Family & Relationships - 14 November 2007

2007-11-14 14:09:07 · 6 answers · asked by elimari2009 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok i work at a daycare.. there is this single dad that comes in alot.. i think he is so cute and i would love to get to know him but i dont know what to say because that is my job :(
he always smiles at me and i smile at him
but its still my job
please someone telll me what to do

2007-11-14 14:07:54 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been together for more than two years (and have been really close friends for almost ten). He has this fear with showing affection in public. He and I have been discussing marriage, and I can't help but wonder what our wedding will be like ("you may now kiss the bride... no? Ok just shake her hand").

I won't push the issue with him because I know it makes him uncomfortable. Seriously now, what do you think I should expect at the altar? I would hope he can push back his phobia long enough to kiss me in front of our friends and family.

Do any of you think I should maybe bring it up? Or should I just let it go? I could really use some advice on this one.

2007-11-14 14:06:03 · 11 answers · asked by Alicia Ann 2 in Weddings

2007-11-14 14:04:38 · 9 answers · asked by susan r 3 in Marriage & Divorce

he said is good and I said just good and he said yeah I mean is not great, so I got kinda hurt by his answer and I walked away and he called my name but I ignored him, do you think I should be mad? is just that some man just dont say the right things sometimes! but I could be wrong, what do you think?

2007-11-14 14:03:21 · 23 answers · asked by Ursula M 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am looking for someone (another female) that might have something that I have to talk with...

I was married for 5 years to a man then divorced, then married him again (with many rules - in my favor)... Our
second marriage has been already 6 years. When we were divorced it was for two years...

We divorced because he 'got bored' with me, and found another woman (he cheated). He figured that he didn't know how good he had it with me, so he asked me to take him back after about a year.

my rules:
we have an 'open' relationship (he chose to have me only, but I get to have 'my friends').
we be 'nice' to each other.
we be honest with each other.

well, I do love him. I also have two lovers, that he knows (part of my agreement is that he knows 'my friends' and accept it).

There is a lot of details here, but, just with my words, believe me, all IS good. It's almost like being married to three good men (there are no children or other women involved).

NO MEN!!!

2007-11-14 14:02:42 · 10 answers · asked by Julie M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok well i love my daddy. but on monday he came home and wouldnt talk to me. he completely ignored me and seemed angry at me. then when i asked him if i could go to spain he said no. then the next day he said no. and today my mom told him he should have let me gone. also, for 10 days he kept telling me he will think about it. then he finally said no. my mom told him he was wrong for doing that cause he should have straight up told me no instead of making me think he would say yes then say no. now hes been ignoring me. he also says the trip is too expensive but the people who cant even afford a private high school are going. i can afford the most expensive high school in my city. also, he spends so much damn money on taking his clients out to dinner and crap. and i KNOW he has the money. hes just a cheap idiot. i didnt rlly react to his answer in the best way. is there any reason he might be mad at me. also, is the economy going down? could tht b y he keeps saying he doesnt have money???

2007-11-14 14:02:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

describe what u think a truely beautiful girl is, both inside and out. like facial features (what color/size/shape of eyes, hair style/color, etc.), and personality traits.

thnx! =P

2007-11-14 14:00:05 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hey'all
I 've been skateboarding for like 8 months, i can ollie, manual and im working on my kickflip, I dress up normally, i mean i wear a volcom t shirt with jeans and globe shoes or an element t shirt and jeans and fallen shoes..whatever..
but my probem is that my mom and my sister are telling me to change because i ll never make friends like this( i have some skater friends though) they told me that i need to wear some girly clothes. I am not making fun of girly clothes but i just don't feel comfortable wearing them. so what am i suppose to do? should i please them or should stay like the way i am ( a crazy skater chick?)
Thanks dudes!

2007-11-14 13:58:43 · 5 answers · asked by Someone 2 in Friends

2007-11-14 13:51:35 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if you find out that your husband is cheating on you (you didnot see him with your own eyes)

2007-11-14 13:50:41 · 6 answers · asked by Didi 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-14 13:50:10 · 28 answers · asked by married with kids 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I would like a child someday just not now. I'm not pregnant or anything. But lately I've had an overwhelming desire to get pregnant and have a child. I can't say exactly why I guess it would give me purpose in my life. It wouldn't be so bad having the first grandchild and the honor that comes with it. It's just that deep down I know I'm not ready for a child, and that I won't be until I'm 30 which is 7 years away. So why am I feeling this way? How can I shake these feelings for a few years anyway?

2007-11-14 13:49:50 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband tells me I still look beautiful... even more so because I'm having his baby but I just don't know if he's saying that because he loves me. When you girl was pregnant was it a turn off for you? Did you have to force yourself to get turned on? Did you still enjoy making love? Were you scared to make love to her because you didn't want to hurt the baby (even though you won't)? I love my husband so much and I'm just wondering what other men went through and what they were thinking. Thank you!

2007-11-14 13:47:48 · 21 answers · asked by tookoolfool 4 in Marriage & Divorce

is it any different from collecting from an unmarried man?? Baby came from an affair will him being married with kids change anything???

2007-11-14 13:44:11 · 14 answers · asked by letmebe_23 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex wife was court ordered to pay 50% of medical bills that were not covered under insurance, she never paid. Is it too late to try and get that money from her? I was also entitled to child support, it was not court ordered, is it too late to go back and file for it? I would like to do all this without having to pay an attorney. Can anyone help me out? I am in Texas.

2007-11-14 13:41:17 · 13 answers · asked by Robin S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My mom is horrid but she married a hobo. [Chris Johnson] I can not stand him [he killed my cat] and my dog [macy] that i paid for he says it's his and grrrrr he is horrible. My mom is so dumb. And she wants me to spend the night i told her no. But now i feel awful. But yet i feel proud. HELP!!!!!

2007-11-14 13:40:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Is there something she wears that you hate but don't have the heart to tell her?

2007-11-14 13:39:45 · 9 answers · asked by casey308 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I haven't spoken to my father in 10 years (lots of baggage). I decided to try and contact him so I wrote a letter to my grandma and also included a letter to my father (I didn't know where he lived). She gave it to him and he emailed me immediately. I was excited to hear from him, but now he hasn't emailed me back in a week. I'm feeling disappointed that he hasn't gotten back on email to respond to my email. Does he not care or does he just suck at email? I feel like I'm in high school again and so concerned about someone "talking" to me, but I feel like I put myself out there again and he's stomping on my emotions again.

2007-11-14 13:39:38 · 5 answers · asked by bryn 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't know what he is thinking. I don't know how to communicate with him. When I got married to him, I thought it is in his nature to be just quiet but as yrs have gone by, he doesn't really say what he feels. I have to ask him and that doesn't guarantee he will say what he feels.

But I know he is thinking but what? At times, he does talk about work but that's about it and nothing else. I have sat down and stressed to him that it is important for spouses to talk and communicate to each other. Sometimes, I try being quiet to see if he initiates any conversation with me but he just doesn't. It is one word or 2 with my daughters or me.

I know I am very good listener. People come to me with their problems but it is the total opposite for my husband. Becoz he doesn't communicate much, I am afraid that he might do something behind my back . Am I being overly sensitive? Serious advise, please.

2007-11-14 13:38:48 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

A really close friend of mine came over today and told me that her ex boyfriend... which was MY boyfriend's friend at the time but not anymore told her about 2 months ago that my boyfriend introduced "his new girlfriend" to him ( that obviously wasnt me) to her ex. so her ex asked my boyfriend that what happened with me... and my boyfriend said it wasnt working out.....but how can that be if we were still together? so that only means he was cheating on me with the suppose girl he introduced...and i dont know if i should believe this....what should i do please help should i ask my boyfriend if this is true......?

2007-11-14 13:38:36 · 2 answers · asked by glitzy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I wish all of my friends hadn't moved to other states, and now I'm all alone with no one to play with. :(

I like to travel, biking, shopping and talking. i'm stuck in an office all day with no prospects there and am beginning to lose my mind. What do I do? (Other than sound desperate.)

[assume my life is perfect in everyway except this issue]

2007-11-14 13:37:55 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

is it true wut they say,,that ur D**k is ur best friend?

2007-11-14 13:37:31 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My stbx has given the "ok" to a visitation arrangement where she is offering me 40% of the time with the children (all weekends - Fri, Sat, and Sun nights except the first one of the month) and 8 weeks during the summer and shared holidays. However, she will only offer this schedule if I will pay the full amount of child support (no deduction for amount of time they spend with me). Its either that, she says, or go to court and risk paying full amount of child support and only having kids regular visitation schedule equivalent to 20%). In essence, I am being blackmailed.

I will be out a good deal of extra expenses for child care during summer, and her expenses will be somewhat reduced. I have suggested that a 15% reduction from the guideline child support amount would be reasonable - but she won't go for it. She's basically after as much money as she can get.

So, at this point I am not sure what to do and emotions are clouding my judgment. What should I do?

2007-11-14 13:36:01 · 8 answers · asked by mapman39180 1 in Marriage & Divorce

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2007-11-14 13:34:04 · 12 answers · asked by ♥ 3 in Weddings

I've had an emotional affair with someone else at work who's married. I'm married as well. Just when I was falling more in love with him, all of a sudden his behavior changed around me. He's basically avoiding me now at work. We've never really had a relationship, it's just that one can tell when two people like each other. I don't know what I did or didn't do that made him changed all of a sudden. It's just odd.

I thought that when I got married, these feelings would never come to me, but it happened. I fell for someone else and now someone else besides my husband is breaking my heart because he no longer wants the same thing as me.

I don't want to quit my job either because I need the health benefits and money.

2007-11-14 13:33:18 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-14 13:32:46 · 9 answers · asked by ames 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-14 13:29:59 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm just wondering when a woman disconnects from her husband in the sexual realm is she trying to tell them something?. I work hard, do stuff for my wife all the time and
have had a great relationship over the years and it is just recently that she has no interest in sex?. She is positelvely not cheating she is likie we rushed into sex and now she wants to get to know me?. Married over 8yrs together over 10yrs. I'm just confused have other ladies done this with your mates?
She is 37 I'm 32 no kids involved.

2007-11-14 13:24:39 · 18 answers · asked by Livinrawguy 7 in Marriage & Divorce

theres this guy i like but hes SUCH a player. everything else is perfect except that. he flirts with all the pretty girls at school even when he had a girlfriend. he flirted with me at the very begining of the school year when we didnt even know each other. then he stopped all of a sudden for like 2 weeks. then like 2 weeks later he started up again. he recently asked me for my number and told me how he really felt about me. of course i was flattered but i told him "id think about it" as i walked away. he sweetly asked for a hug and i gave him one then he goes how about a little kiss on the cheek. but im not that easy..im kinda conservative in a way plus im slightly shy so i turned him down and said "no all you get is a hug" and walked away. then the next day i saw him and the halls and he goes "pshhh" when he looked at me then he rolled his eyes. i thought he was playing around because he often does so i smiled and kept walking. then he turned around and gave me the finger. so
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basically i was just standing there with my mouth hanging open. he laughed and walked away. it crushed me cause i really started getting feelings for him. its been about two weeks later and hes steady ignoring me. im wondering if i did something because its like he went from worshiping me to hating me overnight. im sooo confused
whats his problem
its killing me

2007-11-14 13:22:50 · 8 answers · asked by brooklynn olivia 4 in Singles & Dating