today I made spagetti for my husband and I ask him how was it,his answer was???

Question

he said is good and I said just good and he said yeah I mean is not great, so I got kinda hurt by his answer and I walked away and he called my name but I ignored him, do you think I should be mad? is just that some man just dont say the right things sometimes! but I could be wrong, what do you think?

Answer 1

My Mr.Mom made spagetti last night for me. I was honest with him when he asked if it was ok. No! It was made with Ragu instead of his homemade that I'm spoiled with. Getting honest answers from your husband is a good thing and No,,,,,,,,you shouldn't let it hurt you,,,let it educate you. When I was home and made meals for my hubby, he was honest with me. That's how I learned to make dishes he really loved,,by listening to him. You're doing a great job and by taking corrective criticism you'll do even greater.

Answer 2

You asked you got an honest answer. My husband has different tastes in food than I do. If I make something new I ask him how he likes it......he gives me an honest answer and if it wasn't something he would eat again I don't make it again. Sometimes he says "it was OK" so I ask would you like it again? He either says yes or no. He dosen't have the same tastes as you. It doesn't mean you are a bad cook it just means that he wasn't thrilled with that one meal. My husband thinks that I'm a great cook he just doesn't like everything I cook. Our kids like things that I cook that my hubby doesn't. sometimes I cook for everyone, sometimes I cook different things for different tastes.

Answer 3

lol! That's hilarious because I do the same thing. I want him to love it all, which is really silly but I get my feelings hurt if he doesn't want seconds! :) Sometimes he critics it and finally I just told him I didn't want to know and would rather he lied about it. It's kind of become a joke now because everything I make is the "best he's ever had," but hey - it makes me laugh and its not such a big deal anymore.

Answer 4

Who cares? It's just food, so your spagetti wasn't great, but deal. It filled your bellies and gave you energy to go on with your day right? That's all that matters.

You want to know what my partner says about my cooking? He sees me cooking and says, "No, let me do that. I actually want to be able to eat this!" I cannot cook, so what? There are more important things in this world than delicious food.

Answer 5

Don't ask a question unless you want an answer to it.

He gave you an honest answer, to a question you obviously didn't want an honest answer too. That was sorta setting him up. You need to let it go, or ask him what he thought was wrong and try and make it different next time so you can get the answer you WANTED.

Answer 6

Me and my guy joke alot. So if he said that I would have sex and after I would tell him ...mmmm that was good, Not great though. That will shut him up! Sometimes joking is a great way to get a point across!

Answer 7

I would have asked him how would he prepare it? Maybe there could be some comprise. He must have liked it or he wouldnt have ate it. Sometimes you expect more when you put alot of effort into making the dish. dont be so hard on yourself.

Answer 8

You shouldn't ask questions that can have an answer you don't like. People have different taste buds. So maybe it was great to you, but his taste buds didn't agree. No you shouldn't be mad over that.

Answer 9

cheer up atleast he answered you.He said it was good.Some men just cant find the right words women need to hear.Dont be upset by it, just be happy he liked it,because while some men find it hard to speak from the heart you would know if he didnt like what you make.

Answer 10

You asked him and he answered you honestly....do you want him to lie when he didn't think it was "great"? Don't ask your husband questions like this if you can't accept an honest answer...