its a real wierd situation...
but me and my gf have been goin out almost 2 months and lately...she has never realy been the one to decide if we should hang out.... i always am
i barley EVER get to hangout with her.... i see her at school everyday but only for like 10 min or sooo ...
it seems like she never has time for me...
and it seems like that she dosent even try, to make time to be with me...
i get so lonely somtimes... im the one who always has to call her and try to get her to be with me...
but the wierd thing.. is when ever i do get to be wiht her.. things are GREAT .. i mean she makes me forget about everthing and she makes me feel wonderfull !!! =)
but yet..... she never realy trys to make time for me..
i dont know what to do.. or think ...
why would she like to hangout out with me... but not be willing to make time to hang out wit me ????
im soo confused
2007-11-14 09:59:22 · 8 answers · asked by kew 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if she cares for you and about you, she would make time
for her.
find a girl you like and who has no problem making time for you.
2007-11-14 10:06:32 · answer #1 · answered by Jerry S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes when a girl knows a guy likes her,,,she will take him for granted. A girl like this needs to know what it feels like to lose you for a while. She needs to understand that you're not going to sit around waiting for her to make time for you.
Stand up MAN! go out and meet some other girls. Date other girls, that will keep you busy and will help you to stop thinking of her so much!!!!Anyway, you're young and you have a lot of life to live during these wonderful school days. Too much life to be sitting there worrying about one girl for goodness sakes.
These guys who commented on here, listen to them closely. They're right.
Bring up the notch on your self-respect and stop wasting time with someone who doesn't feel the same way you do.
IMPORTANT QUESTION: Why would you want to be with someone who doesn't feel it's important to make time for you?
2007-11-14 10:12:16 · answer #2 · answered by All That Glitters isn't Gold 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-16 08:48:07 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 months isn't a very long time to be seeing someone. perhaps your gf had a lot of things going on in her life before you two started being gf/bf. maybe you have more free time than her. she enjoys you. i would just give it time. it's not such a big deal that you have to be the one to try to get ya's together. i feel the more you get to know one another.......this whole thing will work itself out. you'll be fine, stop worrying so much.
2007-11-14 10:13:23 · answer #4 · answered by carol 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-11-14 10:05:39 · answer #5 · answered by mobius_x1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you ahould try talking to her. Then ask her on a date. I f that doesn't work then it might mean she is going through a lot of stress right now so....... don't jet your hopes down.
2007-11-14 10:21:16 · answer #6 · answered by Erin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's just busy with her studies or work if she's working, she doesn't want maybe to get too much involved seriously because maybe you and her we're too young for some serious relationship so she's taking it easy until your both old enough and stable enough to get serious.
2007-11-14 10:09:56 · answer #7 · answered by Blossoms 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
she is hanging on to you until some one better comes along.Ignore her for a while and you will see what she really wants
2007-11-14 10:05:10 · answer #8 · answered by dan b 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋