Family & Relationships - 14 November 2007

And you are happy, but your guy doesn't speak of a future ie. living together marriage.. do you stick with him or do you move on?

2007-11-14 11:08:46 · 27 answers · asked by anonyn55 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Last Christmas my little sister and her boyfriend came to pick up their child that I was caring 4 that day.Well I was n the shower ad they came n and took the alnog wih my husbands' wallet.I called the poice and made a report.Well that same day We went to their house with police and n their dumpster we found some things that were n my husbands' wallet.Well went up 2 the apartment and the boyfriend was gone and my sister covered 4 him.It made me even more mad because I would help him and her with everything (milk,diapers,clothes,rent,$300.light bill)while they smoke drugs all day.I di it 4 the baby.Well I have not spoke to neither one of them since I took both of them to court.Now my other sister has invited me to thanksgving dinner at her house and they will b there.I don't want 2 ruin her dinner but I know me.Should I go and keep my mouth shut and do it 4 my sister or should I stay at my home and enjoy my own dinner?All I want is to know why she did thy still from me?Do they regret it

2007-11-14 11:07:51 · 7 answers · asked by loretta l 3 in Family

im a 13 year old guy. i faked his signature on a test that I failed in math really not sure wat i should say to him that my punishment should be??? it has to be some what bad because if its not then he said he would make a really bad 1 ?????!!?!?!?!?! help pleeeaaasssseeeeee?????!?!?!?!?1

2007-11-14 11:07:12 · 8 answers · asked by tomzzz 1 in Family

what do boys most like about girls????<33

2007-11-14 11:06:26 · 22 answers · asked by kelsey b 1 in Singles & Dating

she just had knee surgery. shes 13. what kind of present shoudl i get her . like get well presents. not a teddy bear, one of my other friends allready got her one.
any ideas?

2007-11-14 11:06:25 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

was getting back with my ex from college.. before our sex was so great, he was always all over me.

after we broke up, we've stayed friends (7 years)and recently decided to get back togethter.

he paid for a romantic weekend for us last weekend for our first time.

had fun all day..every night wine and dine..only problem was THE SEX!!

1. first night, went down on him and after he came,.. he said he needed to rest for a minute bc i drained him. 30 minutes go by. i'm laying there in my lingerie, and NOTHING! so i complained. after he tried, i was like "i'm not in the mood anymore" but just playfully. he didn't even try again!!

2. next night we went out, had drinks, even went to the strip club. got back to the hotel.. i handed him baby oil to put on me, and he was like"what do you want me to do with this?" did it for 15 minutes and he didn't even have orgasm.. he says that happens sometimes when he drinks alot..

i'm still young, still look the same.. what's wrong?

2007-11-14 11:05:02 · 1 answers · asked by noway 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend had a ? thing from his old prom date hangin on his mirror ( the thing that goes on the girls leg).. Now that we began dating he took it off and he says he needs something else there.. What could we put there?? Something i could make? Or something with a pic of us in it? ANY IDEAS

2007-11-14 11:05:01 · 5 answers · asked by Kate L 1 in Singles & Dating

the girl used to like me, but doesnt anymore....

2007-11-14 11:04:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-14 11:03:24 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What do you do if you are 20 and have never dated? I feel clueless, and I'm worried I'll never date. I'm not the best looking and am worried that I wont be able to keep a girl impressed. What should I do?

2007-11-14 11:03:16 · 54 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So I heard people let out like a smell so is this what make you like who you like.Or is it the look in there eyes or they way they talk to you or look at you.NOT LUST but attractand maybe love ion

2007-11-14 11:03:06 · 14 answers · asked by Cynthia B 2 in Singles & Dating

my boyfreind is starting to see his son again and i think he still has feelings for his ex, he was there at the birth, talks alot about her and hides pictures of them kissing

i would never stop him seeing his son but i dont no what to do. i dont want to be bitter towards his son but this is realy upseting me. please help! thank you , jess x

2007-11-14 11:00:05 · 20 answers · asked by hotlips 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-14 10:59:37 · 38 answers · asked by froglady972 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Imagine that you could get the perfect girl made for you but you have to describe her the body, personality, likes, dislikes, habits ect.

2007-11-14 10:59:05 · 5 answers · asked by r0cker1ta 2 in Singles & Dating

We have flirted with each other a lot recently while we were out - he pulls me in for cheek kisses, long romantic hugs, tells me i'm amazing and we chat a lot.

But the last couple of times we've chatted online - not face to face - he's mentioned stuff about his gf. I can't work out whether he's trying to get a reaction out of me or whether he genuinely likes her and is warding me off. Or neither of those!

But I can't just forget it because I know how we are as soon as we see each other in person - its electric. Should I say anything to him?

2007-11-14 10:55:26 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Refused to go with you to your family or friend's gatherings, EVER?
Even big events like christmas or weddings?
What if his conditions where that YOU buy him or rent him a tux if you want him to go to a formal family wedding? (when he DOES have money).
And that you have to let him take something to entertain himself with, cause he finds them boring?

Suppose that for whatever other reason you really love this guy... what would you say or do? Or would you not mind?

2007-11-14 10:54:58 · 53 answers · asked by jade 2 in Singles & Dating

im friendly, have a good sence of humor, not ugly, etc. i have a lot of friends, but usually all my close friends get the guys and im just let out there in the cold. im not all into touchy flirty type. but i mean i will flirt its just i need a good way to approach it with out it feeling weird, ya know? and to add to that, i do not dress like a slut, but i dont wanna start, cuz thats not who i am. of course i will wear a low cut shirt once in a while. but all im asking is how can i get guys to notice me more for being hot and stuff? like the perfect package. ha

2007-11-14 10:54:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-14 10:50:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

married 2 years, no children together. he was out of work for almost a year and i supported us. he drives a $50,000 truck that he refused to sell bought his daughter a car. he started renovations on my house that he never finished, he has broken/torn up a window, a door facing, put holes in a wall (all of that is still there) in fits of rage. how do i get this stuff paid for if he leaves? wtf?

2007-11-14 10:49:03 · 19 answers · asked by mp3 4 in Marriage & Divorce

What would you say if someone said to you "I Love You" (If you loved them, If you didn't love them but you didn't want to hurt their feelings if you didn't know the person, ect.)
Or would you have an action...

2007-11-14 10:48:55 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I reckin men looking at P*rn is way way worse....

what do you think?

2007-11-14 10:47:40 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm attactive, skinny, nice, and funny. Why dont guys like me? D=

2007-11-14 10:44:39 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Got married when we were 20, now were 32. This has been going on over a year. At the time my wife met this guy, I guess you can say I wasn’t very appreciative of her. After 12 years you kind of lose sight of what’s in front of you. She told me their relationship never consisted of sex, sometime they would just hang out, and sometimes they would just kiss and have a good time enjoying each others company, that their whole relationship was like a vacation from her reality until this last encounter witch she said that they haven’t even talked to each other for months before this. She said they were just hanging out and started talking and then started kissing and things just got a little over board so he started to try to have sex with her and she thought that’s what she wanted too until he made contact and she realized this isn’t what I want so she pushed him off and started dry heaving, crying, and got physically ill. I believe her about everything because I made her swear on our children about it. I see all the pain and guilt shes going through. Things are good at the moment, we cant keep our hand off each other and our sex has never been better. It’s just painful to get flashes of them together from time to time.

2007-11-14 10:43:14 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

This took place the other day. My friend and some douche messed with him.

Douche: Are u gay?
Friend: No.
Douche: No seriously are you?
Friend: No, I said.
Douche: I know you are.
Friend: I'm not effin' gay.
Douche: Well, since your getting mad, then you must be.

Now, this I don't understand.
And I've heard this alot.
When people get pissed when you call them gay, they are really gay?
i don't think so.
They just are standing up for themselves, because they don't want to be called something their not.

so why do people say that?
it's soo stupid.

2007-11-14 10:42:55 · 1 answers · asked by jEfFeRsOnAiRpLaNe 3 in Friends

My boyfriend lives in Florida, and I live in Illinois! I met him online and we were friends for quit some time! I split with my boyfriend, here in Illinois, that I had while online guy and I were just friends, then finally gave my online friend my number! We started talking and totally clicked right from the get-go! Now I feel like this person, who is miles and miles away, is the only person for me...and I would like to be with him forever! I think I found my soul mate and he's so far away! He's moving out here by me in June, which is a long time from now, but long enough to fully get to know each other emotionally without letting the physical part get in the way! My question to you all, is this crazy? Is it possible to have such strong feelings towards someone you never actually met face to face??? I just need some opinions....
Thanks guys!!!

2007-11-14 10:42:51 · 7 answers · asked by Tessa 2 in Singles & Dating

ok so my boss is 31 years old...hes sooooooo cute :] he has a 14 year old kid and hes been married for 9 years..
i know i shouldnt but its really hard...hes such a cutie!
what do i do?
do i flirt? or do i hide my feelings forever?
HEEELLLLPP!!

2007-11-14 10:39:06 · 16 answers · asked by hooty hooo!! 1 in Singles & Dating

I was wondering. This lesbo stated that the reason she left her husband was because their was no foreplay. A woman wants foreplay. Is this a honest statement by her? Yes, I'm happily married and it stil works good.

2007-11-14 10:39:02 · 13 answers · asked by Ace of Spades 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I just ended our two year relationship. I didn't want to break up, but I had to let him go. Anyways...I'm having a lot of trouble shaking this off. I'm really hurt and am doing the best I can to keep him off my mind so I can move on. Does anybody have any suggestions or advice?

2007-11-14 10:38:19 · 5 answers · asked by Gym♥RAT♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

I am curious. I am not married. Nor have I ever even considered involving myself with a married man. I just want to know if this is more common that what we would expect it to be. Being that this is anonymous we can all benefit.

1 what profession are you both in?
2 your ages at the time of marriage?
3 how long you dated priror to marriage?
4 first marriage?
5 how long married?
6 happily married?

Please answer the title question thoroughly and please answer the 6 questions. I can only see as much as your words allow me to.

Thank you.

Disclaimer: offensive remarks towards ME will not be tolerated. Please be an adult about this. You should not answer this question if it hits a sore spot and causes you to insult me because I will not put up with it.

2007-11-14 10:36:50 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

It’s along distance relationship-5 months. I’ve visited him loads but he’s only visited me twice, because he plays & watches football on wknds.I didn’t mind at first,but am now tired of travelling all the time,waiting in his house while he plays football,&also wknds is the only time I get to see my friends here so have been missing out.
I explained this to him,&he said he loves football,has season ticket&doesn’t want to let his team down which I understand.But he was the one who suggested this relationship&to make it work both people need to compromise and make sacrifices,right?
He said he wants both (me&football)& I said,only one wknd every few weeks you could come see instead of football.He said if I wanted him to do more I should say and he would.But I felt guilty.
I really want him to come see me this wknd as have been havin a hard time lately, he knows this,but is still waiting on whether or not he has a game to play on Sunday.Does it mean he doesn't care?Dumping time?

2007-11-14 10:34:18 · 56 answers · asked by Katrina W 2 in Singles & Dating