Family & Relationships - 14 November 2007

The guy im in love with is having issues so were not talking right now..his best friend called me because were all friends from way back..so his friend ask me how me and him are doing and I give him the scoop on it all..me and my guy have been off and on for awhile ..his friend tells me that my guy is just afraid and i said why and he said because i have said all the right things and have done all the right things and that makes my guy scared..so in return my guy wants to let it go and run..wtf?? does anyone understand this..they are best friends for like 25yrs so he knows him more than anyone but still ..if a person did and was everything you wanted..then wouldn't that mean you would want to be with them?

2007-11-14 10:32:58 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband has always been the type that has to have SOMETHING in contact while we're sleeping at night. Just like his hand rested on my arm, or his foot touching my leg, no big deal, I've always thought it was sweet and have started to be the same way. Lately (and I am 8 and a half months pregnant, not that it should have anything to do w/ it) but lately, at night everytime I try to just rest my hand on his arm or something he jerks away or pushes me away. For some odd reason I feel like I'm disturbing his thoughts of another woman...am I being brash? Why all of the sudden does he NOT want to touch me? I don't think these are my pregnancy hormones, because it's just something I've noticed has been happening....could he possibly be thinking about other women because he's turned off by me being HUGE pregnant? We still have a sex life that he seems to be happy w/, so I don't think he would be seeking it elsewhere...any oppinions? Is it his time of the month? ;) ;)....THanks

2007-11-14 10:32:04 · 17 answers · asked by NewMommaStef 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-14 10:31:56 · 32 answers · asked by Adam S. 3 in Singles & Dating

Well - after a long (and hard - pun intended) dry spell, my wife and I FINALLY seem to be getting back on the same page with the sex frequency thing.

However - after a hot session las night, I half-jokingly refered to her (in a wisper out of ear shot of the kids), as my hot little MILF this morning as I was leaving for work.

Then when I talked to her over my lunch hour today, she brought up the fact that she thought is was rude of me to make such a comment to her ?!?!?

I said I was sorry, but I just want to know....

As a woman, if your husband refered (or refers) to you as a MILF, do you take this as a compliment or an insult ? I just found it odd that it bothered her so much. Afert all she is a mother (to our children) and I definitely like to *-*-*-* her !! So the description fits :)

2007-11-14 10:30:19 · 41 answers · asked by aa889d 5 in Marriage & Divorce

she is like one of my best friends.. we do everything together (i went on vacation with her family and tons more) and now she just told me that she is smoking with some of her other friends... i really dont kno what to do and i cant just act normal around her... please and thankyou

2007-11-14 10:30:04 · 4 answers · asked by pointegurlie7706 3 in Friends

2007-11-14 10:28:05 · 21 answers · asked by amac 1 in Marriage & Divorce

who do i address the proposal letter too? The council? The District?

Dear ?????

Thanks

2007-11-14 10:24:38 · 1 answers · asked by UBen564 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

If you can be any age what would it be and why? what is your age right now?

2007-11-14 10:23:01 · 12 answers · asked by Bando L 3 in Singles & Dating

ok so i'm getting married tomorrow, and i broke out so bad! what should i do? what will clear my face quick? i need something that will work! his family is coming in some i have never met i'm so stressed pleeease someone help me!

2007-11-14 10:22:57 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

There is this boy that I have been liking since the end of last year. I think he's cute and has a sweet personality to match. He's calm, nice, smart, and sweet. Much different from most guys. I have been trying to talk to him more and I see him opening up a little to me.

Last year,we wouldn't say a word to each other but now he jokes around with me from time to time. Its nice. I would like to become his girlfriend but I want to start first by building a nice stable friendship. Basically I want to get to know him more. So I don't really flirt with him much.

My problem is, is that many girls are starting to show interest in him. I'm afraid that their flirting might ruin any chances of him being interested in me. Since they're more out there.he might like them and go out with them. This means I might have to step up my game and flirt. I'm not sure if I'm comfortable enough to flirt with a guy that I don't know SO well. I might scare him off. Am I being silly?Flirting tips can help

2007-11-14 10:22:43 · 3 answers · asked by r0lling_days 3 in Singles & Dating

I cant find someone who care about me and i dont know how to feel love from guy and i really have a scare flaskback so i dont know aht should i do?

2007-11-14 10:18:18 · 13 answers · asked by xobabidancerox 1 in Singles & Dating

Are you interested in dating girls that have never had sex before? I am in my late 20's and I want to hold out till I'm married. I'm not bothered by it, but when I meet guys, that sort of freaks them out. They don't seem to want to wait. Am I a lost cause or are their guys out there wanting girls like me?
Thanks for your help!

2007-11-14 10:16:20 · 30 answers · asked by Truffle 1 in Singles & Dating

Guys, just because a girls uses a thong, do you assume automatically that she is into that Nasty Oral thingy?

2007-11-14 10:13:30 · 12 answers · asked by surfagirl 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-14 10:12:11 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i think that im realy ugly....yet i have a really cute boyfriend......i mean everyone says that im soo pretty...but i dont think that i am.......i think that my nose is too fat...i think that my teeth are wierd....i think that i jhave too many pimples...and i think that i have a horrible singing voice...wen some ppl say that its really good.....am i really ugly???......my boyfriend kept trying to take a picture of me because he doesnt have a picture of me yet....but i wouldnt let him....because as ugly as i think that i am in person...i think that i look even uglier in pictures.....????.....10 points for the best answer...!!!???.!?can someone please tell me if i really am ugly and ppl are lying to me....or is it all in my head....for real....dont just say its all in my head to be nice....tell me the truth and what you really think...dont hesitate...please and thank you!!!

2007-11-14 10:10:08 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

just asking

2007-11-14 10:09:04 · 4 answers · asked by Ashley J 4 in Singles & Dating

Me and this guy who works at a casino (host) stare/follow eachother all the time, he is sweet, and curteous to everyone. He had approached me a few times with a short "Hey" or "are you winning?". He stares ALOT btw. One day I sat next to a woman and she won 2000$, he witnessed it and started to conversate for 30 min with me and her. She was drunk and whispered if he would ever date me and he said 'oh ya". 20 min later he came up to me, lowered his head and said "I dont do this sort of thing often and i know you hear this from alot of guys but if you ever want to go out sometime..here is my card with my email." (his business card). I emailed the next day saying how are you and i would like to go out sometime (his work email) and he saw it when he got back (wednesday) and said he is glad I feel that way, suprised I already mailed him. Apologized in case he scared me that night, knows I get hit on alot but wants me to know he is a good guy. Even tho we don't know eachother is glad I am

2007-11-14 10:06:53 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-14 10:06:12 · 2 answers · asked by david 4 in Singles & Dating

my girlfriend is going to be getting a car for her birthday. it just happens to be my favorite car too.

im jealous and this feels like something too stupid to be jealous about. what should i do?

2007-11-14 10:05:51 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i went out with this girl then we broke up then we went out again. would she be my x girlfriend or xx girlfriend

2007-11-14 09:59:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

just wonderin

2007-11-14 09:59:42 · 23 answers · asked by a91mtl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

its a real wierd situation...

but me and my gf have been goin out almost 2 months and lately...she has never realy been the one to decide if we should hang out.... i always am

i barley EVER get to hangout with her.... i see her at school everyday but only for like 10 min or sooo ...

it seems like she never has time for me...
and it seems like that she dosent even try, to make time to be with me...

i get so lonely somtimes... im the one who always has to call her and try to get her to be with me...

but the wierd thing.. is when ever i do get to be wiht her.. things are GREAT .. i mean she makes me forget about everthing and she makes me feel wonderfull !!! =)

but yet..... she never realy trys to make time for me..
i dont know what to do.. or think ...

why would she like to hangout out with me... but not be willing to make time to hang out wit me ????

im soo confused

2007-11-14 09:59:22 · 8 answers · asked by kew 1 in Singles & Dating

what is an age that is to old to hang with?. what is your age?

2007-11-14 09:58:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-14 09:57:48 · 7 answers · asked by Only1Ronaldo 1 in Singles & Dating

talk to her a decent amount at school but not like a whole lot but not a little either.. anyway every weekend usually i have about 15 ppl over guys/girls. she usually comes. on this particular night we went down to watch tv in my basment on this big couch. i sat down first she sits beside me. i scooted over close to her and she didnt seem to mind. then we went outside and there are 2 patio couches out there. im sitting at one by myself and my friend ( the varsity high school qb that all the girls like) is on the other. she sits by me then at school on monday she says hey to me and squeezes my shoulder . usually i dont have trouble telling if a girl likes me or not but she is pretty shy and nervous around guys so this ones kinda hard to read then..
i told my friend i liked her and told him not to tell anyone because i wanted to feel her out over the next few weeks to see if i could tell if she liked me but anyway. my friend told everyone and now she knows what should i do????

2007-11-14 09:56:57 · 1 answers · asked by Bob T 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay so this guy comes up to me and says "do you know what this means" and he was like doing a push up looking thing while sitting. I think it means Pitching a tent, A saluting soldier or w/e. What does pitching a tent mean?


Wait, am i right so if a guy looks like hes doing a push up while sitting down like his hands are doing a push up in the air does it mean that "its pitching a tent" cause thats what someone said.

2007-11-14 09:54:04 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2 weekends ago, my longtime BF went to Austin to help his mom out with a trade show. I talked to him while he was there, and things seemed normal. He mentioned that he had gone out to see a show one night, and that the music was good, etc. etc. I didn't think anything of it. However, I just visited his myspace page, and there was a comment from a girl on there (a new person, who has not posted to his page before) who lives 20 mi. from Austin, saying, "Thanks for the pic comment, glad you liked it" - WTF? Who is this person? Is this some chick he met while he was out of town? I tried to link to her page, but it's private.

What do you think?

I posted this here, because people in this forum tend to be a little more adult than those in singles and dating - I don't need feedback from 13 year olds!

2007-11-14 09:50:53 · 51 answers · asked by HooliganGrrl 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-14 09:49:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to have my hubby and another man at the same time. Does this make me awful? I am 43 and have been having weird feelings like this for about a year.

2007-11-14 09:48:51 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a 1/2 hr drive for any big stores from where I live. I have to go this weekend to get a few personal items at Wal-mart.

Would it be better to go by myself and be bored or take my bf (only been hanging out a little over a month) and risk being embarrassed when he sees the personal items I need? If I take him we could take my dog for a nice walk, have someone to talk to on the long drive and have a nice lunch someplace.

I don't need anything gross or anything just basic personal hygene stuff.

2007-11-14 09:47:34 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating