Family & Relationships - 14 November 2007

... or what has prevented you from doing so in the past?

2007-11-14 08:20:05 · 5 answers · asked by Challah back Girl... 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-14 08:19:49 · 21 answers · asked by ric_360 3 in Singles & Dating

My Cousin is mad at me because i told his ex gf (who is my friend) that he was cheating on her and now he's sending me NASTY messages and comments and he won't admit he was cheating! And It's making me all sad=[ what do i do?

2007-11-14 08:16:01 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend is in a rough spot and a am not sure what to tell her she means a lot to me and I hate to see her in such pain. I asked her how she was doing and this is how she responded. " My life is falling apart. My family is falling apart, my body is falling apart, my heart is falling apart, we have to get rid of my dog, My Dad's been out of town now for five weeks, my moms like dying of pain and I can't do anything because of freaking ankle,( she tore all the ligiments in her ankle 3 weeks ago) my senior year is like crap from here on."
What can I do to take some of that pain away from her to make her feel better?

2007-11-14 08:13:11 · 4 answers · asked by west17lake 2 in Singles & Dating

To a wedding? after being together for 5 years?
Assuming you don't think it's selfish.
His reason for not going is he thinks a wedding is pointless and boring, that he would have to rent a suit, and that it's not even of my someone of my immediate family, it's a cousin's.

2007-11-14 08:09:51 · 1 answers · asked by jade 2 in Singles & Dating

"if i could do one thing it would be kiss u in the middle of the loneliest road on the rainest day of the year?" then it said meet me here???? what does this mean

2007-11-14 08:07:27 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Would you rather be married to a girl who is a perfect 10 in looks, but will only let you have sex with her three times a month,

or

a girl who is a 5, but wants to have sex at least once every night?

2007-11-14 08:05:17 · 36 answers · asked by IrishFan2011 3 in Singles & Dating

I have been blessed/cursed with the look of a 13-17 year old. Bad part about it is that I am 26. I also have been hoplessly single since I was in undergrad. I am 5'4" so that really doesn't help much.
I want to meet/date men my age, but when they find out how old I am, they tend to still treat me like a girl the age they thought I was (anywhere from 13-17). I wear make-up from time to time but that usually doesn't help. I definitely dress my age, but teenagers are wearing the same thing as twenty-somethings these days anyway, so that doesn't matter. What are some suggestions for meeting new people? (preferably not internet dating)

2007-11-14 08:04:12 · 14 answers · asked by krisy_80 3 in Singles & Dating

we have been together for a year now and married for 5 months. I was virgin when I met him and he was not. But sometimes I think of his ex sexually involved. I see dreams that she is calling him. I feel so insecure. I love him. And its not that i am jealous of her but I feel like my husband loved her once and he enjoyed every year of his life. I know that it was his decision. he told me once that If I met him when he was young we would be having sex 24/7. that made me feel that he was having sex with her a lot. I don't want to think about it but sometimes I feel so hurt and bad that I am not first for him. And he did all the things with other women that he is doing it with me. How do I don't think about that. believe me I don't want to think about that. His Ex was virgin 15 yrs old when she met him. he was in really good shape. He was exercising a lot which he don't do it now. I don't want to think about that. But sometimes when I see him I think that he was somebody 's else before me

2007-11-14 08:03:03 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm having sex troubles I need some help please! My husband thinks he suffers from PE and we've laughed about it sometimes and moved on, well at least that's what I thought we were doing till a couple of days ago when I noticed that he wasn't excited about having some. I started to think what the hell is going on? Kinda mad, kinda frustrated but I thought he'll get over it. So I got up the other day to do some homework on the computer, back-tracked a little bit with the arrow and saw a lot of porn websites, I felt like my blood was boiling because even though I don't mind him watching porn, I don't want to see any of that on the computer and of course I was mad because I wasn't getting any but he was watching porn on the net. Anyway, he says that he doesn't want to have sex with me because he is embarrassed about finishing too early and me not finishing at all. It happens sometimes
I'm not going to lie, but I think we are both quick. I love him and want him but

2007-11-14 08:02:13 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-14 08:00:26 · 13 answers · asked by babygurl 1 in Singles & Dating

I like this girl in my math class. But I don't really have the confidence to go up and talk to her. I'm fine talking with other girls that I don't like but whenever I see her I become really nervous and freeze up. What should I do.

2007-11-14 07:58:14 · 4 answers · asked by James 2 in Singles & Dating

No official wedding song discussion yet, but we have been together for almost 7 years and our songis NSync's "This I promise you." ( I know, I know...but in our defense, we started dating when we were 17!) That is pretty much the only song we think of as our special song. But how corny will people think it is if that is our wedding song?

Should we use the song because it really means something to us and has been our song for so long, or should we start searching for a new song that might seem more "acceptable"? I know it's our wedding and we shouldn't care what people think, but I also don't want everyone to make fun of us! What do you think?

2007-11-14 07:54:39 · 69 answers · asked by Naughty ♥Angel♥ Mommy2B! 4 in Weddings

She included everyone but me. And my husband (her son) he was in Iraq when she got married though. I have been her daughter in law for 8 years. Her daughter and step daughter were brides maids, her son's were grooms men, my son was the ring bearer and another little girl was flower girl. Candle lighters were her son's friend and her son's girlfriend of just a few weeks. She told me she made her son's new girlfriend a candle lighter cause she would be upset if she was not included. She totally left me out of EVERYTHING! She didn't even ask me to be in any of her wedding pictures. Why would she do this?

2007-11-14 07:53:33 · 16 answers · asked by honeybear 5 in Marriage & Divorce

when i ask them to do something they either say blah blah blah or say NO ,hit me or even cuss me out wat do i do they dont listen to me there are ????????? just help me please ones 3 and ones 5 im 14 and when i hit them or get them back i git hit or yelled at from my mom and tells me im not an asdultbut when my mom asks me something she goes who is the adult in the siuation.....what does she want me to do be a kid or an adult and help me about my brothers....my sister is 7 wks old so she isnt bad yet..... x(

2007-11-14 07:51:33 · 18 answers · asked by Darien 1 in Family

me and my husband have been together for almost 9 years we have two kids together 5 & 7. he cheated on me with a fat ugly *****. i love him so much and i'm still trying to forgive him, but its so hard to forget.

2007-11-14 07:49:37 · 18 answers · asked by Jessie A 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-14 07:47:12 · 14 answers · asked by Melissa M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm in the 11th grade. Ok, in our class the teacher sometimes lets us listen to our personal music while doing work, and this kid who's ALWAYS begging for my iPod asked can he listen to it, and I was like, "Not right now", and he kept begging, and then I finally said "No". And the reason why I didn't let him listen to it was because in our class we have a lot of kids who can't "get" things like that, and I was affraid that if some kids saw HIM with my iPods they were going to want to see it, then some other kids would want to see it. And I know thats how some people's things get "missing" because of multiple kids wanting to hold something of someone's.
Please don't say "You shouldn't have brought it" because it helps he focus better, and I get my work done quicker.
So do you guys think I was mean?
Thanks.

2007-11-14 07:46:56 · 46 answers · asked by B-Rad 4 in Friends

okay i have a three month old and a crazy boyfriend that we have been together for seven yrs, we are common law married. We have been falling apart latley and i don't know if staying together for the baby is worth it because I love her soo much. He is angrey towards me most of the time because he has a.d.d without medication, so its uncontroled and I know I can do better for me and my baby. His family has a past history of child abuse, he gets SSI because he can't care for him self because of a mental disorder, all of his siblings and him were takin away from thier parents for a few years when they were younger because of unfit living conditions and abuse. His brother and wife have child protection services watching them because of child neglect with their kids.My family and I have no past record of anything, just love and care, What I want too know is do I have a better chance getting custody of the baby or him? He thinks he does, what do you think?

2007-11-14 07:45:45 · 26 answers · asked by squuishee 3 in Marriage & Divorce

A friend of mine asked my advice about a relationship problem he's having. He girlfriend of nearly 2 years broke up with him last week. She claims her heart is hurt and she needs time to heal. From what he explained to me and what I read in her blog, she is hurt because of arguments they have had. He would become frustrated with her not listening to him, and he would raise his voice. She seemed to not understand how his level of frustration had increased or escalated due to situations. She seems to think he was being mean just because. So during this time of break up (about a week and a half now) they have still be talking on the phone, hanging out with each other, going on dates, and even kissing. The only real difference is they are not sleeping together. He had been living with her, but is now staying somewhere else. She let him keep his key and he comes over to do laundry and stuff with her permission.

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2007-11-14 07:45:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Do you dislike your brother because of his wife now and feel things will never be same.

2007-11-14 07:44:31 · 14 answers · asked by bdf s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-14 07:43:16 · 52 answers · asked by v8on 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-14 07:43:12 · 26 answers · asked by Chingaleng 2 in Marriage & Divorce

she has mentioned a mystery party but i have know clue how to go about it. any suggests to make it great ?? We are conservitive so nothing unappropraite please

2007-11-14 07:41:15 · 29 answers · asked by luvelyLEE23 2 in Family

ok, i saw that the relationship wasnt progressing so i brought it to her attention she told me she s not ready cuz of her personal issue she needs to overcome(bad relationship with dirt bag guys that took advantage of her) after this talk i havent been to close to her it look like she looks for me from time to time, she s the first to initiate contact by sending an email and she was the first to call me but when i respond to her emails she keeps them short like almost showing me that its not that important now i ask her to hang out she agree and she propose something that would be fun for both of us, what confuses me one minute she seems eager but then other time to me she put up a font

what s going on with this girl>?
she was hurt pretty bad in the past,
i like her but i m going with the flow if it happens it happen if not then it wasnt meant
what do u think about my situation
i know how girls like to pretend to play hard to get is this the case

2007-11-14 07:41:01 · 3 answers · asked by simple J 4 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my wife dont spend any real time together and it's strained our relationship, all we do is work. i work 2 jobs apprx. 70 hrs a week, we have a 1 1/2 son, she is a teacher. i know i work too may hours but every time i'm home and she's home she's on the phone, which shows me that she's found other things to occupy her time, why should i feel that i have to "be there" if she already has things going on when we're in the same house toghether?

2007-11-14 07:34:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

gettin divorced, he wants joint custody, i'm not so sure, how will that affect the visitation arrangements?

2007-11-14 07:34:48 · 5 answers · asked by TASTY 1 in Marriage & Divorce

EVER get from your spouse the stimulating conversation, the continual emotional or the sexual satisfaction (because of your emotional detachment to the said situation).....what is your gut reaction? we have already been "trying" to fix it....emliminating outside influence, substance, attempted counseling, all the goodies. leave or stay?

2007-11-14 07:34:10 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Me and hubby have been separated now for approx. three weeks. I made him leave the household due to some issues we were having. Well to make a long story short, we made arrangement to get together to talk about our marriage. He was telling me that he missed me, what could he do to make me feel more secure in the marriage, I don't love him like I used to, etc...His relationship with" his" ex-girlfriend was the reason we separated. We were even intimate with each other (shouldn't have done it). Since I did that with him, is he waiting for me to start chasing him again. I was doing so good as far as not calling him, etc before I met up with him to discuss our marriage. He says he doesn't want a divorce, but on the other hand he says he's not coming home because he doesn't want to be put out again. Is he just playing hard so he can once again try and manipulate our marriage the way he wants it to be? Even though we were intimate and it was real passionate, I'm still not chasing.

2007-11-14 07:33:14 · 5 answers · asked by stella 2 in Marriage & Divorce

4 years (he is responsible for her for 10) he found out through the children that she was abusive, and he also found out she was stalking and in love with an 18 year old girl in the same town. He wanted her gone, she left, they are legally married what should he do? What rights does she have? What can she do? He owned the home before he married her.

2007-11-14 07:32:45 · 4 answers · asked by Leslie 2 in Marriage & Divorce