Family & Relationships - 14 November 2007

I am from another country. My husband has 2 kids from his previos marrige.My husbands parents love those children very, very much. They kissing them, given them presents, seeing them almost every day< I mean they crazy about the children. Now we have our own children. And it is so strange, my husbands parents don't want to do anything with them. They even didn't came to the hospital, when they were born. My baby had a surgery, they didn't come to see him, It hurt my feelings so bad, I was crying for several days. The bad thing is, that I don't have anybody else here. All my family is very far.So, I am all by myself. My husband always screaming on me on our children.Everything is my and ours kids fault
He is bad bussinesman, We don't have a house, we don't have money, he has big childsupport, He put me in a bankruptcy, now he fill my credit cards again, I can't say no, it will be a scandal. And he doesn't love me anymore. What about our children, I don't want to break there hearts..

2007-11-14 15:27:47 · 14 answers · asked by Alison 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Her picture was included and the words BFF. He states was meant as friendship only. I don't find this cool. He also calls her baby, etc.

2007-11-14 15:27:46 · 19 answers · asked by Sage 3 in Marriage & Divorce

okay this name matt his been friend for like 2 years only friends .we always laugh at r jokes. my last hour of class i sit down and he tikle me and being playful. he does it every day and i dont like it. his only myfriend i want him 2 stop how can i tell him but not hurting his feeling.........help me

2007-11-14 15:26:22 · 4 answers · asked by mayra v 1 in Friends

He says he needs his house cleaned. He does need it cleaned really well, and I have offered on numerous occasions to clean house for him or hire a cleaner as a gift or favor, but he wants none of it.
Now he has hired a girl who was fired from her job 2 days ago for stealing the money donated for toys for tots at a toy store.
I asked him not to have her clean his house because she is a thief and he tells me its not my business. He says his daughter told him it was all a mis understanding about the missing toy stuff and her getting fired. I know It was not a misunderstanding....my sister in law is the manager of the store she stole from and I got it 1st hand and actually knew she was being fired before she got canned.
Why on earth would he hire this girl to clean his house? I wonder if he has lost his mind. I am also mad. He has really gone overboard this time. I leave things at his house from time to time and now I would not as much as leave my bubble gum rapper. He is my SO.

2007-11-14 15:25:26 · 4 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Singles & Dating

i want 2 know how many wives would b bothered by this + how many men think im being unfair. ive been married 4 a little over a year but ive been w/ my husband 4 almost 8 years. anyways, we both have myspace accounts + every now + then ill see a girl i dont know added as one of his friends. it makes me unconfortable that he has many girls from his past on his page. i dont think hes cheating but i also dont like some of these girls even having his phone number. when i talk 2 him about it he says i dont have the right 2 tell him that he cant have girl friends, + that some of these girls hes known longer than me. that basically its just me being jealous + insecure + hes doing nothing wrong. i want to know if i should b telling him 2 stop talking 2 these girls, should it even bother me, am i being unfair...ect. or any other advice or opinions anyone has 2 offer. personally i think that whether im being insecure or not, if it bothers me he should stop talking 2 them on phone + internet!!

2007-11-14 15:24:58 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i think because of the rise of cellphones... the amount of marriages that ended up in divorce has rised greatly,,, because now that everyone knows where the other is it is very hard for the person that wants to lie to do so, that way, trust is very hard to give because people cant lie as easy anymore. does that make sence to peoplles?

2007-11-14 15:24:34 · 12 answers · asked by Journy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I will be spending Thanksgiving with my boyfriend of a month and a half. For some reason everyone but my parents, whose opinions I cared for the most, has been bothered by this. Why do others see this as a sign of seriousness? I see it as an opportunity to see another family's take on a holiday tradition. My extended family is fairly close and we get together often, which is not the case with his family. Is it wrong to want see how other people spend holidays? It is not as though I am abandoning them. I will be spending Christmas with them, as I have since childhood. Is my attitude harsh? Do I seem callous towards the feelings of my family? I love them all very much.

2007-11-14 15:24:14 · 3 answers · asked by overmaggies 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-14 15:22:11 · 8 answers · asked by christay 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Thought she was at least 20... turns out she's 17... I don't know what to do... stop seeing her? finding someone closer to my age? give a rats *** about age?

2007-11-14 15:21:37 · 18 answers · asked by Cort870 2 in Singles & Dating

We're best friends, and we're all the time flirting back and forth, and we know the attraction is there, but I asked him out and he said that he wasn't quite sure if he wanted to go out with me or not, which I respect that.
But It's real obvious that he likes me, and I know he knows that I like him, so why won't he go out with me?
Is he just afraid that if we break up things will be wierd?
Or could it be something else?

2007-11-14 15:21:09 · 11 answers · asked by Starieberry 4 in Singles & Dating

I had a baby 6 months ago, I am 3 pound short of my pre-pregnancy weight. He is the one that has gained weight. He doesnt even kiss me anymore. What is the deal, we haven't even been married a year.

2007-11-14 15:20:59 · 21 answers · asked by maymay 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Don't get me wrong I don't hate them at all, I care about my family just as much as anyone else would

Its just that word I can't say.

I'm talking on the phone to my grandma and she says "Okay bye I love you"

"Okay...something or other"

I just can't say I believe in love outside of a romantic sense. I've never had a girlfriend though, so I can't say I've ever "Loved" anyone in the way I think.

what is wrong with me

2007-11-14 15:19:49 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I used to always cheat on my boyfriends, but with this one i've been faithful so far. i want to change the way i've been acting because i know that it hurts people, it's dishonest, and it's wrong. every time i ask someone about this they tell me that cheaters can't change. it's discouraging. it makes me feel like i should just give up dating so i won't mess up anyone else. what should i do?

2007-11-14 15:18:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Whats your biggest turn on about a woman; whats your biggest turn off?

2007-11-14 15:17:40 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So I met this guy a couple of weeks ago, and he doesnt live in the same state as me he lives on one coast and I live on the other. We keep in touch by the phone and IM for now. He is in the middle of a divorce and him and his wife are currently separated. And when Im talking to him he tells me how his wife got everything she ever wanted, and how he like to take care of a lady, and he tells me what his career allows him to buy. So, about a few days ago my cell phone was cut off(hard times) and he noticed that it was of course. So he insisted that he would pay for it to turn it back on. Well unfortunetly my mother(best friend) who I love so much is going through hard times too. And she needed to borrow $350 from him. So she told me to ask him he would do that for her and she will pay him back this friday when she gets her paycheck. When I asked him he said yes. So its been almost three 2 and a half days and I havent recieved anything for my phone nor my mother. Adding more to the story..

2007-11-14 15:17:07 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Between school, friends, friends problems they exspect me to fix, and this guy i like (<---not like that matters) and i cant calm down.. i seriously don't know what to do to calm my nerves.. so for real any suggestions?

2007-11-14 15:14:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I asked this question before I lost 75lbs and was what kind of answers i would get now.

After college I have had noway to meet girls. So, I was wondering if a guy that looks like me and has a great personality would have a chance just walking up to a girl and starting a conversation and leave with a number and a real chance of a date. Oh, and you can't hurt my feeling so, feel free say what you really think. You can see my picture at
http://www.myspace.com/waltthegamer1

2007-11-14 15:14:34 · 5 answers · asked by Big Money 1 in Singles & Dating

is he attracted to her?

2007-11-14 15:13:23 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I miss you like the desert misses rain. I cant work out whether its a compliment or an insult. But i'm pretty sure it'd be an insult

2007-11-14 15:06:54 · 77 answers · asked by Baca 5 in Singles & Dating

how old were you??where?what happened?with who??

mine was with my best guy friend at school backstage in the auditorium. he just asked me if i wanted to make out. it was akward because he's gay and i'm les.

2007-11-14 15:03:13 · 28 answers · asked by twiggy 2 in Singles & Dating

or is it that you are missing the real ones in the wait for your perfect love? Do you believe in Unconditional Love? Do you have unconditional love for anyone? What does Unconditional love mean to you?

2007-11-14 14:59:57 · 18 answers · asked by hammy 3 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I been married for 2 months and 14 days. (Ironic) and now: We live together under the same roof; but in silence, the TV and his PSP are his best distractions to avoid me. I can never do anything right without him criticizing me. Plus, we keep arguing over the same subject repeatedly.

2007-11-14 14:59:53 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i would love to meet one and get to know them, i really wont to meet a real vampire if you could please help me meet a real live vampire i would really be greatfull for that,

2007-11-14 14:55:40 · 8 answers · asked by bigblackeycat 1 in Singles & Dating

well i ahve a pen pal over seas and she has asked me to help her get a trunk box to the usa and she will meet me to pick it up and she said i will give you 15% of what is in the box but i don't think i should trust her could someone please help i told her that i can't do it but she keeps e-mailing me begging me to do it i don't know what to do any more help me please

2007-11-14 14:52:22 · 5 answers · asked by jamie J 2 in Friends

I live with my parents and I feel as if I am being mentally abused everyday. I need to get out. I am 19 years old I have 10 dollars to my name seriously. I cant work because Im a stay at home mother and a full time student. It has gotten to the point where I cry all the time I cant eat I feel what my mother says is true. I throw up because I am depressed. I need a way out.
Can anyone help me find information on someone who can help me start a new healthy life where I wont have to go talk to someone at a clinic. I feel so nervous in my house because I am constantly put down.

I live in Grand Prairie,TX part of Dallas Texas.

I need serious help.

2007-11-14 14:51:11 · 3 answers · asked by littlemissmay 4 in Family

by the way i am good looking, have abs, play varsity football on the wrestling team its just never worked out

2007-11-14 14:49:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She said this to me right after we had made love this morning and were cuddling.

2007-11-14 14:49:16 · 26 answers · asked by Andy8875 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm afraid and embarrassed to see one, but I've been having feelings for another married man (and I'm married myself). Not only that, but the reason why I have strayed from my own marriage is because when I want to spend time with my husband, he rather just play his WoW game. He talks to his friends on WoW than me. We hardly communicate in person. We send each other a lot of emails at work, but that is not the same thing. He doesn't seem to have opinions of his own, and most time uses my own words or other people's words.

I'm just not as attracted to him as I am with this other man. I hardly know the other man, so he may not be all that either, but I feel lost. What can counselors do that people on yahoo answers can't do? :P

I'm thinking about going to see one by myself first since my husband doesn't think we need one, but I think I do.

2007-11-14 14:49:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was just wondering, since, you know, I am almost sixteen & have never dated. "/ Pretty embarrassing.

2007-11-14 14:48:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He asks 4 money too much!!

BACKGROUND INFO:
1. Me and Boyfriend have been together for 8 months
2. We’ll be engaged soon- married next year( He has
bought the ring and yes I have seen it ;-)
3. I make three times more than him……..
4. He asked me for money about 20 times- 10 of those
times were for necessary expenses which I have helped out but had to rough it a little without the money. The other 10 times were for unnecessary expenses like an I.POD, T.V. Clothes

Problem:
He feels there's nothing wrong with asking me for money..

and

I feel offended and irritated because he should be able to live off what he earns.

Please answer any one or all of the following:

How do I explain to my boyfriend that continually asking me for money and material things is offensive and irritating?

What's the difference between asking and begging?

Do you think there's something wrong with a guy that continually asks a woman for money?

2007-11-14 14:47:21 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating