I'm 17 and my boyfriend and I are ready to take our relationship to the next level. I really care about him and I think it's time we did it. I was planning on doing it at this secret place we have together by this creek. No one knows about it but us but it's in public so I'm a little scared about that. But I'm certain no one is going to walk up on us. Would it be okay? And if you get caught what is the worse that can happen? They won't tell your parents will they?
2007-11-14 16:10:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The worst that can happen is you get a fine... they might tell your parents? It depends.... Other than that the worst thing that can happen is embarisment....
2007-11-14 16:14:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're caught by a police officer, it's constituted as public indecency, and the worst that can happen is they fine you, or book you depending on the town, just to teach you a life lesson. And yes, they will tell your parents. If you really think you want to have sex, be fully sure you're ready for all of the potential outcomes. Pregnancy, (yes it happens with a condom and the pill), STD's, being dumped because he finally got what he wanted and now wants more from someone else, rumors being spread about you, and the potential of your parents ultimately finding out you are sexually active regardless of where you have the sex. (Adults are much much smarter than teens give them credit for).
Please be careful, and NO don't do it in public.
2007-11-14 16:15:30 · answer #2 · answered by Kat1286 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
define "going to the next level". He either wants to sex with you (sad) or he wants to make plans for marriage. If he wants to have sex with you, then refuse and ask WHY he wants to. Since I inferred you two aren't married, then I think you should get married BEFORE sex. I would be scared too if that was brought up on me. Whats is he/she wanting to do?
2007-11-14 16:16:53 · answer #3 · answered by AWHwithacello 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
unless you anticipate the police waltzing up and slapping you with indecent exposure and statutory rape and disturbance of the peace and trespassing and drunk in public the biggest risk would be ants, most people would tend to just avoid the situation if they heard the sounds of lovin in the wilderness
2007-11-14 16:16:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You two may experience soemthing unexpected. Since the question came up to your mind, find some place where you both feels comfortable.
2007-11-14 16:20:06 · answer #5 · answered by JH 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
lol, yeah they tell your parents, and you get charged for indecent exposure and public indecency disorderly conduct. but i doubt cops are just roaming the woods looking for people having sex...and besides, why are you having sex at 17???
2007-11-14 16:14:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
did it ever occur to you that sex in public is against the law? hm? no! why because you are far to young and imature for sex. that's right i said it.
2007-11-14 16:14:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
go for it. if you feel hes worth this tremendous gift youre about to give him (im assuming youre a virgin) then enjoy yourself. just remember protection.
ps
im sure your parents did it too.
~Steve
2007-11-14 16:15:20 · answer #8 · answered by Steve S. 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋