out of prsion he was in for 3 years almost...we got to arguing before he got out and didnt know he was now we broke up and and she is back messing around with this guy who treats her like crap and has physically abused her... she is attracted to him and is losing interest in me...this guy has been in her life for a long time before me and now im stuck and have a baby with her and i love her to death...what do i do?
2007-11-21 09:37:43 · 9 answers · asked by soolost! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The only thing that you can do. Be there for your baby and help her pick up the pieces when the $hit hits the fan between her and jail bird dude. It will hit the fan. Obviously he's trash. Think about getting partial custody so that your child isn't affected too much by the fall out from an abusive relationship. Good luck, you're going to need it.
2007-11-21 09:46:43 · answer #1 · answered by sustasue 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you need her dude. Just be sure to adopt the baby before she comes back for it. Let her go, for both your sakes. She is a mistake. Don't make it twice, and to the baby too. Learn from it friend. Good luck.
2007-11-21 09:47:38 · answer #2 · answered by Blue Hues 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about it. Tall her that you need and love her and if not for you then for the baby. Makes sure she understands this and that her ex boyfriend is treating her like crap.
If she still doesnt budge then its not worth continuing a relationship with her no matter how much you love her. If you decide to its just going to bring more pain.
2007-11-21 09:44:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
This happens every day. Except it is usually the guy leaving. What you do is you try to get full custody of your child, Live your life, move on... and love your kid forever.
2007-11-21 09:43:32 · answer #4 · answered by Jessie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't take no sh!t from any female that disrespects you... and she did.
And you know what else?
Jail bird dude lives by the above statement and she is attracted to him...go figure.
2007-11-21 11:53:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be straight forward with her and tell her how you fell.
Ask her to choose who she wants to be with and stick to her decision.
And if she doesn't choose you get full custody of the baby and get on with your life.
2007-11-21 09:44:47 · answer #6 · answered by kittie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is up for discussion and there are in fact several potential answers to the question
2016-08-26 07:37:53 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try telling her how you feel, and show her by being a better father to your baby then the other guy :)
2007-11-21 09:41:38 · answer #8 · answered by nicci 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
JERRY JERRY...sorry...i am just kidding....talk to her but dont do anything to him that you will regret...or talk to her mama!
2007-11-21 09:47:06 · answer #9 · answered by LiveLikeMusic 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋