Family & Relationships - 14 November 2007

I don't know if I feel the same way. What is love? How do you know if you love someone? I'm seventeen. Is it too young for someone my age to fall in love?

2007-11-14 13:21:48 · 1 answers · asked by ♥hugglez♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

I am attracted to a married man and its mutual.Nothing has happened just some flirting.Not sure I will go through with it but I love the thrill. He doesnt want to be married any more. I dont think hes my perfect guy - I'm just attracted to him - a lot!
Why cant I have him screw me like I know he wants to and can?He can stay with his wife - I dont want her to find out - she never would.I dont want anyone to get hurt including myself.
Its just fun.there are no kids in his marriage.Whats the big deal of MARRIED?
I'm holding back and so is he.....why?

2007-11-14 13:18:53 · 38 answers · asked by Sunshine Girl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My sister has a boyfriend for....maybe going on to two years. (I lost count....) Well...in class there's this guy that always speaks with me, her, and another friend of ours. Does he really like her? He talks a lot to her and sometimes sits next to her. I think he might be very interested. Of course, my sister is starting to like him. Is she willing to break up a great relationship she has now....for some guy that's brand new??
I feel horrible because her boyfriend and I have been friends since elementary.
So the guy in our class texts my sister, sits next to her, and always talks the most to her. To which she looks just as interested. I don't want to intervene, but should I tell my sister something?

2007-11-14 13:18:42 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-14 13:17:38 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and my husband have been arguing alot lately everytime we get into an argument he tells me that it's his house and he pays all the bills. he acts like i don't do anything we have four kids one of them he had wih someone else and we only get her every other week thursday through sunday. i stay at home and take care of the kids including his daughter when she's there while trying to keep the house semi organized and he acts like he doesn't appreciate it he goes out hangs out with his friends and sometimes doesn't even come home untill 8am or 9 am he leaves work to go play pool and drink the only thing he has to do is work and go to school which i know is hard but i just feel like he is trying to push me away by saying the things he says to me i feel like its our house we are married so it's ours am i wrong for feeling the way i feel?

2007-11-14 13:16:58 · 30 answers · asked by me 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend's ex moved over the weekend, phoned to let him know 5 days later. Gave no notice to anyone. They have an agreement that they have joint custody and my boyfriend has his daughter over 45% of the time. His ex moved 500km away. Does anyone have an experience with this in Ontario? We have tried going to the police and he has been told by court that he has to wait until Friday (1 week after child moved without notice) to talk to duty councel.

2007-11-14 13:16:53 · 6 answers · asked by smart_shychick 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We plan to get married at the courthouse and get our marrage licence and have the wedding later does the courthouse provide a pastor for us because we don't know a pastor.

2007-11-14 13:13:23 · 14 answers · asked by warren c 1 in Weddings

Why is it when people get drunk they say something you never heard before like I hate you or I love you. Or do things they usually dont like smack or grab your behind. It happens to me when we have parties. My husbands friends grab me passing by but it only happens when they are drunk.

2007-11-14 13:11:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Sorry about the concert tickets i lost, but here's a ticket to sadies?

2007-11-14 13:09:49 · 1 answers · asked by eriicanicole 1 in Singles & Dating

My Fiance believes it is wrong. I have to agree with her.

But in theory, it sounds like a good idea, because it would permit us to see if the marriage would work. We would see how we would interact in real life.

But if this is sinful, I do not want any part of it.

What do you think?

2007-11-14 13:09:21 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-14 13:09:09 · 33 answers · asked by mp3 4 in Marriage & Divorce

This guy @ my school liked me for a day..And asked me what was up with us and wen we are going to hook up..Now nothing!!
What does that mean?? He doesn`t even talk to me Yeah, he Looks @ me sometimes but that`s about it...
I just find it really strange..Because i still like him. Also i seen him and this girl kissin in the hallway i about got sick!!
Does that mean i like him still or just the thought of it?!

2007-11-14 13:04:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

It's a secret.....

2007-11-14 13:03:48 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Fiance now doesn't want to do paper RSVP's. Is it acceptable to have RSVP online at www.website.com or please call Chesney at xxx-xxx-xxxx ?

2007-11-14 13:03:30 · 19 answers · asked by ? 5 in Weddings

to play at the later part of my wedding reception. I want a lot of the music i hear when i go out and dance at a club. Thanks for your help! : )

2007-11-14 13:00:42 · 4 answers · asked by Mrs! 2 in Weddings

I'm not rich,I do own some property,no big deal. I still work,even tho I get soc. sec. She's nice and not some chick that can't get a guy. She's slim,nice build 5'2" I need advice??

2007-11-14 12:58:06 · 8 answers · asked by themojoman_dj 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been married 6 yrs. My husband while not physically abusive has mentally wore me down. I'm wanting to know what my rights are we have two children together...he says I owe him all this money for stuff we acquired while we were married. We live in a community property state. It's always the same thing day in and day out. We always fight about money, right now I'm working and paying all the bills, I come home and nothing is clean and he wants me to do that to. The only thing he is doing is watching the children while I'm at work, I can't afford child care. I'm afraid to leave because I don't know what will happen when I do. and how to break from this, can someone please give me some advice? I'm scared, confused and alone. I need help not only for myself but for the sake of my children. I've tried applying for college to better myself and I have a full time job. I just need answers, any help would be greatly appreciated. thank you.

2007-11-14 12:58:06 · 15 answers · asked by scared and confused 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I think my friend and I are growing farther apart. We've been friends since eighth grade [almost seven years]. So yeah I don't know how to tell her that I do not want to be friends with her anymore.

2007-11-14 12:53:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Like Barry White, I know ladies love him..

Now I'm not comparing myself to him i got a voice of my own and sound nothing like him. But its pretty rough and I find girls often asking me to talk to them just because they want to here my voice. I've gotten a couple 'wows' when I'm just meeting some girls or some telemarketer or some female i dont know calls on the phone. I'm usually a quiet guy and I'm told a lot to talk more cause i got a sexy voice(not boasting), but I have a couple instances where it has drawn attention to me. My gf always calls me to put her to bed cause it soothes her to sleep, and other times it turns her on..

Anyways tell me now what is it about deep voices that turn you girls on?

2007-11-14 12:52:26 · 2 answers · asked by chig 7 in Singles & Dating

How many times per week should couples have sex....

2007-11-14 12:50:54 · 15 answers · asked by David 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i'm trying to decide now what to get my brother for christmas, he is by far the hardest person to shop for. there isn't anything he wants and what he does its expensive. what's something to get for a guy that's budget wise and thoughtful?

2007-11-14 12:43:08 · 15 answers · asked by ? 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Any thing related to that.

2007-11-14 12:36:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, well here's my story. It was last year in 5th grade. I was put with a teacher I hated and snobby classmates. I made my way OK-ish throught the first half of the year....I had no friends in that class though. Then Christmas Break came. There must have been a button that turned them from snooty to total BRAT! Well, they must have hit it during the break because they became really MEAN! So then in Febuary I was having real problems with them....well something happened......a very nice new girl came....and we became BEST FRIENDS! She came just when I need her.....we had the best times and I considered her my BFFL! She really was but as the end of ther year approched she suddenly had to move away I was devistaed. We still sometimes talk now but barely and were still great friends.....welll I just wanted to know your opionion was she a miracle or was it just a freak accident she came when I needed her and left when I no longer did....whats you opioion?

2007-11-14 12:35:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-11-14 12:31:15 · 8 answers · asked by Mon S 1 in Singles & Dating

There is this guy at my school and he is the hottest guy ever! and everytime in guidance class he looks at me and then when i look over at him he looks away whenever i sit down he comes and sits by me and then also he talks to me all the time we are both on the basketball team 2. I had one of my guy friends which is his really good friend talk to him about me and the guy that i like won't admit that he likes me or will not ask me out! what should i do? Should i ask him out? Shoud i just play it natural? he knows i like him. Should i flirt with him? Or would that push him away? im very confused. what should i do? Our basketball team has an all night lock in with the guys basketball team should i make a move there.

2007-11-14 12:30:52 · 1 answers · asked by Allie 1 in Singles & Dating

I go to youth group every wednesday and mom is always getting mad because our youth minister keeps us late but i can't help it. i'm the one who always gets blamed but i rlly don't see how this is my fault. she isn't even talking to me because i told her there is nothing i can do about it and theres no reason to get upset. do u agree w/ me?

2007-11-14 12:27:18 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

We just had sex in the shower and we were in different rooms try to do our homework. I went to him to ask about the homework. I felt something on the floor I asked what was that he said He was masturbating. He hasn't watch porn in a while so he was masturbating. I feel so weird. He Just came in the shower with me and now he is masturbating. He don't even want to please me. And I can't masturbate. I am tired of his denial. I feel like I am not good enough for him thats why he is masturbating and watching porn. i never had any problems in the past with him. I even like to watch porn with him. If I dont want to have sex with him and he is masturbating that makes sense to me but why did he did it.

2007-11-14 12:24:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He has no friends. I have some female friends. We have no friends as a couple. We have been out to dinner twice with other couples and entertained once in twenty years of marriage. It didn't matter when the kids were little because we were busy and all that. Now that the kids are older, I'm lonely as hell.

I enjoy the company of men as much and sometimes more than women. I'm more comfortable around men than I am women. I'd like to befriend a man who is involved in a group my son is in. I see him once a week and whenever we get on the phone we talk longer than is necessary. I think he's funny and interesting.

Can I have a friendship with a divorced man? Nothing romantic here - we're not the other's type and I'm not looking. Please don't suggest I invite him over. My husband is intimidated by this man (he's really smart) and my husband does not like to have company anyway. Thanks.

2007-11-14 12:15:07 · 6 answers · asked by my kids spy on me 3 in Marriage & Divorce

that she likes me
. She said to me "aww. your so cute"
.She isnt afraid to touch me she sometimes touches or rubs agiasnt my arm
. Makes frequent eye contact "the eye contact were you feel like she is waiting for something"
. Sometimes says whats up but she generaly ignores me
. Seems nervous around me I was helping her with something once and she berly spoke a word
. She has tried to partner up with me before in science

It may seem obvious but she ignores me and doesnt really make an effort to get to know me. We have know each other for about a year but where not at the friends level.
I would talk to her but i just get so nervous i cant talk to her. oh ya were 18 shes 3 months older but i dont think she knows that



I really do care about her. when i look her in the eyes they just have this glow that really makes me think she feels the same way


she is not shy at all. like she talks around me just not to me

2007-11-14 12:14:40 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband bought this stupid penis traction/stretcher device that cost nearly $200. I never gave him any indication that I wasn't satisfied with our sex life. Although his penis is not the biggest, it's absolutely not an issue for me. I don't know why he would waste so much money on this useless device. Should I just support him on this or tell him not to waste his time on this stupid thing? I haven't said a word to him about the device yet. I'm a little bit angry but maybe I should also appreciate what he's trying to do for our sex life? I never brought the issue of his size up either. He's about 5 1/2 inches so I guess in a man's mind that is small, but to me and maybe most other women that is average and just fine. Should I tell him his size is adequate or not mention this to him at all? Are there any other women who have husbands or boyfriends who have purchased things to enlarge their penis? How does it make you feel? How are you dealing with it? Thanks for any help.

2007-11-14 12:11:21 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce