Family & Relationships - 14 November 2007

Well, Iwas best friends with 2 girls who i never actually liked, and when i decided to get rid of them , we had a big argument and Mine and their secrets got spread everywere etc , Immature I know! But i now feel this constant need to be better than them, Like if one of them gts a boyfriend, I need a better looking one, Or if they go on holidays somewhere , I have to go somewere further! How do i get over this. I have lready considered the option of getting them assassinated , but I've gone off Them being dead. Im only stuck with them until May though!

2007-11-14 07:32:11 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-11-14 07:31:52 · 11 answers · asked by ryan s 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-14 07:31:07 · 8 answers · asked by DAWG94 3 in Singles & Dating

I want to get married on Valentine's Day of 2008, but its on a weekday so I would have to have it in the evening, possibly night. I was thinking about just having a ceremony, and the immediate family go out after the ceremony for dinner or something.

2007-11-14 07:30:35 · 31 answers · asked by Beautiful Bride in "08" 1 in Weddings

This is my girlfriend of 6 months, Kayla. Alot of people say she looks like a "Little girl" She is only 5 foot tall, but i like it, I prefer cute over sexy......I was just wandering....how old do you think she is? Whoever gets the Age right, gets the best answer...or whoever gets the closest....and if there is a tie.....i will choose the best answer, on the good things you say...haha

http://i104.photobucket.com/albums/m174/jaked2009/kayla2.jpg

2007-11-14 07:29:54 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This guy I know(who owns a gym where I workout) let's me use his computer. I get on it and can already tell it's ****** up. I ask him and he said he knew there are viruses and stuff messing up on it. I get on it the other day and says don't delete nothing off of it. It sounded like he was accusing me of messing it up. Something pops up and says files being deleted and I ask him about it. He ask me why am I deleting his files. I told him if I did it why would I tell you. He called me a liar and all that. So I said hey if you don't want to believe me that's fine but don't ever think i'm coming to your crappy *** gym again, which I hated to do because besides me there's 5 more people who work out. Does anyone think I shouldn't of done that? I mean I was pissed because the guy accused me of messing up his alread screwed up computer. Like I said why would I tell you about it if i'm doing it.

2007-11-14 07:29:41 · 4 answers · asked by Taco Man 4 in Friends

I have been married 2 months. My wife is really frustrated because she says she is not happy. She is trying to change everything about me. And by that, I mean everything. Is this a normal phase to go through. And anybody got any advice. She is saying things like I am not her keeper, and I'm around to much. Thanks for the imput

2007-11-14 07:29:14 · 12 answers · asked by heath83852 1 in Marriage & Divorce

It’s been a 5 month long distance relationship.I’ve been to visit him many more times than he to me,as I have less wknd commitments.I’m having a hard time at the moment, low self-esteem because of various things having happened,& I’m not sure if he is helping.Problem is, I’ve fallen in love with him,which just makes it worse.I am always sweet to him, send him presents etc, tell him nice things about him,visit him lots.But now I am feeling low,& while he has phoned me a lot to check if I’m ok he seems more worried that I am depressed cos I’m cheating on him!(I’m not).He wont come visit me cos he wants to play football on wknd.I know he really likes me,I just think he is maybe a bit insensitive&unaware sometimes of others feelings.Should I cool it off and concentrate on getting myself sorted out emotionally,or am I being over worried cos am down at the moment,and I should stay with him cos I love him?

2007-11-14 07:28:48 · 25 answers · asked by Katrina W 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been married to a man for 5 years, and it seems all the reasons I married him for are gone. I wanted a loving relationship, yet we now have a marriage of convenience. I have not changed at all physically, actually am healthier and in better shape now than when we met (which he says he likes) yet he is not loving and does not seem to care for an emotionally, physically intimate relationship. I do not care much about material things or even security, and told him when I met I would only marry for love.
I would have left him last year, but we have a 2 year old daughter, and I don't want to ruin her life.
Besides love, our marriage is alright. He does not abuse me, or substances in any way, doesn't cheat, or anything negative like that. He says he loves me, yet his actions don't show me anymore.
What do you do in this situation. I have confronted him many times, he gets angry and thinks I am nuts, but I feel nothing from him.

2007-11-14 07:27:55 · 27 answers · asked by Cherie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

should we get a divorce? I love my husband i just dont know how much. we want to make it work but we fight alot and when we arent fighting im still a little miserable. Im sad alot and i feel stiffled. we have been married a year is it normal or will i feel this way for a long time? Ive been thinking about a seperation just to clear my head but im our sons primary caretaker and dont work but two nights of the week- where my husband works everyday usually from 6am to 8pm! i dont know what to do i really need a break even just a week but we cant afford have a babysitter for as long as my husband works. Any suggestions?

2007-11-14 07:27:16 · 17 answers · asked by jacksgirl711 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I love everything else about him, and our relationship is wonderful. Sexually though, he just is not large enough to really satisfy me. He is several inches when erect. I have never had any children, and I do my Kegels regularly, so I keep myself as "fit" and "tight" down there as possible, but he still feels so small. I've never had this problem with past boyfriends. This is the one thing I just cannot speak to him about - I am sure he would feel awful....what to do? Positions? Enzyte? Do they work?

2007-11-14 07:26:53 · 20 answers · asked by sweetluv44152 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok so my gf told me im a bad kisser and ive only made out with her. im not to sure what to do really. one of her friends heard us making out and said there was like a slurping sound? anyway to correct that? and also how often are you supposed to turn your head? and any other tips would be great. thanks

2007-11-14 07:26:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am in my late 40's so you would think this wouldn't be an issue but I cannot stand my Father. Don't like to see him, hear him, deal with him. I don't think merely being a sperm donor makes you a good Dad. Many things happened to cause me to dislike him-not the least of which is that he is used to masterbate in front of me and my sisters when Mom was gone. Now he is in horrible health; has a lot of health issues. Since I was in grade school he has been a hypochondriac and used illnesses to manipulate peolple in the community. When he actually had something happen this week that required hospitalization, no one in our family believed him. Even though I know he is truly sick this time, I resent him and don't want to deal with it. I sort of feel guilty for being so angry and hateful to him when he tries to talk to me but I just cannot tolerate him. How do I deal and not have the guilt if he dies and this isn't resolved?

2007-11-14 07:24:43 · 6 answers · asked by fixit 3 in Family

i've been with my bf on and off for 3-4 years. i guess i was trying to be independent and didn't want to get too attached to anyone, so i broke up with him a few times. but we always managed to get back together.

then last year, i was diagnosed with cancer. he was with me the whole time i went thru chemo (including the months i was bald) and radiation. the cancer was in my leg, and after all the treatments, the doc still couldn't be sure if i had to have my leg amputated. afterwards, they removed the cancer, saved my leg, but i was left with a huge scan from my ankle up to my thigh. i was self-conscious of the scar, and was insecure about the future (ie. will i get cancer again?). so i broke up with my bf. i never gave him my reasons, but i had pushed him away so that he could move on and be someone he wouldn't have to worry about. he started dating someone a few months later. but now we're together again. we love each other and talked of marriage. but i'm still unsure.

2007-11-14 07:22:49 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am looking for a solid black wedding dress. Our wedding is not going to take place until 2009 so i have a little bit of time to look. any help would be greatly appreciated! thanks!!!!

2007-11-14 07:22:16 · 19 answers · asked by JenJen <3 2 in Weddings

ok so i dated this guy, but we didnt really last long. so we became best friends instead. and then he dated this girl and w.e that didnt last long either. then i realized i still really liked him but didnt want to say cause ik he liked this other girl waaaaaaaaaaayyyyyyyyyyyyy more but what i didnt know is he liked me to so now he asked his ex back out for maybe the millionth time and she said yes. =[ soo now i still really like him but i told him that too cause i asked what it would take for me to make him break up with her. and then we started talking but he wont break up with her for me cause he has worked to hard to get her. what should i do? become her best friend (again) and convince her to break up with him or wait???

2007-11-14 07:21:45 · 12 answers · asked by Tess 2 in Singles & Dating

Hi, I was just wondering if you could tell me which hairstyle you think suits me best/looks best out of these two? as I have a annoying cowlick on the front and a double crown. And how old do you think I look in the pictures (I'm 17)?

http://www.websitedesigntalk.com/images/businessblue/DSC00046.JPG
OR
http://www.websitedesigntalk.com/images/businessblue/DSC00699.JPG

Sorry that the links didn't work last time.

Thanks

2007-11-14 07:20:26 · 10 answers · asked by simonshaw15 1 in Singles & Dating

ok, Let me start, Im married with two kids.I do all the work around the house, I clean, cook, take care of the kids all the things by myself.My in-laws live in another town but they never offer to help, plus they say bad words about me to my husband.My husband comes from work, and calls me stupid and psycho, cause Im very tired and I ask him to help me (Im nervous too sometimes or better said often, cause I dont have time for myself at all).I live in a country were divorce is "unacceptable", my family is not good economically too, so they cant take me back into their house.What should I do please, Ive got no college and no work.I just cant take care of my kids alone, and I dont want to leave them with my husband cause they are my life.

2007-11-14 07:20:12 · 9 answers · asked by Landa 2 in Marriage & Divorce

This guy is/was interested in me. He tells me that I need to come out of my shell & like basically be wild & crazy b/c I settled into some sort of routine when I was married & I just need to get out of that. I'm shy around him though! He's hilarious & says all kinds of funny & off the wall stuff...but it's like I can't really even find words to say around him b/c I'm nervous & I know he wants the fwb thing first & then to see if it will someday be more. This guy has been around alot more than me....traveling, meeting all kinds of new people & doing crazy stuff...& me....I've been a wife the last 7 years & been taking care of my son the last 5 years...mainly on my own. How could my stories even compare to his? Not that there is anything wrong w/being a wife & mother...I'm just saying I'm sure he doesn't want to hear about all that. How do I talk more around him w/out being so nervous?...it's nerve racking b/c he knows I like him & I probably like him more than he likes me.

2007-11-14 07:19:38 · 11 answers · asked by love my life 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My spouse and I haven't been seeing eye to eye for a couple of years now. At this present moment I am so tired of it I am ready to get a seperation. I brought this to his attention but he is like we can fix it. He is not thinking about all the other times we have tried to fix it and ending up in the same boat as now.

So i finally laid it out there on the table for all to see. I told him that I want a seperation. Now he is telling me that he is not going to give it to me. He rather for us to be in a house together misserable. He told me that he was going to make me love him again. I feel once the love is gone it is so hard to bring it back. We have grown apart. we have no simular interest or anything.

I feel that a seperation maybe best for us. How do i get him to realize my prospective on this?

2007-11-14 07:18:54 · 13 answers · asked by Happily ever after 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am considerting to put my profile in a Russian marriage agency, but the women look to good to be true and sometimes I think they are not real and the agency is only interested in men's money.

2007-11-14 07:17:44 · 7 answers · asked by moltolatino i 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-14 07:11:52 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, I'm in the middle of a divorce, and my soon to be ex and I are arguing because I have a male friend that I talk to on the phone. Me and this guy are just friends, but my soon to be ex is paranoid and thinks that I want to be with this guy. I've known my guy friend for 4 years now and I don't feel that's its right for my soon 2 be ex to ask me to stop talking to him!! I agree that I don't need to be going to his house & I don't, or be in a relationship & I'm not, or engaging in sexual relations with him & I don't plan to, but I don't feel that I should cut him out of my life just because my soon to be ex doesn't like him.

2007-11-14 07:11:50 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So, there's this guy in a few of my questions who broke up with his girlfriend a while ago because she cheated on him. Him and I got kinda closer and he told one of our mutual friends that he liked me then she told me. I had feelings for him aswell, so we both flirted quite a bit and holding hands every once in a while and he even kissed the top of my head, but in a kidding kinda way. He told our mutual friend that he was worried that I didn't return the feelings but I hadn't told our friend that I actully do. I thought he got the message. Anyways, yesterday, I walked by him in the hallway, and we made eye contact but he didn't smile, or acknolage me, so when I went to wave he looked away. I let it go, figuring that he got distracted.

Later that day, we were in class together, and he wouldn't even look at me, let alone speak much. Just in a kind of non-chalent way though. So, I asked my friend 'What's up with him?!' and she replied 'He's back with his girlfriend.'

2007-11-14 07:11:49 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We do, and it's so nice. We never have much to say and sometimes it's short, but still nice to talk I guess. Also! lol Who's the lady on the food network, I can't remember her name. Not Paula or oh-so-anoying Giada, or the nice blonde alcoholic lady... but the other one...

2007-11-14 07:09:36 · 13 answers · asked by hmm 5 in Marriage & Divorce

we broke up a couple months ago (we went out for almost a year), but i told him i still wanted to be friends. recently, he's been getting kind of annoying and he puts his arm around my shoulders and tries to hold my hand. i know he's not trying to hurt me or anything, but i just don't feel comfortable with him touching me like that. i tell him REPEATEDLY that i don't want him to touch me but all he says is why am i treating him like he's "a piece of cr*p" he says he does it because "he cares for me." do i have a right to not want him to touch me or am i just being cold hearted? oh yes, and also i recently finished a coarse on rape aggression (self defense) and i don't have the heart to do any moves on him. but if he keeps at it. should i? i don't really know if this is self defense or not.

2007-11-14 07:07:33 · 7 answers · asked by Brigee 2 in Singles & Dating

know a person who is smartass..he always want to act as soeone who he is not ..he lies alot..he fakes alot...he is not honest person at all...he makes lies and talks behind people to show himself as a hero!!..that he is always right and people are bitchin to him...I hate this attitude...how do you put this person down if he has done somthing like this to you?...NO smartass answers pleas!!

2007-11-14 07:06:51 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have a crush
i depressed
i think im in love

2007-11-14 07:06:47 · 13 answers · asked by Nicole C 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife and her girlfriend were at home talking on the couch. And my wife tells her friend how I give great foot rubs. My wifes friend hints around how she needs a good foot rub and my wife asks me to do it for her friend. I don't mind. I like ladies feet. My wifes friend has pretty feet and I would not dare share my feelings about that with my wife.

I can tell my wifes friend is enjoying the message. I could not help myself, but as I message I start to slowly suck on her toes. At first my wifes friend laughs but becomes more eager for me to continue. My wife laughs, and says, "Oh, he does that to me sometimes."

After a couple of minutes my wife starts yelling calling me a cheater and her friend a whore. Her friend admitted to enjoying it and felt that it was kind of erotic. I just said I thought she had pretty toes and wanted to suck on them. I claimed it wasn't sexual! Is my wife nuts???

2007-11-14 07:05:44 · 57 answers · asked by Snappy Answers 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i just met him but i care

2007-11-14 07:05:12 · 6 answers · asked by fleo 3 in Friends