Well, Iwas best friends with 2 girls who i never actually liked, and when i decided to get rid of them , we had a big argument and Mine and their secrets got spread everywere etc , Immature I know! But i now feel this constant need to be better than them, Like if one of them gts a boyfriend, I need a better looking one, Or if they go on holidays somewhere , I have to go somewere further! How do i get over this. I have lready considered the option of getting them assassinated , but I've gone off Them being dead. Im only stuck with them until May though!
2007-11-14 07:32:11 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You go to BnQ buy some wood, build a bridge and get over it!!
Dont mean to cause offence by that, just some humourous info for you.
2007-11-14 07:36:01 · answer #1 · answered by psychic.chris 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sad to say, but you have a fixation with these people that needs actual help. You didn't even like them, but now you're consumed by them. Do you worry about being compared to them? Why else the need to be "better," do you care that former friends are happy without you? The best advice I can give is to just shut that door and find happiness that doesn't revolve around one up-ing other people.
2007-11-14 07:38:47 · answer #2 · answered by Tiffany W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you care so much about waht they are doing? If you don't care about them, then you shouldn't even be wondering what they are doing.Maybe, the question that you should ask is do I really dislike them as much as I think I do?Well, I honestly think you should think about this more.Also, just meet new people and mind your own business.Try to keep your self occupied and forget about them.Live your life and move on. Stop trying to get revenge, because it is an endless pitt that you are putting yourself in. BTW- people will see you for your good deeds and not for your bad ones.So, you are making your self look worse then what you think.Also, Quit worrying about what people think of you.Remember:No person will ever satisfy everyone,but you could satisfy one self.
2007-11-14 07:44:25 · answer #3 · answered by RocK Baby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know what, you remind me of my friend. She actually said much of the above to me the other day. Including the assassination bit. How weird.
Oh god yeah, and we leave at the end of May, so she only has to put up with them 2 girls until then. That is seriously weird.
2007-11-14 07:35:35 · answer #4 · answered by FreezingCold:( 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Violence is definitely not the answer here. You just have to understand that life is not a competition between you and them. You can't compare yourself to people because you're suppose to compare yourself to you and what you can and should be able to do.
Life's like golf, you don't compete against the other players, but you can glance at the leader board from time to time.
2007-11-14 07:36:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly yes they were being immature but you also are being immature. I think you don't have to show them up, i would just leave them be and don't worry too much about them, because you will focus your whole life trying to make yours "Seem" better, and in the end you end up with Debt. And no friends.
2007-11-14 07:37:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
anger, jealousy and betrayal are hard feelings to get over. you do it by taking a deep breath, telling yourself you are not sinking to that level, and taking one day, one hour at a time. anytime they get a bf or go somewhere or show up in a cool new outfit, keep telling yourself" not gonna let it get to me...". you may have to tell yourself that 50 times a day at first, but with a little time, it gets easier. You can also pray for the strength and grace not to let it take control of you. Good luck, You can do it. I know you can.
2007-11-14 07:38:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its a female thing..all females compare themselves one another even if they're friends. Its normal! The best way to overcome this is by just living and being happy with who you are and what you have...trust me if you ignore them and live the "happily ever after" with what you have...then you won!!! They will feel that no matter what they do or have they can never overcome what you have...trust me it works.
2007-11-14 07:37:07 · answer #8 · answered by krixty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are only stuck with them until may, then just be super oober nice to them. it makes them confused. but honestly, i think you need to grow up. like however old you are, you are old enough to know that this is highly immature, you said it yourself. but yeah, i personally woud just ingnore them, and count do the days (unpatiently) until the great day arrives, when may comes... or you kill them lol good luck
2007-11-14 07:36:47 · answer #9 · answered by Shayna K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont do anything just work out your problems and forgive one another. That is thte right thing to do
2007-11-14 07:35:38 · answer #10 · answered by Edward E 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋