Family & Relationships - 14 November 2007

guys do you think its okay for a women to propose to a guy?

2007-11-14 16:14:55 · 11 answers · asked by monkey 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My bf and i have been together eight months, he has become so inconsiderate of my feelings, makes me cry almost every night and doesn't seem to care, but i don't want to give up because i like him so much when he isn't treating me like this..for instance he text messaged me obviously trying to be funny, or i'm not sure? it says i asked santa for a condom he gave me 3, i asked him for a dollar he gave me ten, and i asked him for a ho and he gave me this number...and he never said anything after that nor even talked to me tonite, why does he do this it hurts so bad, hes constnatly going out to the bars and getting drunk and i feel so hurt, ?

2007-11-14 16:13:17 · 12 answers · asked by SoberAsADuck 4 in Singles & Dating

I'm 17 and my boyfriend and I are ready to take our relationship to the next level. I really care about him and I think it's time we did it. I was planning on doing it at this secret place we have together by this creek. No one knows about it but us but it's in public so I'm a little scared about that. But I'm certain no one is going to walk up on us. Would it be okay? And if you get caught what is the worse that can happen? They won't tell your parents will they?

2007-11-14 16:10:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

boxers or briefs>?

2007-11-14 16:06:10 · 15 answers · asked by Lover Of Edward 3 in Singles & Dating

Does the truth matter in this case?

2007-11-14 16:06:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Can everyone give me their definition of what love and lust is to them.... thank you.

2007-11-14 16:04:07 · 10 answers · asked by Isabel G 2 in Singles & Dating

he says we have nothing in common he says hes not cheating he says he dont have feelings for me he cares about me do you think he could fall back in love with me what could i do

2007-11-14 16:03:41 · 44 answers · asked by maria p 1 in Marriage & Divorce

asked me if he could publish my poem , asked what is my favorite books, books that i read most of the time so he can go to the library and read them too
replies whenever i text him and tells him im the most sensible person he has ever encountered when it comes to texting
then suddenly ignores me in school cause i have ignored him out of awkward shyness
then tells his friends he thinks i act and think like a guy
then texts me and asks me why i did not look his way or talk to him in school the other day
then after 3 months of not talking to me, suddenly asks me if i would like to share ideas with him regarding their group project and asks me if i wouldnt mind giving a piece of my mind and inviting me to their acquiantance party,
i dont know what is up with this guy, is he just merely being friendly, or just doesnt know what to say, he has enrolled in some of my philosophy subjects though he is not a philosophy major.

2007-11-14 16:02:31 · 7 answers · asked by haringmarumo 6 in Singles & Dating

My EX and me broke up on 25th Oct. the breakup was mutual and after that he totally avoids me (we are in same office). I have returned al his gifts, but he is not ready to return mine. He says I wont return you those gifts coz I am not feeling like giving those back to you. He is also wearing the friendship band I gave him on last Friend Day. He don’t talk to me, even if I call him or msg him he don’t reply then why he is doing all this with my gifts and band. I am confused

2007-11-14 16:01:06 · 2 answers · asked by zapak 1 in Singles & Dating

For whatever reason, I CANNOT hug guys without being extremely awkward. I think it's because my first boyfriend made fun of my unexperienced hugging and now I think every guy I try and hug will make fun of me.

People say if he's taller you wrap it around his waste, and his arms go over you like he's protecting you. But others say that your arms go over his shoulders - which I did when I attempted that stupid hug. Are there any basic rules? Do I really need to stop overthinking this!?

HELP!
-thanks kids

2007-11-14 16:00:50 · 6 answers · asked by stepho. 2 in Singles & Dating

I have had a baby girl before, she is now 1 and I want her to have a sibling, and yes she is from the same father and no we didn't get married because of her, I want another child because I want her to have another sibling, but I don' t want them too spead apart, I realize im 17 but im not looking to get pregnant again for the hell of it. me and my husband want to have another baby but he is worried I couldn't take care of my little girl and the new born. my mom says she will help she is retired now and "doesn't have anything else better to do"(her words and not sarcastic)

2007-11-14 15:57:35 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

whenever i talk to or see the guy i like, anything he does i'll be thinking like, ok this means that he is sick of you, that means he really likes you, etc...

2007-11-14 15:56:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am completely torn on what to get my boyfriend for Christmas..he says that whatever i get him he will like(but we know thats not true)
Any ideas?!Any would help!!
Thank-You

2007-11-14 15:54:13 · 19 answers · asked by that_model_girl 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm 20 and have never had a relationship with a girl. I'm ashamed I'm so inexperienced. On top of that I dont have the best looks (hence why I'm so inexperienced) and I'm not very confident. What do I do? Girls dont want to go out with a clumsy nervous wreck like me.

Should I tell her I'm inexperienced? That sounds dumb to me. Seems to me if she was interested in me at all she'd leave as soon as I said that.

How do I get out of this hopeless cycle?

2007-11-14 15:53:51 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like to watch playgirl videos of sexy men masturbate & I pleasure myself imagining doing the guy in the video and i told this to my boyfriend and he got so mad and said that it was cheating!!! What do you think

2007-11-14 15:51:17 · 9 answers · asked by Kasey 2 in Singles & Dating

I offered gum ..mints ...u name it! Im not trying to be mean but it smells like sh** . And it can fill a room...Im about to put our friendship on the backburner..because i cant stand it...what should i do....how do u tell sumone their breathe friggin knocks...

2007-11-14 15:47:40 · 5 answers · asked by cocoa_bean82 2 in Friends

I haven't been alone with him in a few years. I just happened to see him today and we talked for about an hour. He held my hand and told me that he missed me and thought about me often. Before we parted ways, he kissed me. It was one of those kisses you feel from head to toe. I love him more than I've ever loved anyone before. I miss him everyday. But, it seems that everytime something starts up again with us, it doesn't work out. I know I'm going to get sucked in again. It happens everytime. It's like I have an addiction when he's involved. How do I keep from getting my heart broken again?

2007-11-14 15:42:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how do I start an affair with my house maid without my wife finding out?

2007-11-14 15:42:37 · 10 answers · asked by haole one 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Well Im in highschool a "senior" finally but in Texas your required to pass 4 Test in order to graduate and I still yet have been able to pass math and science? So im really stressing on that. College applications are driving me crazy and scholarships =[[ Relationships arent working for me and recently I saw this stupid movie on lifetime about aids in highschool and it said even if ur a virgin you can still get aids so Im debating wether I should get a aids test, So yeah School,relatioships, and life itself is UGH!!!!! Oh and all this stress has cause my eating habbits to change a lot so im gaining wait also =[[ ugh!!!!! Please give me positive advice? Oh and how my life could be worse?

2007-11-14 15:41:57 · 19 answers · asked by Jason :) 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-11-14 15:40:53 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

did any of you ever had a maid of honor who was bad?

2007-11-14 15:38:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i'm a girl, who is only 90 pounds and my little brother who is a lot larger than me, and about my height always starts crap with me and i call him "fat". after i call him that he punches, kicks, and whatever else that leaves bruises on me. my parents always think it's my fault because calling him fat gets him, but they don't give a damn about him hitting me. i hurt for hours because of what he does. what should i do?

2007-11-14 15:36:56 · 18 answers · asked by - 1 in Family

CA said they couldn't help so he didn't pay anyting. He paid in FL and moved. Now WA says all is forgiven when the youngest turns 28. Why? The lout still owes me $20,000 and he's getting away scott free (no offense to any scotts in the crowd). I know this happens to guys, too, so I'm looking for answers, not pointing fingers.

2007-11-14 15:35:18 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm in a community play with a man that used to be my teacher, and Ive known for many years. Im 16 now & we have always been close, but recently he has been texting me and saying things that are very inappropriate (such as "I want to see your belly ring", "Don't worry. My wife will never find these messages", and "I trust u to delete this conversation"). I have been too naive to tell him to stop, and I have kept being nice to him. Never have I said anything that insinuates that he's crossing the line. But yesterday, I talked to a teacher at the school he teaches at and found out he has a history of cheating on his wife with younger women. And the teacher had to report the situation. Today, I was called to the school office and had to show all of the text messages and give a statement about what has been happening. I feel terrible for not just telling him to stop. Should I feel this guilty? I wish I had just handled it. I will feel so bad if his life gets ruined because of it.

2007-11-14 15:34:57 · 11 answers · asked by Me 2 in Singles & Dating

I am a sophmore student athlete in college. I havnt had much luck with girls on my campus because most of them sleep with anyone and anybody. Since im away from home, i have been using myspace to talk to girls back at my home. Im startin to fall for this one girl and i plan on meeting her when i get back.

Meetin people online seems to work for me very well. Is it ok to do this? I have better luck meeting girls online then i do in person sometimes. Would it still be considered a "long distance" relationship even though i can come home every weekend to see her? Has anyone else ever met anyone online and was able to hit it off?

2007-11-14 15:34:52 · 2 answers · asked by bacdafuxup 3 in Singles & Dating

Everyday when you walk out of your house, what are the things that just make your day so worthwhile? Is it seeing kids, or going shopping, or is it just simply knowing that you get to experience another day? Please share with me. Maybe once I know these things, I might notice them more, which could make me so much happier. Thanks!

2007-11-14 15:32:18 · 6 answers · asked by music2myears 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Why is a Laundromat a bad place for men to meet women?

first correct answer wins!

2007-11-14 15:32:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

evolved, but we don't know what the first man looked like before evolving, except that he and God looked the same. That's all the Bible tells us, that God and the first man looked the same. Interesting thought. The first man may have looked like a worm, a grasshopper or a beetle for all we know from reading the Bible.

2007-11-14 15:29:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My friends tend to ignore me or push me to the side and the ones i actually really like are always older or younger than me so we don't have any clases together.

whenever i make a best friend, we will hang out all the time and then suddenly he or she will:
*find a new best friend
*suddenly change personalities and distant themselves from me
*dissappear without any word etc.
*seem to have TRIED to forget me and are polite but that's it, but i catch the people stare at me like they are sad that we aren't friends anymore or something...

my classmates and strangers will listen to what i have to say and are really nice and compliment me a lot and are really nice.
i feel like a jerk because i blow a lot of people off because i don't want to abandon my lunchtime "friends" who ignore me and i don't get along with well...
i'm a senior, so i don't care to change much now...
i'm just curious why this is
thank you!!!><

2007-11-14 15:28:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

So i was in school today and at the end of the day i was going around the spot this guy would be at waiting at times. I go and throw something in the trash in the bathroom and i come out to find out that he walked away.. What does this mean? I know he saw me too >:(

2007-11-14 15:27:50 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating