We just had sex in the shower and we were in different rooms try to do our homework. I went to him to ask about the homework. I felt something on the floor I asked what was that he said He was masturbating. He hasn't watch porn in a while so he was masturbating. I feel so weird. He Just came in the shower with me and now he is masturbating. He don't even want to please me. And I can't masturbate. I am tired of his denial. I feel like I am not good enough for him thats why he is masturbating and watching porn. i never had any problems in the past with him. I even like to watch porn with him. If I dont want to have sex with him and he is masturbating that makes sense to me but why did he did it.
2007-11-14 12:24:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I really found it so weird. I mean Am I not good enough for him Or he just wants to see naked Sl_ts.
2007-11-14 12:39:20 · update #1
You need to confront him as this is unacceptable! My husband also used to look at porn and our sex life was pathetic. When I confronted him I gave him till Nov 30 to sort out his issues. He's going to the psychologist today and I'm going with him to tell her what I've been experiencing because otherwise he just complains about work for the whole session!
I also told him that we must watch it together and that he must involve me but he doesn't want to!
Give your husband an ultimatum.
He knows that you are willing to do anything and he can do as he pleases, but it needs to stop!
Good luck!
2007-11-14 16:27:02 · answer #1 · answered by Ethan-Mikyle's Mommy! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just pleasing himself in another way. Some men are not satisfied when they no they can get it anytime so he's pleasing himself but it doesn't mean he doesn't like you. Masturbation is normal and he admitted to you he was doing it so he's not a liar. If you watch porn then don't blame your man, imagination is a wonderful thing. Best of luck!
2007-11-14 20:40:10 · answer #2 · answered by beamer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well at least he could pick up after himself...geesh.
Well if u didn't make him happy in the shower of course he had some unfinished business to handle. Doesn't sound like he's into you like he use to be, and maybe he want's to try a new vision, or person for awhile or forever.
Ask him....again.
2007-11-14 20:41:21 · answer #3 · answered by passionfruit2571 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just wonder was he still horny after the shower incident and had some fun by himself 'cos he was still wound up?
Dont understand what you are saying about denial?
Sounds like a sexual guy - maybe try to to spice things up a bit? Get some toys and nice underwear maybe?
2007-11-14 20:59:15 · answer #4 · answered by Sunshine Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He, like most other MEN, is ocersexed, its not his fault!! And what do you mean you can't masterbate, (I love to watch/help my lady Masterbate!! Next time, hes jerking, just go dn on him, and you'll get his atttention!!
2007-11-15 00:21:57 · answer #5 · answered by happywjc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What was on the floor? You're making stuff up now
aren't you?
2007-11-14 21:27:41 · answer #6 · answered by WorldClassPlayer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've heard guys who have been in jail act that way.
2007-11-14 20:36:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too confusing for me!
2007-11-14 20:42:03 · answer #8 · answered by gloria b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have got to be "kid"ding!
2007-11-14 20:28:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
yeah that does sound weird, i don't get that either
2007-11-14 20:28:18 · answer #10 · answered by sexy joker 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋