7th grader gurl friend help / ideas?

Question

ok now my and my gurl friend are in 7th grade (and if any one sais we dont know wht love is at our age i do cuz i havent stoped thinkin bout hur no lie so clearly i do) and she asked me out yestorday 11♥20♥07 and she broke up with me to day since me and some of hur friends "dont get along" very whell. now i have made things work today and now hur friends are cool with me now. i asked hur out and she said i have to think about it (and just to let u know i dont have skool till monday and skool is the only time i see hur). now wht can i do to help win hur back. i really miss hur

also every one thinks she is ugly and desperit but i still love hur so how do i make the ppl who said tht to **** off??

please help me!!!

ok ummm i said tht me and hur friends had some problems but we settled them and now were kwool and then i asked hur out aigan and she said i need to think so if u can give me any lines or umm poems or some thng tht will work to help get hur back tht would be nice

oo btw i have gone out with other gurls befor and i have never once locked arms but i did with hur

Answer 1

wow Jr. high drama.................
just get over her because this relationship doesn't really matter, only the high school ones i guess, and college and every relationship after that.
sorry i know it the details you said that you LOVE her so much
but pleese take my advice
been there done that

Answer 2

First, just because you think of someone everyday does not mean that you are in love with them...you may just be infatuated with them. If you really like this girl, you need to respect that she needs some time to think things over. Monday isn't that far away (I know it may seem like it), but it will be here soon enough. As for everyone that thinks she is ugly and desperate, obviously she isn't that desperate since she has to take time to think over your relationship. Just tell those people, that it is none of their business who you like and to respect how you feel. Hopefully that will help...just remember...try and act like adults about this kind of stuff (acting childish will get you nowhere).

P.S. It is not cool when the words that you type are not spelled correctly, you may think so but it really isn't. gurl= girl, hur= her, desperit= desperate, skool= school.

Answer 3

First.... you shouldn't be using language like that, your only what 12 or 13. I know that you can know what true love is in 7th grade, but I found it in 8th. I met my boyfriend in 8th grade, but we didn't start dating until high school. If she really likes you, it doesn't matter what her friends think of you. And if she cares more about what they say, then you deserve better than her. To win her back, just tell her how you feel, tell her how beautiful you think she is. (Make sure you use the word "beautiful" not "hot" or "sexy".) I like to be told I am beautiful. Tell her what you like about her. For example, her pretty eyes, her laugh, her voice. Good luck. I hope this works for you! I would be happy to offer you more advice or talk to you further if you want. my email address is [e-mail]
God Bless,
Britany

P.S. I am 16 and I have had the same boyfriend for over a year now. Also, I know that you can know what love is at your age. I have seen it. I know people who started dating in the 2nd and 3rd grade and got married and are still very happy. Love can be confusing, but I will talk to you any time.

Answer 4

God, invented spelling is a pain to read.

Anyway, just ignore those who are unkind. If you say/do anything, you just fall into their game.

Girls of that age make and break social connections a dozen times a week. You're thinking about this as a guy and that's not the way her brain works. She's a girl. Get into her social network. Make friends with her friends. Hang out with the people she hangs out with.

But at the same time, be yourself. If the previous sentence is incompatible with the previous paragraph, drop her. She's shallow and not worth it.

Answer 5

just because you think about someone all the time does not mean you are in love with them...seventh grade...WOW you are so young! really i am in high school and i know where you are coming from trust me! i really liked my ex boyfriends i thought about them all the time...i wanted to be with them all the time...(its not love) but REALLY you WILL get over it! as much as you think you want to be with her...you need to realize that you are probably better off without her! you are sooo young and you have so much more you need to learn about...dont think about girls now! wait until you are older and a little more mature and THEN you can find someone! you and this girl only lasted a day...so maybe she just didnt see that there was anything in common between you two! i know its hard but i PROMISE you that you can find someone else when the time comes! and as for the people talking about her being ugly and desperate...just tell them that you dont care what they think and that she is a really nice girl and they should leave her alone!

Answer 6

ok u dont know what love is so lets just get that straight. No one your age does. she cant like u that much if she has to think about if she wants to date you or not. I wouldnt worry and move on.
I use to think the same when I was your age, I was so in love (i thought) with this guy that didn't even go to my school and no I have grown up and thought ha ha how stupid was I. get over her and move on find someone that won't think about dating you and will see u out of school hours.

Answer 7

look, you are in 7th grade, you really don't know what "love" is. i dont know what love is and i am 17 years old. she is the person that asked you out yesturday and SHE broke up with you today. honestly, i think she is playing you and doesn't really want to be with you. a relationship when you are 12 years old is not a real relationship. i would give it time. wait till you are in high school to see if you still like her.
and regarding her looks, if you think she is beautiful, then that is the only thing that matters.
if other people think she is ugly, they don't matter.
you might miss her, but it really is lust, not love.
does your mom even let you date yet?
if so, ask her to the movies or to hang out with you.
just hanging out at school does not give you enough time or personal moments with her to tell you that it really is love.

Answer 8

To get her to fall for you, get her alone. without her friends.

Ask her if she wants to go to a movie or something. If she's not aloud to go on "dates" then do something more simple that friends do.
(nothing too public, like bowling or the mall because you want her to think about you more than what you guys are doing)

If she see's her friends she's going to end up rejecting you.

So just smile at her. ALOT. and make her laugh. eventually you'll get the girl. When her friends freak out, just be even more confident and cool about it. dont be an ***, whatever you do.

Answer 9

get with someone you "love" for more than a day. i know you might think it's love. but she's just a chick you're crushing on. after one day you miss her? lol! try falling in love with someone and having them torn away from you. Scott Knoles, my ex bf, and now he's dead because of this stupid war. try loving someone and watching them die. So, i guess what I'm trying to say is, You have the right idea when it comes to love, but it's just the beginning. 7th grade is puppy love.

Answer 10

take it from me.... i just went through the whole love scene wi dis gurl my bff and like we had a weird relationship.. though we never went out she still knows i love her... and itz weird cuz da only reason y she won't go out with me is cuz we're bff but anyways i'm kinda over with her ND TRUST MEE ur infatuated: which mean more than like.. but less than love.. kinda obsessed but i guess in a positive nd negative way =D but yeah when you get older you'll see that there's other gurls but until then yeahh.
oh nd about the ppl who say crap about u liking her.. just tell them this..... (btw this is my philosphy or in other words how i think when ppl say crap...) "idc what you think cuz i know what i think nd ur wrong cuz u dnt kno me like that" but yeah .. itz something along those lines but i 4got ... basically itz an idc what you think attitude =D