Im 18 and he is 33, I have 2 children aged 2 and 3 and Im 18 weeks pregnant with another baby.
I met him in a club, he is nice and good in bed, he buys me and my babies gifts. hes getting divorced from his wife and wants to move into my council house, i dont want to loose my benefits though, so if I dont tell the government can they find out if no-one grasses?
I dont wanna rip hard earning folk off but i cannot afford to give benefirs up and expect him to payfor my rent and food etc.
we are going to florida keys in 3 weeks time, for a nice break as ive been working hard, i think he loves me and were taking my kids so he must love them too right?
2007-11-21 08:13:07 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This baby im preggo with was not his, he thinks its his, its another lads from the place where I work.
i want him to think its his so he can leave his fat old wife and move in with me.
2007-11-21 08:27:18 · update #1
How long have you known this guy? Is he the dad of baby #3? I'd say slow down girl- you're only 18 and already have alot on your plate. If you are in the UK and planning a trip for 4 to the Florida Keys (must be costly) it seems someone must have a good job- so perhaps he should be financing part of your rent and food (a %). We cannot know about the love part, but proceeding slowly shold be your first priority, with such young kids.
2007-11-21 08:24:29 · answer #1 · answered by GEEGEE 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd invite you to read what you've just written here and take a long hard look at your life... God, where is it all going?! Instead of thinking about some new guy, isn't it time you took your responsibilities! You are a mother, with another kid on the way, don't you want to set an example to your kids, get out there and find a job, earn your own money and be independent, rather than rely on the government and on that new guy to provide for you!
2007-11-21 09:30:39 · answer #2 · answered by nat_skye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is that why u asked "am I pretty?" in Ur other question ? I would just worry about looking after Ur kids more than anything,try to find a decent job a few months after you've given birth to this poor soul so u can pay for a better life for Ur kids! I'm not doubting that Ur not a good mother but u should concentrate on ur babies lives first instead of worrying and asking questions about some man who is probably only using u for s*x!
2007-11-22 01:35:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a user to me, and he sounds like a sucker.
The rules are there for a reason.
As for advice...stop popping out babies to milk the system.
If you want to shack up, do it on your own dime.
See I don't want to live off hard working folk either, so I'm not leaving my wife, and flying off to the Keys, as I've been working and going to night school to keep up for over 30 years!
Sloth is not a virtue I take to kindly.
Edit: Your added comments make it clear that the question is a hoax, or that you are a sociopath.
2007-11-21 08:29:33 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. Me 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You can't afford to give up the benefits but you can afford a holiday to Florida Keys - go figure?! And by the way he's 33, your'e 18, he's only after you for the sex!
2007-11-21 08:18:48 · answer #5 · answered by greeneyes 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I just love working my azz off for trash like you. You have slept with a married man that you barley know and are now pregnant and have two babies at home which you can't afford and are going on a nice vacation? And NO he probably does not love your kids, but you probably don't have any other option but to take them...I feel very sorry for your kids.
2007-11-21 08:17:02 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs. Jack Sparrow ♥ 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Oh man. I HATE sleazy women like you.
Get off your dead as* and GET A JOB. You're only 18 and have THREE kids already? How pathetic. I guess you never learned about condoms or even keeping your damn legs shut. Now hard-working taxpayers like myself are forced to care for your illegitimate kids. Nice.
Drop the married guy, forget the trip, and get off the damn benefits. Get a job and stop sucking off the taxpayers t*t.
2007-11-21 08:21:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
No offense but its people like you that piss people off meet a better man stay out of the damn clubs and meet a man who can afford to take care of you and children. Don't be ****. And care about him buying you guys gift and how good he is in bed, your thinking with your butt like my mom says.
2007-11-21 08:20:29 · answer #8 · answered by Kitade 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't mess with the government like that. Trust me, they always find out. You should also be more careful about who you let around your kids. I would back up and take it slow for awhile.
2007-11-21 08:17:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
18 y/o and 3 kids dating a 33 year old? you need serious help.
2007-11-21 08:17:19 · answer #10 · answered by Hello2u 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋