Family & Relationships - 14 November 2007

It’s along distance relationship of 5 months. I’ve visited him loads but he’s only visited me twice, because he plays & watches football on wknds.I didn’t mind at first,but am now tired of travelling all the time,waiting in his house while he plays football,&also wknds is the only time I get to see my friends here so have been missing out.I explained this to him,&he said that he loves football,has season ticket&doesn’t want to let his team down which I understand.But he was the one who suggested this relationship,&to make it work both people need to compromise and make sacrifices,right?He said he wants both (me&football)& I said,well I only mean like one wknd every few weeks you could come see instead of football.He said if I wanted him to do more I should say and he would.But I felt guilty.I really want him to come see me this wknd as have been havin a hard time, he knows this,but is still waiting on whether or not he has a game to play on Sunday.

2007-11-14 09:02:40 · 1 answers · asked by Katrina W 2 in Singles & Dating

do you believe skinny women are better people? I'm a healthy size 12 with some meat on my bones, why can't I get a date?

2007-11-14 09:02:07 · 8 answers · asked by texmexgal2000 3 in Singles & Dating

I am a guy and have my needs. I am 25 and this is killing me. I am not going to cheat but it is almost like being starved of air. The physical side of the relationship is currently dead in my eyes.

A female just doenst know how hard it is for some guys to go through something like this. I can understand why a man would cheat.

2007-11-14 09:01:48 · 51 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

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2007-11-14 08:59:59 · 199 answers · asked by Dr John Demartini 1 in Singles & Dating

how to deal with a angry child

2007-11-14 08:57:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'm in 9th grade, and there's this guy in my science class that I like. We've known each other for about 3 months now, and I'd say we are pretty good friends. He comes to my desk a lot to talk to me, he tries to impress me, and I catch him looking at me in class. We sometimes walk in the hallways together and talk. He flirts with me a little becuase he sometimes teases me and imitates me, and he jokingly makes fun of me because we want to go to rival colleges. We just found out that we go to the same church, and when he saw me at chruch, he came up to me and we started talking. Well, today, I gave my phone number to his friend, let's call him Bob (because Bob and me are friends) and he (guy I like) ended up calling me today! He called me 3 times!! He told me that he got my number from Bob. I think he likes me but I can't tell for sure. Does he like me?

2007-11-14 08:52:33 · 10 answers · asked by Stephi 2 in Singles & Dating

ok so my bro left his phone at home and he needed me to call forawrd to his friends #
and then i was looking thru his pics and he has 3 very inapropriate pics ( boobs and the other thing ) and now im all grossed out!!!!!!!!!!
im deff not telling him that i saw those pics!
btw he is 28 and im 13
how should i forget about it?

2007-11-14 08:52:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So, there is this guy at my school who moved in the middle of the school year last year from Iraq and barley knows english. Anyways, Ive NEVER EVER noticed him at school until this year...and hes sooooo fine. Oh gosh I blush everytime I think about him...We dont have any classes together, only lunch. All my friends drool over him too and we all watch him eat and laugh with his buddies a few tables away, so he IS a cutie. But my problem is my friend is friends CLOSE frinds with him, and she gave me his cell number a while ago. I had texed him yesterday for the first time, and the embarassing part was that he askd who i was. I told him and we started talking. SO after I asked him about his myspace, he gave it to me and then I texed later "Add me okay?" and he wirtes back "I have to go now" I think I was getting on his nerves, but i dont know. He could have just said "Ill see you later i got to go" or something like that right? Am I just obssed or something??

2007-11-14 08:50:59 · 5 answers · asked by crystal 2 in Singles & Dating

i keep feeling like when im doing the dishes my boyfriend is going to WACK ME....for good. you know....REALLLLY GET IT THIS TIME. its kind of frightening. And then earlier this morning... im on yahoo answers....very focused...and then i keep thinking that the lady of thehousehold (my mother whom i was visiting their house) was going to wack me over the head. Who is crazy ??? ME OR THEM?????????

becaus i shouldnt having to be woryied about this all the time.

should i confront them?????????????

Becaus it is only once indawhile

2007-11-14 08:50:38 · 11 answers · asked by ★ Vaginal Discount ★ 4 in Singles & Dating

I'm a single woman who is in her mid 40s but who is frequently invited on dates by guys who are in their 20s. This is such a compliment as they usually guess that I'm around 30. I have a problem in that I'm often attracted to them too. The only thing is, my judgement tells me that they are only out for the sexual experience and once they ask me my age, I often loose confidence. I have this idea, even though it seems a bit prejudiced, that younger guys will want to meet 'the mother of thier children' in the woman of their life. Men out there, please talk to me and advise me on this one. Are you all (when in your 20's) interested in the sexual experience when you want to date an older woman or can it really be a stable, long term, real love relationship. Because, this is what I want. (I've never been married and have no kids).

2007-11-14 08:50:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfriend and i have been together since may of 05. were both 17, seniors. we have made the decision to finally have sex. first off, do you think its an okay choice? we really love each other. and secondly, tell me the kind of protection i will need and where i can buy it. and what is sex like? what does it feel like? is it fun?

2007-11-14 08:49:44 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm a single woman who is in her mid 40s but who is frequently invited on dates by guys who are in their 20s. This is such a compliment as they usually guess that I'm around 30. I have a problem in that I'm often attracted to them too. The only thing is, my judgement tells me that they are only out for the sexual experience and once they ask me my age, I often loose confidence. I have this idea, even though it seems a bit prejudiced, that younger guys will want to meet 'the mother of thier children' in the woman of their life. Men out there, please talk to me and advise me on this one. Are you all (when in your 20's) interested in the sexual experience when you want to date an older woman or can it really be a stable, long term, real love relationship. Because, this is what I want. (I've never been married and have no kids).

2007-11-14 08:49:29 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Guys keep asking me if I'm a virgin and I don't answer their questions because It's getting annoying so they assume I'm not. And now they keep on asking me If I have a boyfriend and when I did it and where and I given oral. (i'm a virgin) It's so annoying what should I say?

2007-11-14 08:49:22 · 7 answers · asked by spicy_lat 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-14 08:46:30 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Well, i would call curvy like Charlotte Church or someone like that..
As apposed to like Paris Hilton/ Lindsay Lohan..
What do guys prefer??
Or girls?
All answers appreciated.
Thanks!

2007-11-14 08:44:36 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Parents who do damaging things to their children don't realize how damaging it is. Why do they do damaging things and are not even able to say sorry? not even able to realize the effects?

2007-11-14 08:43:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-11-14 08:39:22 · 39 answers · asked by redcandal66 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm in 9th grade, and there's this guy in my science class that I like. We've known each other for about 3 months now, and I'd say we are pretty good friends. He comes to my desk a lot to talk to me, he tries to impress me, and I catch him looking at me in class. We sometimes walk in the hallways together and talk. He flirts with me a little becuase he sometimes teases me and imitates me, and he jokingly makes fun of me because we want to go to rival colleges. We just found out that we go to the same church, and when he saw me at chruch, he came up to me and we started talking. Well, today, I gave my phone number to his friend, let's call him Bob (because Bob and me are friends) and he (guy I like) ended up calling me today! He called me 3 times!! He told me that he got my number from Bob. I think he likes me but I can't tell for sure. Does he like me?

2007-11-14 08:38:21 · 26 answers · asked by Stephi 2 in Singles & Dating

1)You never want to talk until we get into the shower or tub
2) You never cut your toenails until they are lethal weapons.
3) You always say,"I was listening honey." BUT never can repeat what we said.
4) Always want to kiss and snuggle AFTER we have showered, put on our makeup and done our hair, only to ruin what we have worked on for the last hour.

Just wondering. Really would like to hear a married man's view on this too.

2007-11-14 08:37:49 · 25 answers · asked by 2fine4u 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 18 years old and I was living in my house with my parents with my drug addict brother. He was stealing my belongings and it was driving me crazy. I lost many valuables because of him and I NEED to get out of my house. I only have a part time job due to being a full time student, so I applied for subsidized housing. I am on a waiting list, but it feels like I'm NEVER going to be called. Can you please pray for me to get an apartment, thank you and god bless.

2007-11-14 08:37:43 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Pretty straight forward question. I think this question can be asked about life in general. Is it easier to be a good person or bad?

Do you think its easier to be a good spouse or partner? Or a bad one?

2007-11-14 08:33:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

on your future spouse for arrests, convictions, felonies, or did you investigate his previous wives or girlfriends to find out what kind of man he was? Like let's say an abuser, batterer, or just a con guy? Or do you just let LOVE rule over your minds and say he is just a good guy?
Now, if you don't want to do a background check, is it because of money, trust issue, or reason?
And if you do find he's one of the above, would you leave him and break engagement.

2007-11-14 08:31:19 · 64 answers · asked by DREENA 2 in Weddings

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2007-11-14 08:31:09 · 11 answers · asked by fixed chair 2 in Singles & Dating

i'm a single guy, just started an affair with a married woman, a bit older then me, i'm 31, she's 34, she been married 7 yrs, and is financially secure but unhappy it seems... i've never done anything like this before, but i have to say it is incredibly exciting, we haven't had sex yet, but it's goin to happen pretty soon i think, i'm a little worried, i said to her, ok, i'm happy to go along with it, and have a bit of fun as long as no-one gets hurt, so i said to her make sure u delete text mssg's and stuff, and i said dont get caught!!! a she said she doesn't really care if she gets caught - Hmmmm.... i really like her and stuff, but i'm not financially secure at the moment, and not really up for a full on relationship with a divorcee, i really want to sleep with her, but should i, am i making a big mistake ??

2007-11-14 08:28:57 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Has any of you ladies (or guys) noticed that your spouse gets really open with you when they have some to drink.

My dh does! When he drinks he tells me 10 times how beautiful i am and how much he loves me. He tells me that he loves me and that i am beautiful even when he is not drunk but its just that when he is drunk he opens up more.

Has anyone noticed this?

2007-11-14 08:26:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

well its a boy in my class. he has been talkin 2 me a lot and every time we talk he stares at me then i look at him and he looks away. we talk about stuff like wut we had 4 dinner, wut we like best in school, tv shows, and we like make up jokes and tell them 2 each other.

P.S. i like him

2007-11-14 08:24:59 · 8 answers · asked by sis4k123321 1 in Singles & Dating

appreciate anything you did for them, complained about going on trips, would you want to leave them?

2007-11-14 08:24:53 · 16 answers · asked by kimberly k 5 in Marriage & Divorce

i am really creeped out!!!
this janitor at my skool. STALKS ppl. (me and my friend)
so..i was at lunch,.throwing away my trash, and he was standing behind the trash cans, and he said "hey vicky, (thats my name), r ur parents taiwanese?" in chinese!!!
so my first thought was, how the hell did he even know my name??!!!
so...just so i wasnt mean bcuz there were teachers around,...i replied in chinese: "my parents r taiwanese..."
and i left
this happened with my friend also,but this time he was talking 2 her in VIETNAMESE!!!!! (my friend is vietnamese)
once, b4 the trash incident,the janitor asked me if i was in japanses...and started talking in japanese also..so...right now...me and my friend r still really creeped out about this....and both of us has been avoiding wherever he was....
my friends at my table makes fun about it,..(i dont really care though)
and they say that hes always smiling and looking in the direction where i sit, and he'll b looking...
help?!?!

2007-11-14 08:24:01 · 40 answers · asked by luvbunni12394 2 in Friends

A few weeks ago i was at a party and i met this girl. We hung out together basically the whole night and hooked up. Now i'm starting to have feelings for her but i have no idea how she feels about me. This is the first time i've had feelings like this for a girl in a long time and i want to get to know her better and possibly even start a relationship but i just dont know how to approach her.

2007-11-14 08:21:48 · 27 answers · asked by bill b 1 in Singles & Dating

and the person whom you love and trust the most is telling you, you're not working hard enough...how should you feel or react?

2007-11-14 08:20:50 · 6 answers · asked by Moni 1 in Singles & Dating