Family & Relationships - 14 November 2007

2007-11-14 17:02:05 · 3 answers · asked by smiles 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Did it work out? or did the other person become too attached to you? Who was it with? Co worker? Or just a random friend? tell me. thanks

2007-11-14 17:00:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

cheat or at least think about it even if there relationship is ok, is there that thought that still goes through your guys' head

2007-11-14 16:57:05 · 7 answers · asked by miamigrl23 2 in Singles & Dating

how do i get a divorce?

2007-11-14 16:56:45 · 6 answers · asked by happyface 1 in Marriage & Divorce

you're to the point where you dont care about trying to get with somebody because they cant see how bad you want them. so u jus basically given up on trying to get that person to notice you. what kind of feelin/emotion is that? or what word describes this?

i know its a weird question. lol. but i cant describe how im feeling.

thanks for all the serious answers i get!

2007-11-14 16:54:20 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm 18, me and my boyfriend are freshmans in college, and we're ready to have sex. how do i lead into sex in a romantic way without really saying anything?

don't worry, we'll use protection, and we've been going out for a year and a half.

2007-11-14 16:53:17 · 9 answers · asked by honey 1 in Singles & Dating

--- I read in cosmopolitan magazine that the polls say:
46%- YES
54- NO

...I've been broken up with my ex for almost 2 years now, & there is a little part of me that still feels close to him no matter how long it's been.

What do you feel?

2007-11-14 16:52:47 · 29 answers · asked by IndescribableDesires. 2 in Singles & Dating

If a divorce is in the works, can the alias that is used at the workplace be changed? On all the papers there, I'm listed with my married last name. I want that changed to my maiden. Will this affect anything regarding taxes and whatnot? I claimed 0 on my taxes and am marked as "single." We filed jointly last year for taxes, but we were given the option to file separately.

I was thinking it wouldn't be a big deal since my social security number would show each name, and since I didn't mark 1 for taxes. Help?

2007-11-14 16:52:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

At what age should old people stop dating and sex and marriage. And why??

2007-11-14 16:52:04 · 6 answers · asked by clara M. 2 in Singles & Dating

I am not a guy so not quite sure what goes through a guys head. Why do guys seem to obsess about pornography?? I kind of think you have seen one you have seen them all. How often do (normal) guys look at porn? Do most guys spend most of their time at home downloading porn?

2007-11-14 16:51:32 · 27 answers · asked by twister 1 in Singles & Dating

health
true love partner for life
kids
money
happiness

2007-11-14 16:50:34 · 24 answers · asked by smiles 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I WOULD LIKE TO KNOW HOW I CAN BUILD A RELATIONSHIP WITH MY SISTER. I AM 21 AND SHE IS 25. OUR FATHER WAS KILLED WHEN WE WERE AGES 2 AND 6. WE TALK FROM TIME TO TIME, BUT NOT VERY OFTEN. MAINLY ON HOLIDAYS WHEN I BUY MY NIECE SOMETHING. I CALL HER AND ASK HER TO BRING HER OVER SO THAT SHE CAN GET HER GIFTS LIKE, CHRISTMAS, BDAY, EASTER, ETC. THERE IS NO ANIMOSITY OR ANYTHING BUT I WOULD JUST LIKE TO BUILD A CLOSER RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN ME AND HER AND ME AND MY NIECE.

2007-11-14 16:50:15 · 6 answers · asked by MISS TT 3 in Family

and do once a week or so??
We are all adults with children, but we never spend time together. I have thought about dinner at each others houses, but what else, maybe even start a tradition.

2007-11-14 16:48:49 · 2 answers · asked by 3030gal 3 in Family

I'm 21, and I'm still feeling like a child. I do have more responsibilities now. My gf and my mom somehow want me to take care of them and to be the man for them. Since my father, in my opinion, is a rather idle man and wasnt very manly at all, I would say he is not the role model I want. I just want to ask you, what do you think I should do to become a more successful adult, and a more reliable man for my family?
Thank you~

2007-11-14 16:46:11 · 6 answers · asked by landzai 4 in Family

I filed for a divorce in June of 2007 does my house have to be sold in order for my divorce to be finalized??????????

2007-11-14 16:46:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfriend is not the most attractive guy and his sense of style is kind of old fashioned..my mom has only spoken to him on the phone and she's all happy to meet him and i'm not so sure if she'll like him once they meet..and honestly my feelings for my boyfriend are not that solid..any ideas?? we've been going out for about a year

2007-11-14 16:43:50 · 19 answers · asked by Ask ME 3 in Singles & Dating

I have a girlfriend and her daughter is pregnant out of wedlock. She dated the same man for about a year,split with him briefly, and slept with a random guy once (unprotected sex). Now, 5 weeks later, she's back with the boyfriend and pregnant. Boyfriend doesn't know about the one nighter which happened around the estimated contriception date the doctor gave her. Should I advise the boyfriend that he may want to get a paternity test prior to allowing his name to be put on the birth certificate (he'll be paying child support for 18 years if his name is on the document, regardless of DNA tests later). Or, would you just let that happen and figure it's none of your business? The Boyfriend and my girlfriends daughter aren't together again: My friend (pregnant woman's daughter) thinks she'll get child support out of the ex boyfriend where the one night stand won't pay anything. Very selfish thinking. What would you do?

2007-11-14 16:41:48 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

There is this drama program over the summer in New York that I really want to go to. I will be gone for six weeks and my boyfriend is going and so are all my friends. But my mom says no for some reason. I mean if all my friends can go why can't I?

2007-11-14 16:39:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I do not what to do people. Life is really difficult for me right now. I am trying to get better by stating away as much as I can from the only woman that I want to be with, I am trying to forget about how I feel about her, I am trying to move on, but it is really difficult...very.
I had planned to do something with some friends of mine but then she calls me and says that she needs me to go and get something for our son, so I had to put my plans on hold just so I could go out and buy things to help her and our son. I don't understand. WHY was this told to me at the LAST moment...it is VERY frustrating. I DO NOT mind supplying things for our son, anything I can, I WILL DO for his sake. What confuses is that WHY I was told by S to get things for X at the last moment...*sigh*
Also, S says that she has a new boyfriend and what not, and dude probably drives so Y couldn't S ask HIM to help her with what she did not bother to take care of A LONG time ago. : /

2007-11-14 16:36:29 · 4 answers · asked by Isai 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-11-14 16:32:46 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband and I have been married for a couple of years and he is addicted to playing x-box games. We have gone to counselling and everything and I have slept alone for nearly our entire marriage because he comes to bed during the early hours of the morning. It has gotten really horrible at times... right now it is bad because Halo 3 came out. I have complained about going to bed alone the most. I said that he could lay next to me at night until I fall asleep and then he can play his games for an hour or so. This wasn't good enough, he only did it for a few days and after yelling at me, he went back to playing the same as before. I just want someone to want to be with me. I don't want to make him because I hate that he doesn't want to. I guess the question is, should I demand that he goes to bed with me? We have a child and I can't stay up all night waiting for him to be done playing for the night. (he's 27 with a good job in case that's in question)

2007-11-14 16:32:42 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i know i am young but i havent had or fooled around with a girl in 3 years....i just want someone to talk too all the time and have fun with...it feels like she/ or any girl for that matter will come

2007-11-14 16:32:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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2007-11-14 16:31:25 · 2 answers · asked by kirstybrea 1 in Singles & Dating

In your marriage and if so how did you fix it?

2007-11-14 16:29:33 · 9 answers · asked by Livinrawguy 7 in Marriage & Divorce

It seems as if I am the only person without a "best friend". I have friends of course but they all already have a best friend. I have seen people who are in their 30s with friends they have had since they were 8-9 years old and that seems like such a good thing. In this crazy world, long term best friends provide an "anchor" that we often don't have anymore. So here are my questions--

1. Do you have no best friend?
2. Does it bother you?

I think it may have something to do with being female. I have seen guys maintain friendships from childhood to middle age but that seems less likely to occur with women (at least the people I know). Anyone know why?

2007-11-14 16:28:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-11-14 16:25:21 · 13 answers · asked by HONDA GIRL 1218 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My bro(23yrs old) failed out from school one after another. I found him a great job doing exactly what he likes, but he ultimately stopped going and "disappeared from the job" all bc he thought walking 10mins to his office was too far. So now, he has no job. No college degree. He spends his days just eating, sleeping, watching tv, downloading movies, bitching at my parents and me, doing nothing all day, taking his anger out on our dog, etc. Saying how we ruined his life, how when he was little he used to do so well in school at times but because my parents never really praised him so he figured why work hard.
I am 5 yrs older. I took my bro in after he failed out again&again. I was working and I paid his bill. With me going to med school soon and dad losing his job recently..With no family income, my bro is still the same wasting resources and abusing us. My parents think that it's beyond them to fix this irresponsible, disrespectful adult son. They dont have the heart to throw him out

2007-11-14 16:24:00 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i invited this really nice girl in a wheelchair to my birthday party. she's a good friend, and i wanted to invite her because she can be included and have as much fun as everyone else. but, im turning 13 and ppl around my age tend to be very judging. i am not judging, but i don't want people to think i'm a freak because i invited someone with a disability. so how can we all have fun, but still accept each other? i just think the whole world would be awesome if we all just accepted each other.

2007-11-14 16:20:08 · 31 answers · asked by manlove_to_the_rescue 3 in Friends

like watching two attractive men make out or even watch gay male porn? No one is here to judge this is a genuine question that I decided to ask after seeing some other posts about it. I'm trying to compare the double standard of men liking female-female romance in contrast to women liking male-male romance.

2007-11-14 16:18:21 · 5 answers · asked by Selym 3 in Singles & Dating

I have divorced-record, and my new BF doesn't know it yet.
He thinks I have never got married to anyone, he believes it.
So should I tell the truth to him? My nationality is diffrent from him, so he may not notice anything about me, if he does't try to know.And then I also don't tell my true age to him yet too...but soon, my real age will be come up, it'll be ok.
Just care about my divored-record now.
33 minutes ago - 3 days left to answer.

2007-11-14 16:15:51 · 21 answers · asked by Babycoco 1 in Marriage & Divorce