What works with women?

Question

im 26 years old, im just wondering what stratagey works with girls aged from 19-28. First i get told that approaching and being confident works. Then i get told, just dont do anything, and wait for a girl to approach me. Which i done that, and i got nothing.Been single for 3 years cause i wont approach. Then i get told to be a challenge and make the women work for my attention. I dunno how to do that. I mean, what really works?

Answer 1

what works is being yourself. every girl is different and likes different types of guys.

I personally HATE arrogance and a really confident guy, to me, come off more like a player than anything else. I like the shy guy but he still has to make the first move.

I appraoched a guy ONCE when I was 27 and gave him my number. We ended up dating for 14 months but it was the worst 14 months of my life and I will NEVER do it again.

Just a note too...you may want to post in Marriage and Divorce where the members are older....

Answer 2

Not sure who told you to just wait, or to act unavailable, but that is useless info! Honestly the best way to get a date is to approach a woman, be honest, tell her you are attracted to her and would like to get to know her, then ask her if she is interested you would like to take her out. No games, the only person who would be interested in you if you play games, is another game player, if that's not what you want then directness and honesty will be your best bet. Not every girl will open up to you, but being shot down is part of the process, besides, the right one will find your approach charming and be looking forward to getting to know you better. Good luck.

Answer 3

Confidence works. Show the girl that you are interested in her. Because 99 out of 100 times, a girl won't approach you. Don't be a sleezy about it. Women like gentleman.

Approach her, tell her you would like to take her out some time. What's the worst thing that could happen?

Answer 4

Well, if you have been unwillingly single for 3 years, then obviously your method of approach has been wrong. Ignore what people say, go from your own experience. If you have had bad luck doing it this way, then do it that way. If you get a good response from this, then continue to do this....stick with what works, abandon things that don't!

Answer 5

Okay... most women won't approach you, they want to be the one persued. And they want the men to work for their attention, its all a game women like to play. Your best bet is to go along with it. Talk to women and initiate conversations and such. Dont' be shy, be confident and go after what you want. if you get shot down, get back up and try another one. There are pleeeenty of women out there

Answer 6

Look for the woman you like and make her laugh without being a jerk. If she rejects you never mind look for another one. I woman wants to laugh and be laughed at without being overtly nice especially good looking women. Pay her attention without paying her attention. She will love the challenge.

I paid my ex wife all the attention and she me for less attentive but more money guys.

Answer 7

b urself and don't try to act like sumthing ur not. be sweet, considerate, (this next part may sound like ur mother, but u asked 4 it!) MANNERS! i.e.-open car doors if on a date, offer to buy a drink, etc. confidence plays a big key in all of this. have fun!

Answer 8

never mind what you have been told ;or heard .if you see someone . you like just go for it .just start talking ; talk about anything ;what ever come.s into your head .if you don.t ask ;you won.t get .you do not want too wait another 3 yrs .
good luck with that .

Answer 9

Thou must ply them with large quantities of alcohol.

Answer 10

be confident, be cocky and funny, make fun of them in a good way. read double your dateing. at doubleyourdating.com. that helped me