Should I tell to him?

Question

I have divorced-record, and my new BF doesn't know it yet.
He thinks I have never got married to anyone, he believes it.
So should I tell the truth to him? My nationality is diffrent from him, so he may not notice anything about me, if he does't try to know.And then I also don't tell my true age to him yet too...but soon, my real age will be come up, it'll be ok.
Just care about my divored-record now.
33 minutes ago - 3 days left to answer.

Answer 1

Be honest with him about every aspect of your life. If he loves you it will not matter---he will understand. The truth has a way of coming out, and it's better that he find out from you.

Answer 2

It doesn't matter what your nationality is! You should tell him the truth! If he loves u then it won't matter. However, How long have u kept this from him? The longer u wait, the more he's gonna be pissed! Why are u constantly lying to him? Has he done something to deserve that? Tell him your age!! I'm just curious as to know What are the two nationality's?

Answer 3

If you are to have a future with this man you need to come clean about your age and divorce. Its not fair to lie. Its not a good way to start a relationship either. IT makes a person wonder what else you would lie about. Tell him before he finds out on his own. That would be worse. Good Luck

Answer 4

Why would you lie about your age? And why would you lie about being divorced? Now you've had to make up lie on lie on lie. The best thing to do is be honest. If your bf really loves you he won't care about your age or your previous marital status. I do however think he might be a little disappointed to find out you lied. I dated a guy once who lied about his age and I couldn't understand why. Like I really cared.

Answer 5

Why are you lying to him? He is going to find out and he is going to be very upset. He might even not want to be with you anymore. Did you tell him a different age or did you just not tell him? I would tell him the truth as soon as possible. Trust is very important in a relationship. I wouldn't have a relationship without it.

Answer 6

I don't see this is such an issue, he has the right to know, is not like you were a serial killer or any thing like that, there is nothing wrong with been married and then divorced. Tell him, he will appreciate you so much for saying the truth!! I would!

Answer 7

Naughty Q, I've just got one question for you? Are you like 40 but look like your 30 and so you told him you were younger or are you much younger then he thinks you are. That's what I'm more interested in knowing and who cares if you were married before. If you live in the U.S.A. no one really cares about that.

Answer 8

I think your relationship is already doomed since you've led him to believe you've never been married and are not the age you pretend to be. He's going to find out one way or another about both issues and when he does he'll be angry, so just get it over with it.

Answer 9

If you plan on marrying this guy you'd better start telling him the truth about EVERYTHING. If you go into a marriage based on lies when he finds out he can have it anulled based upon fraud because you represented yourself to be something you weren't.

Answer 10

if you decide to live a lie, at some point it will bite you.

if you want him to trust you tell the truth.

if he is really interested, your past will not be important.

by telling the truth, he will learn to trust you an an honest person.

get caught in a lie and that's it for trust.