Thought she was at least 20... turns out she's 17... I don't know what to do... stop seeing her? finding someone closer to my age? give a rats *** about age?
2007-11-14 15:21:37 · 18 answers · asked by Cort870 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well age isnt everything, as long as you are happy together, that all that counts, and she is over 16! my hubby thought i was 18 when he met me, i was only 15 and he was 21, but we are now married for 14 years and have 4 kids together. my mom and dad in law had a age gap of 11 years between them, but they were married for 44 years!!! give it ago!!!
2007-11-14 16:43:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
9 years is under 10. But 17 year old girls are in lala land. They need to have at least gone out and partied after 21 for a few years. I think 23-25 is the age when females should be stopping the party mode, unless that is their lifestyle. If she's 23 and you're 32, then when she's 25, you'll be 34. And when she's 27, you'll be 36. And when she's 29, you'll be 38. I hope you are healthy. If you eat clean and are clean, then you've got an edge on most men who are dirty and don't take care of themselves.
2014-09-24 19:01:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think the whole age question depends on the mental age than the physical age. 9 years is fine when you're both a bit older...like late 20s onwards. At 17, i'd say 9 years is a bit too much of an age gap...
2007-11-14 15:59:22 · answer #3 · answered by iced out 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is the legal age, my fiance and i have a 6yr age difference, i started seeing him when i was 17 and he was 23...we did split for 9months and we both started dating people closer to our own age and we were miserable. We got back together and we couldnt get along any better, age doesnt matter. As long as you both love each other what difference does it make? Its only a number at the end of the day.
2007-11-14 21:36:46 · answer #4 · answered by Milly 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would wait until she's 18 for legal reasons, but otherwise I don't think age should be an issue. If two people like one another, have things in common, are interested in each other, etc. then why shouldn't they go out together?
2007-11-14 15:27:30 · answer #5 · answered by mcq316 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Even though I always dated men older then me (When I was 23 I dated someone 34)
17- is to young U should wait til she's 18, for both of ya
2007-11-14 15:35:23 · answer #6 · answered by Chef April 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who gives a monkeys about age difference and what people think if she makes you happy you stick with her after all it is your life and the others probrably wish they had a girl friend 9 years younger than them. I once had one 19 years younger she was 32 and I was 51
2007-11-14 21:26:45 · answer #7 · answered by emulateone 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hey, i dont think thats alot to be honest if u like each other thn age doesnt come in to it..im only 18 and ive had a 28 year old ask me out and he knew i was 18 so reali age doesnt matter its the feelings tht count i would carry on seeing her if u lilek her...just double check she is ok with the age 2!!
Good luck...keep updated!!! x
2007-11-14 19:33:33 · answer #8 · answered by Blonde Bec 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As long as the two of you don't do anything illegal then you should be fine. Like I have said before age is only the number of birthdays you have had. It's your mental age that counts, so if she acts older than her age then fine. Don't dump her unless it's a problem.
2007-11-14 18:21:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
how did u not know her age? did u not ask her before u started going out with her? thats wat i would have done! anywho, ur what 26 years old and shes 17. in my mind, i dont agree with a 17 year old going out with a bloke over the age of 21. sorry! but anyway, if u wanna stay with her then stay. u shuldnt care about the age if its HER u care about. however, if u dont feel comfortable in goin out with a person 9 years ur junior, then stop the whole thing. ur choice
Good Luck!
2007-11-15 00:11:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋